Kodi mumaganizira za chakuti kumverera kosatsimikizika mu kuthekera kwawo kungakhale mnzake kwa anthu opambana kwambiri? Akatswiri azamisamu amatcha chodabwitsachi "saboborus syndrome" - munthu sangathe kuyesa kuchita bwino akatswiri, ngakhale atayamika ndi kuzindikira kuti sanalandire chiyani. Mwanjira ina, izi zitha kufaniziridwa ndi kufuna kuchita zinthu mosalakwitsa, koma okonda kuchita chilichonse "nthawi zambiri" nthawi zambiri amamvetsetsa zomwe akuyesetsa ndikudziwa za kupambana kwawo, zomwe sizinganenedwe za "onyenga".
Momwe "amabadwa" otetezeka
Akatswiri amavomereza kuti kusatsimikizika kwa mtundu uliwonse wopatsa umunthu wathu muubwana wake: makolo ndi akulu ena, omwe malingaliro awo, ndipo amalimbikitsa mwana, ndipo amaganiza nanu. Monga momwe mungathere, zoyeserera, m'magulu osiyanasiyana a ana ndi masewera, lingaliro lokhala bwino likukula kuposa enawo - motere mu motere, nthawi zonse. Imagwira ntchito kutali ndi mwana aliyense, ndipo ngati wina adzakankha m'moyo wa Akuluakulu, ndiye kuti mwana wina adzayamba kukhala wamkulu zomwe zingachitike chinyengo, koma sichikulandira chitsimikiziro chosintha, koma ngakhale pamenepa Munthu sangavomereze bwino zotsatira zake - anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la sindrome amakhala ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi kutsutsa.
Kodi ndizotheka kulimbana ndi chikhalidwe chomwe chimalepheretsa kupanga ntchito yabwino kwambiri
Zimakhala zovuta kuthana ndi vuto la akatswiri. Zachidziwikire, ndibwino kupeza malingaliro a katswiri yemwe adzasanthule mphindi zosasangalatsa kwambiri ndi inu, zomwe zimalepheretsa kudzitengera nokha ngati katswiri, komabe mutha kuyesa kudzimvetsetsa.
Phunzirani kuvomereza zomwe mwakwanitsa
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Dziloleni Kwambiri
Aliyense wa ife akulakwitsa, pamafunika kumveredwa ndikuvomereza - palibe munthu amene amachita chilichonse mwangwiro. Mukangozindikira kuti ungwiro amakhalapo m'mutu mwanu, mudzakhala mukuzindikira kuti ntchitoyi iyenera kuchitika bwino, komanso palibe amene amaletsa kuchita zabwino, komanso Kutsutsidwa kovuta kuyenera kuchepetsedwa, apo ayi mungozi kuwonjezera pa kusatetezeka kuti ukhale ndi vuto la neurotic.
Osawopa kugawana ndi okondedwa
Palibe chomwe chimathandiza kudziwa nthawi zovuta kwambiri za moyo monga kuchirikiza anthu apamtima. Komabe, ndikofunikira kusankha kusankha anthu omwe ali ndi chidaliro, apo ayi mavuto anu amatha kukhala pagulu ngati wothandizirana nawo sangathetse lilime. Koma mnzake wapamtima ndi omvetsera mwabwino. Funsani msonkhano ndikugawana naye zokumana nazo, mwina mnzanuyo apereka upangiri womwe ungasinthe malingaliro anu mozama. Komabe, yesetsani osasankhidwa osapititsa anthu okondedwa - dziwani muyeso m'chilichonse.
Lembani nthawi zabwino zonse
Akatswiri azamisala amagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zambiri ndi njirayi, yomwe imalola kuyang'anitsitsa kupambana kwawo ndikuzindikira. Sankhani tsiku lomwe simukufunika kufulumira kulikonse ndikukhala pansi polemba: Kumbukirani mphindi zonse zofunika kwambiri m'moyo wanu, nthawi zambiri, zimasankha zomwe wachita akatswiri. Pakadali pano mukazindikira kukayikira, kudutsa pakati pa ophatikizika ndipo mudzazindikira momwe malingaliro osatsimikizika adzayamba kupita kudera. Yesani!