Okondedwa owerenga!
Kuyambira lero timatsegula watsopano ndipo, osati kubisala, mutu wapadera. Za maloto. Ino si buku lolota lomwe limapezeka pakusintha kulikonse. Sitinganene kuti ng'ombe kapena chimanga chikulota chiyani. Kutanthauzira kofananako kuli ngati zopeka. Tikufuna kunena kuti: Maloto angafunike kudziwa njira yoti angakuthandizeni m'moyo. Kutengera ndi kuti kugona ndi njira yapadera, yaumwini yothetsera mavuto athu ndi ntchito.
Ndiloleni ndidziwitse ndekha. Dzina langa ndi Maria zemkova. Ndine wamisala, amathandizira pabanja komanso kuderakulikira kwa kukula kwamunthu. Mu ntchito yanga, ndimakonda kumva nkhani za anthu pazomwe adalota. Nthawi zambiri, kugona motero amapezeka munthu, chifukwa ziyenera kuchitidwa munthawi ina. Chifukwa chake kutanthauzira kolondola ndikofunikira kuthetsa vutoli.
Ndiye tiyeni tiyambe! Kodi tiyenera kudziwa chiyani za maloto kuti akhale bwino mwa iwo?
Kugona ndi msewu wachifumu kwa osazindikira. Motero agogo a agogo amatola. Pogwira kwake ntchito "kutanthauzira maloto ake" kwayamba kufananitsa izi. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti malotowo ndi opanga psyche yathu, kapena m'malo mwake, zikhumbo zosazindikira, zokhumba ndi mikangano. Kugona kuli ngati zongopeka, mosiyana ndi izi, titha kungoyerekeza. Koma ndithudi, kugona kumakhala kokha komanso kwa ife. Chifukwa chake, ndibwino kuti musagwiritse ntchito maloto apamwamba kwambiri. Chithunzi chomwecho m'maloto kwa munthu aliyense chikuimira maphwando osiyanasiyana.
"Ndalota zamkhutu!" Mawu awa anthu ambiri adayamba nkhani yokhudza kugona kosakhumudwitsa. Ngakhale kuti kugona nthawi zonse sikumatha kupezeka kwa malamulo a malingaliro ndipo nthawi zambiri kumakhala kowoneka bwino. Titha kulota kuti timauluka. Wina wa ife anachita mantha, ndipo wina angakondweretse. Chinsinsi cha kugona ndi malingaliro ndi momwe timakumana nazo.
"Ndinali ndi vuto! Kodi china chake chingachitike kwa ine? "
Akatswiri azamankhwala, mwatsatanetsatane amawerenga maloto, kukangana kugona kumatithandiza kuthana ndi zovuta zamaganizidwe nthawi ya moyo komanso tsiku lililonse. Ngati titakwiya, anakhumudwa, anachita mantha ndi winawake ndipo anayesa kuyiwala za izi, m'maloto akutithandizanso kuti mudziwe malingaliro amenewa sikubwereranso kwa iwo. Kugona ndi makamba. Amatithandiza kuthana ndi zovuta zina.
"Sindimalota chilichonse".
Kugona kwathu ndi kwaanomiyeous. Imakhala ndi magawo ena: mwachangu komanso osachedwa. Pa gawo pang'onopang'ono, sitikuwona maloto. Panthawi yake, thupi lathu limapuma. Pa gawo mwachangu pali "kuyambiranso" kwa psyche yathu. Tikuwona maloto ochepa. Amakhulupirira kuti kudzutsidwa kosangalatsa kumachitika nthawi yomweyo pambuyo pa gawo lofulumira. Pakadali pano tikukumbukira maloto athu mwatsatanetsatane.
Ngati mukulephera kukumbukira malotowo, ndiye kuti mudzuke mu gawo limenelo. Yesani kupita koyambirira kuti musinthe pang'ono.
Ngati mukudziwa luso losavuta kutanthauzira, mutha kudina maloto ngati mtedza. Tikambirana za iwo m'nkhani zotsatirazi.
Pakadali pano - maloto osangalatsa!
Maria Zemkova, wamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso kutsogolera kukhazikika kwa kukula kwa malo ogulitsira marika Hazin.
Kodi unalota kugona, ndipo mukufuna Maria kuti azitseka patsamba lathu? Kenako tumizani mafunso anu ndi imelo [email protected].