Ngakhale anali ndi moyo wogonanapo, 10% okha mwa anthu achikazi am dziko lathu ali okhutira ndi mtundu wa kugonana. Nthawi zambiri, atsikanawa amafotokoza zovuta zapadera ndi thupi lawo, ngakhale zifukwa zake zingakhale zambiri, kuphatikizapo vutolo likhoza kukhala mwa mnzake.
Mavuto omwe ali ndi akatswiri okhutitsidwa amagawidwa m'magulu angapo - m'maganizo ndi malingaliro. Ganizirani zifukwa zomveka kwambiri zomwe ambiri angadziphunzire komanso kuchita zinthu zoyenera.
Atsikana amayamba kudzipha popanda kumvetsetsa vutoli
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Mtsikana satenga thupi lake
Miyezo Yabwino yomwe imatiponyera magazini ndi mapulogalamu a pa TV, pang'onopang'ono, koma mupheni kudzidalira kwa mkazi aliyense. Zimafika poti azimayi amayamba kuona zomwe sizili kwenikweni: kutsiriza kwathunthu, miyendo yayifupi, zilembo zingapo zotaka kumapeto kwa dziko. Monga mukumvetsetsa, vutoli limakhudzana ndi zamaganizidwe, kotero m'malo mwa zakudya zosafunikira komanso kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lokhala ndi malingaliro odzikuza, ndipo katswiri wogonana wabwino amagwira ntchitoyo kuti Macheza anu omasuka sazunza.
Yesetsani kuti musasokonezedwe ndi malingaliro owonjezereka.
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Mtsikanayo samadziwa za thupi Lake
Choyambitsa chachiwiri chotchuka kwambiri ndi "kugona" mfundo zonyansa. Izi zimachitika kawirikawiri kwa amayi omwe adayambitsa moyo wogonana mochedwa kapena kucheza kwambiri kumachitika kawirikawiri.
Zikatero, masewera olimbitsa thupi amathandiza bwino, omwe amalimbikitsa minofu yofunikira, tamverani nkhaniyi mozama, "Dziwani nokha.
Atsikana amafuna kuwongolera
Zina zamaganizidwe ", zomwe muyenera kumenya nkhondo, ngati simukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito moyo wanga wonse m'malo osakhutira. Timalingalira kwambiri za momwe timawonekera mu chinthu chimodzi kapena china, chomwe chimagwiranso ntchito: m'malo mongoyang'ana pa njirayi, atsikana amaganiza za nkhope zawo kapena ngati tsitsi lomwazika kapena ayi. Phunzirani kudzilola kuti mupite nthawi ngati kuti mnzanuyo atakusankhani, ndiye kuti mwakonzedwa mu "zifanizo" zonse.
Malingaliro anu ndiopanda chipinda chogona
Chovuta kwambiri kuponyera zovuta zapakhomo pamutu: timaganizira za mayankho awo, ngakhale m'maloto. Vomerezani, nkovuta kuyang'ana pa bambo wanga yemwe akuyembekezera yankho kuchokera kwa inu pomwe tsiku la ngongole limalipira pamutu.
Yesani kuphunzira kusintha pa mfundo yoyenera: siyani mavuto onse kumbuyo kwa nyumbayo. Monga ofiira O'hara adati: "Ndiganiza za mawa."
Munthu wanu wakonzekera kukulandirani mu "zifanizo" zilizonse
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Mukusowa ziphuphu
Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zimakhudza kutulutsidwa kwa mazira achilengedwe: chifukwa moyo umakhala ndi mankhwala. Koma azimayi amakonda kuimba thupi lawo, poganiza kuti sanali bwino naye ndipo nthawi zonse. Pankhaniyi, mufunika kukambirana katswiri wazachipatala, womwe udzachititsa mayesero onse ofunikira ndikuzindikira bwino zomwe zikuchitika.
Pakadali pano, simunachotsere kuwuma kwambiri, pezani mafuta mu mankhwalawa kuti musaphwanye moyo wanthawi zonse.