Mwamuna nthawi zonse amakhala mwana amene palibe chofunikira kwambiri kuposa zomwe amakonda kuchita komanso zoseweretsa zake. Chifukwa chake, musanayese kufotokoza lingaliro limodzi kapena wina, muyenera kuyang'ana kwambiri zoseweretsa izi, ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mumvere, amvere, kufunsa mafunso ena, poganiza mozama, koopsa kapena koopsa ( kutengera momwe zinthu ziliri). Kulankhula za zomwe zili pafupi ndi iye, ndikudabwa kuti amamvetsetsa chiyani, ndipo, kuwona chidwi chenicheni, amapuma komanso kukutengerani monga munthu wapafupi.
Mwinanso osati ngati chinthu chaching'ono, chomwe sichili chowopsa, chifukwa sichikhala ndi mkazi nthawi zonse ndi mkazi yemwe angakhale, akufuna kuyankhula komanso kwambiri kuti apange ubale. Inde, ndipo sitifuna munthu kuti atigone. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti muli ndi iye pa funde lomwelo, ndipo adakonza crane popanda waya, kukonzanso mipando kapena yofinya pagalimoto yamatalala.
Ngati muyenera kulabadira anthu, chifukwa iye ankakonda, ndiye kuti, muyenera kukumbukira kuti munthu uyu ndi mwana yemwe amafunikira kuzindikira, chikondi ndi chisamaliro. Ndikufuna chonde - bweretsani kutentha kwanu konse, kukoma mtima ndi kudekha. Chachikulu sicho kuyimira osalira. Ngakhale ana omwe ndi ana sakonda izi. Mawu ofatsa komanso kumwetulira mwachikondi kumatsimikiziridwa kuti akope chidwi chake, komanso kukonzekera kumvetsera mwatcheru, iye adzakuthokoza kwambiri. Kuti mukamayankhula, mutha kuphunzira zambiri zothandiza za izi.
Zimachitika kuti kumvetsetsana kumasodwa m'magulu awiriawiri kwa nthawi yayitali. Kukhala kwa nthawi yayitali, anthu a adzakhala osagwirizana, akuwasiyane wina ndi mnzake, ndipo ngati salankhula nthawi - amakhala wina ndi mnzake. Anthu omwe amakhala palimodzi. Kuti mupewe izi, muyenera kusintha nthawi ndi nthawi. Ndiponso, nthawi ndi nthawi, sinthani tsitsi, chizolowezi cha tsikulo, konzekerani mbale zatsopano, zimasinthiratu zojambulazo kapena nthawi zina zimakonzedwa pang'ono. Ndipo m'zinthu zonsezi kanikizana nazo zimakhudza mkazi wawo, osati monga wolipira, komanso monga munthu amene, m'lingaliro, sadakalipo, zomwe zimachitika kwa mkazi wake kapena nyumba. Ngakhale mutasankha kale zonse, muyenera kulangizidwa kuti mudzifunse ndekha, nthawi zina mungafunseni chisankho chofunikira, mwachitsanzo, komwe ana ake angaphunzire zomwe galimoto yotsatira muyenera kugula nthawi yachilimwe t. d. Mverani iye ndikumvera. Ayenera kumva kufunikira kwake, kufunikira kwake sikungokhala kokha, osatinso zochuluka, chifukwa Iye chifukwa cha malingaliro ake, koma chifukwa ndi malingaliro ake, chifukwa ndi munthu. Kupanda kutero, sikuti kumvetsetsana kumadzayika, komanso munthu yemweyo. Ndipo izi sizingaloledwe, kodi nzoona?