- Nadezhda Georgievna, nthawi zambiri mumayimba nyimbo zodabwitsa za chikondi, ndipo mukuganiza kuti aliyense amapatsidwa bwanji kuti amvepo izi?
- Zedi. Ambuye amapereka mphotho kumverera konse, koma, mwatsoka, si aliyense amene angadzutse izi komanso kumudalira. Popanda chikondi, moyo umakhala waimvi, wotopetsa, kotero ndimalakalaka aliyense m'moyo wofuna kukonda ndi kuvutika, chifukwa popanda kuvutika.
- Koma mavuto amaphwanya mtima, komanso wina ndi moyo. Si onse omwe ali pansi pa mphamvu ya zokumana nazo zachikondi.
"Munthu akavutika, ankawoneka kuti adzuke, akuyamba kuda nkhawa, kuganiza." Enitoni amafalikira m'mphepete, nkhondo imayamba, munthuyo amakumana ndi zokumana nazo, kulimba, amayamba kuphunzira zonse.
Nthawi zina munthu amalandidwa chikondi, motero zimamukhumudwitsa pomwe mtima wake ukutha, chifukwa amavutika, nthawi yomweyo amamvetsetsa kuti munthuyo ali moyo! Ngati kulibe zinthu izi, motero tikadapita pamoyo uliwonse m'moyo wosaganizira, ndi maso opanda kanthu.
Ndipo, chifukwa cha moyo wake, munthu amayamba mwachikondi ndi nthawi ina, chikondi chowala, chimazirala, kenako chimawaliranso. Uyu ndi umagwirira, komanso momwe timadziwira momwe kumverera uku kumakhalira ndi komwe kumazimiririka. Kuti iye ndi moyo amvetsetse.
- Kodi ndiyenera kuchita chiyani, kodi izi zikanasutani?
- Kuti tisunge malingaliro osalimbawa, ndikofunikira kuti aliyense ali ndi malo awo aufulu.
Anthu onse ku kubadwa ndi anzawo osudzulana ndi ena, koma atayamba kukhalira limodzi ndi kupanga banja, ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti ulemu ndi kumvetsetsana ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri. Palibenso chifukwa "kuponya" pa mnzake wa netiweki, palibe amene adzapeza aliyense pa chuma chake. Ena amaganiza kuti ndimayika sitampu m'pasipoti, tsopano mutha kukhala ndi "supuni", ndipo ndizosatheka kuchita izi, muyenera kulemekeza ndi kulemekeza anthu oterowo. Koma kumvetsetsa kuti banja ndi oyera, komanso kubereka izi, kuti amvetsetse kuti mawu oti "kukhulupirika" si mawu opanda kanthu. Ndinayamba kulingalira pamene inakhwima, ndipo patakhala wachichepere - wopusa amagawidwa patsogolo panga. Kusunthira zolakwitsa zambiri. Koma mukufuna inu mukufuna.
Nadezhda Babkin: "Ndimakonda nthawi zonse." Chithunzi: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
- Kodi mukukumbukira chikondi chanu choyamba?
"Zinali kale kale, koma timakonda nthawi zambiri, ndine mkazi wabwinobwino, ndidayamba kukondana, kusiya chilichonse ngati wina aliyense. Atolankhani sangathe kukhazika mtima pansi, aliyense amasangalala ndi mutu wanga, chifukwa ndimakhala ndi mwamuna wanga. Ndinena kuti ndandichitira zabwino kwa zaka khumi ndi chimodzi m'moyo wanga, aliyense athawire pamoyo wanga, ndikulangizani aliyense kuti ayambe kukhazikitsa moyo wanu.
- Mukuganiza kuti chikondi cha mibadwo yonse ndi chogonjera kapena muubwana chiti chimakhala chopanda chikondi?
"Mukudziwa, mwina palibe cholakwika, ngati anthu awiri osungulumwa adzakumana kumapeto kwa moyo wawo, adzabwera palimodzi ndikukongoletsa chilichonse. Chikuchitika ndi chiyani? M'kukula, anthu amafunanso kukhala osangalala, amafunikira chisamaliro, chisangalalo chosavuta tsiku ndi tsiku.
Apa ndili ndi azakhali omwe amakonda, ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi zitatu, ine, ndikayitanira kukondera, nthawi zonse ndimafuna kukonda. Amandiyankha kuti: "Nadia, chikondi chanji? Ndinzu ozerezeka? Chilichonse chimapweteka, chilichonse ndi chiwomba, koma poganizira nkhani yachiwiri: "Koma sindikudandaula, moswa, chifukwa ndimakonda moyo." Mawu akulu ameneyo anati: "Ndimakonda moyo."
Mwamuna uyu wokalamba akhoza kukonda, koposa ana. Apa mukuyenera kukangana kuchokera kwa omwe malingalirowa ndi olimba.
- Kodi mukukonda tsopano?
"Nthawi zonse ndimakhala mchikondi, apo ayi sindingathe kupanga gulu labwino kwambiri la" nyimbo yaku Russia "ndikuwala kwambiri pa siteji. Nkhani zathu nthawi zonse zimakhala tchuthi, nthawi zonse mphatso kwa wowonera, osachita manyazi ndi mawu otere.
- Nditangokambirana za mphatso, pepani chifukwa cha funso lanyumba, ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe mwasankha kwa Evgen?
"Ndimakonda pamene Zhenya atapereka makandulo osiyanasiyana." Ali ndi kubereka kandulo yaying'ono ndipo kumayambitsa makandulo pa mafuta omwe amapanga zachikondi, gwiritsani ntchito bwino kwa tchuthi m'nyumba. Pali makandulo omwe amatsindika, pali zifukwa. Ndidapereka atsikana anga onse kuyesa izi, adazikonda. Iye ali wa chikhulupiriro chabwino kuti azigwira ntchito, ndipo mutha kuunika kanthu kalikonse, sizingati fungo labwino kwambiri. Pali makandulo akukweza malingaliro anu kudzutsa, akupsa mtima, chilichonse chimaganiziridwa. Chifukwa chake palibe mphatso kwa ine.
- Makandulo agwedeza chilakolako, muyenera kuphika chinthu chokoma. Kodi munthu wokondedwa wanu ndi ndani?
- Mukudziwa, kuti ndikhale woona mtima, sindimakonzeka kukomerera mwadala, ndipo palibe chilichonse chophika changa cha Zhenya. Iye anati: "Ndi kosatheka kudya, ndikonzekere ndekha." Ndikundiyendetsa kukhitchini.
Panakonzekere poyamba momwe - Nadia Babkina sakanaphika. Koma ngati Iye anati, sindimakonda, sizingachitike. Anachita izi kuti timapita kumalo odyera, ku cafe, pali chakudya cha kukoma kulikonse, osati kukangana, iye, chifukwa cha izi.
Nadezhda Babkin ndi Lev Leshchenko. Chithunzi: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
- Mumamupatsa chiyani?
- Sindikonda zinthu mnyumbamo, sindingathe kupirira zinyalala zosafunikira, zopanda tanthauzo. Kwa ife, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndikupanga mawonekedwe mnyumbamo, kuti tipeze moyo m'nyumba, kuti tipeze moyo wabwino patchuthi, kuti timve ndikubwera ndi china chake. Tsopano pali ochepa omwe angatha. Kwenikweni, anzanga amafunsidwa kuti: "Munapereka chiyani ndipo zimawononga ndalama zingati?", Koma zikuwoneka kuti zimawononga ndalama zambiri? ", Koma zikuwoneka kuti zimawononga ndalama zambiri, mosaganizira, mutha kukhumudwitsa munthu.
Koma kukonza tchuthi kuti mzimu utupa, ndipo ndikukumbukira moyo wanga wonse, izi ndizofunika kwa ine.
Kwa ine, chitsanzo ndi makolo anga omwe ali ndi makolo anga omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi miyambo pomwe panali ndalama zochepa, koma ndimafuna kusangalatsa mwanayo kuchokera pansi pamtima. Ndipo pano motsutsana ndikuyesera kuti apange mphatso, koma alibe mzimu.
- Nadezhda Georgievna, muli ndi mgwirizano wokondweretsa ndi omwe mwasankha, chifukwa cha kaduka ka adani onse, pepani chifukwa cha funso ngati chikondi chimapita, kodi mungakondenso kukondanso?
- ndipo ndani amene akudziwa chifukwa chake. Palibe chomwe chingawonekere.