Kugawana kulikonse kumaphatikizapo chisokonezo champhamvu chomwe chingayambitse kukhumudwa kwenikweni. Komabe, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti kusiyana kwa moyo sikumatha kwa moyo wonse ndipo sikutanthauza kuti musiye kuyang'ana bwenzi labwino. Tikukuuzani kuti muyenera kukumbukira, kukhala mu vuto lotere.
khalani osavuta kubwereketsa
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Mwamuna uyu sanali wabwino kwambiri
Mwambiri, ndizosatheka kupeza munthu wabwino yemwe angakukwaniritse inu mwamtheratu pachilichonse, komabe muyenera kuyesetsa kuyesetsa kukhala ndi anthu omwe muli nawo otetezeka.
Ngati mutatha, zimangotanthauza kuti sangathe kupeza zofanana mu gawo limodzi kapena zingapo, koma izi sizitanthauza kuti simuyenera kuyesetsa kukhala mogwirizana, koma ndi munthu wina.
Ngati mukulimba, ndiye kuti mwamenya nkhondo
Kumbukirani kuti ambiri amangoponya chilichonse ndikupita, osayesa kukhazikitsa ubale. Zowona kuti simunalankhulebe za chifuniro chanu cha chifuniro ndi chikondi chenicheni, chomwe ndi chodabwitsa, sichingatheke. Inde, zotsatira zake zili zokhumudwitsa, koma kuyesako kumawerengedwa nthawi zonse.
Osasiya kuyang'ana mnzake woyenera
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Osakoka m'mbuyomu muubwenzi wamtsogolo
Payenera kukhala nthawi yomwe mungasankhenso kumangiriza moyo wanu ndi munthu wosangalatsa. Anthu ambiri sangabwere kwa iwo okha, kusiya zinthu, ndipo limodzi ndi katunduyu amalowa mu gulu latsopano, lomwe limalepheretsa kumanga kwa chisangalalo.
Siyani ubale wolephera kumene malowa akukumbukira. Madandaulo okhazikika pa momwe sizinali bwino ndi inu kamodzi, sizingafune kusangalatsa msuzi wanu watsopano.
Amoyo pokhapokha ngati mukufuna
Mkhalidwe wotchuka pomwe mkazi akuyesera kuti asinthidwe kuti akumbukire zomwe zawonongeka, koma sizoyenera kutengera izi: Zotheka, munthu wayamba kale moyo watsopano, choncho Kuyesera kudzakhala kopanda ntchito konse. Ndikwabwino kugwira ntchito pazinthu zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi inu nokha.
Gap ikhoza kuwulula mbali zanu zoyipa za munthuyo
Nthawi zambiri timamva nkhani za mnzake wovutika kapena mnzake yemwe sakanatha kupirira poyimitsa ndikuyamba moyo: Uno ndi moyo wosankha, mowa ndi chilichonse chomwe chimakhala chovuta.
Kumbukirani kuti munthawi iliyonse yomwe muyenera kukhala m'manja mwanu, mutha kuchotsa anthu omwe angakupatseni thandizo lanu.
Gap - osati kutha kwa dziko
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Mudzaona izi zenizeni za anzanu
Anthu nthawi zonse amakopeka komwe kuli kosangalatsa komanso kusasamala, koma ochepa amakhala okonzeka kuyandikira kwa munthu yemwe adakumana ndi vuto losasangalatsa. Anzanu ambiri safuna kuwona momwe mumakhalira mtundu wachisoni komanso munthu wabwino kwambiri, chifukwa chake yesetsani kupewa kulankhulana. Komabe, ndi zokumana nazo zokha zomwe zingakupatseni chidwi ndi omwe muyenera kupitiriza.