Moyo wachiwiri umatchedwa kuti anthu amalimbikira ntchito zawo. Kodi nthawi zambiri zimayamba bwanji? Tonse ndife ophunzirira, timapeza maphunziro, kukonza kugwirira ntchito, kenako ... Masana ayambira, zomwe zachisoni ndi maloto athu nthawi zambiri amasweka. Pazifukwa zina, sitimakhala mabwana akulu, ndipo ngati tikuwongolera m'thumba lanu, sizibweretsa chisangalalo ndi chikhutiro chomwe tafunafuna. Ndipo tsopano maloto a ntchito amasandulika kukhala maudindo anthawi zonse, chovuta chomwe timakoka tsiku lililonse. Kodi ndizosiyana? Kumene! Timanena za momwe zimachitikira komanso zomwe muyenera kuchita chifukwa cha izi.
Mukukumbukira momwe zinaliri? Ife, tating'onoting'ono, kotero tikufuna kukula posachedwa kuti dziko lonse lapansi ndi mwayi wawo wofesa utoto wa ife! Zinkawoneka kuti titha kupita kokha, tinali oyenera kumaliza kumaliza sukulu. Akatswiri amisala amatitsimikizira kuti: Asanafike zaka makumi asanu ndi anayi pa sukulu ya dzulo, amalowa moyo wachikulire ndi kumverera kwa chinthu chenicheni, chamatsenga, kwanthawi yayitali. Amanenedwa pamakina osalephereka komanso kupitilira apo: kwa zaka khumi atamasulidwa, sekondi iliyonse imakhala ndi nkhawa yolemedwa, iliyonse yachitatu imadziwika ndi kukhumudwa kapena kuvutika maganizo. Pafupifupi onsewa amadandaula kuti kutopa, kugona, kuchepa kwa libido. Osati chithunzi chosangalatsa kwambiri, sichoncho? Makamaka ngati mukukumbukira kuti tikulankhula achinyamata pafupifupi zaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu. Ndipo m'malo otere, iwo akunja anachita zonse zabwino: malipiro okhazikika, ogwiritsa ntchito bwino, abwenzi abwino ... , anthu omwe sanawone vuto lake lomwe silinawonekere, linagwira ntchito, linagwira ntchito ... Zimakhala zovuta kukhulupirira kuti moyo wathu wachiwiri, womwe timapereka nthawi yambiri ya moyo wathu waukulu ndi zovuta . Koma kodi palibe njira yopulumukira ndikusintha china chake kale mu ukalamba? Zachidziwikire, ndizotheka, koma chifukwa cha izi ndikofunikira kubwerera ku magwerowo.
Zoyenera kuchita ngati mwazindikira kuti sachita ndi bizinesi yanu, koma simungathe kuthamangira kunja ndi mutu wanu?
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Kuyambira paubwana ntchito.
... Ndipo tsopano, kwa sekondi, kulingalira zomwe zili kwa wachinyamata wazaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi - kuzindikira kuti posachedwa iye ayenera kusankha molakwika, ndipo zolakwa zonse zingayende "? Pansi pa "Ayi", kumene, kusada kumamveka bwino chifukwa cha osagwira ntchito kapena oyipitsitsa, ntchito ya Yenitor. Onsewa amadziulitsanso nkhawa dzulo la sukulu. Ndipo chimachitika ndi chiyani? Pokakamizidwa ndi makolo ndi anthu, kuthamanga kwa omaliza maphunziro kuti alandire mawonekedwe aliwonse omwe adzatha "kufikira". Zachidziwikire, zinali zochepera kwambiri kuwombera koteroko ku chandamale kumachitika mu cholinga, ndipo pa kafukufuku wophunzira wophunzirayo, kusakhutira kumayamba kukopedwa.
Mwa njira, ambiri sazindikira kuti china chake sichoncho chifukwa chakuti moyo wachipani ku University: Udindo watsopano, anzatsopano, zovuta sizimazindikira kuti kusankha komwe kumapangidwa mwamwayi sikubweretsa chisangalalo. Ndipo moyo wabanja umayambira, ndipo palibe nthawi yoti muganize, momwe mumakhalira, monga momwe amanenera, tsopano ndiwe kholo lomwe likudziwa bwino, ndipo mwana wanu amakakamizidwa kuvomereza lingaliro Lake.
Nkhani Yabwino: Ndikotheka kuthawa kuchokera kuzungulira bwaloli, komabe, chinthu choyamba muyenera kulimba mtima ndikuvomereza mavuto anu. Mudzadabwa, koma osati kumangochita izi, chifukwa zovuta za ntchito ya ntchito nthawi zonse zimasunthidwa kumbuyo. Ndikukumbukira, wina wa omwe ndinamudziwa adauzidwa kuti amathandizidwa ndi iye kampani yayikulu ndikuyamba ntchito yoimba. Mwanjira ina pathe pambuyo pa tsiku lovuta lomwe limayang'ana mndandanda wa "Anzanu", pomwe wa ngwazi, chandler, mwadzidzidzi adasiya kuntchito. Anamugwira Iye zaka zochepa ndipo kenako kwenikweni. Chibwenzi changa chinauziridwa ndi nkhaniyi ndipo adataya malo ake tsiku lomwelo. Zinakhala zosavuta kuzivuta, zosavuta kuposa zomwe Paulo adaimira.
Kupewa kokhazikika kumachitika nthawi zonse komanso kumatha masiku okhazikika pomwe mutha kukhala mu mzere ndi wophiphiritsa kuti muchepetse kuntchito.
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Zachidziwikire, zenizeni ndipo zowerengeka zidakhala pafupifupi zonse. Ndalama zochokera ku Pasa zidatha, adayamba kupanga ndalama kutali, koma chisangalalo, kulimba mtima ndi komwe mnyamatayo adagwirizana nawo, adamuthandiza kuti achotse manja ake. Mumakambirana nafe, adakumbukira kuti nthawi zonse amafuna kulowa koleji ya nyimbo, koma makolo ake ndi aphunzitsi ake adalimbikira kulandira manejala apadera.
Kunena motsimikiza, nkhaniyi nthawi zonse imandipangitsa kukaika pamanja. Chithunzichi ndichabwino kwambiri: kalaliki wozunzidwa akuzunzidwa, amaponyera chilichonse ndikuchita bwino mu gawo latsopano. Chiwembu chabwino kwambiri cha filimuyi, koma zenizeni tonsefe timalemedwa ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe sizingachitike chifukwa cha tsogolo labwino lomwe silingabwere. Momwe mungachitire ngati mwazindikira kuti sachita ndi bizinesi yawo, koma simungathe kuthamangira kunja ndi mutu wanu?
Akatswiri azachipembedzo amalangizidwa kwambiri kuti ayambe ... ndi zosangalatsa! Mudzachitapo kanthu pazomwe mumamukonda, pomwe simukulipira malipiro awa. Kumbukirani kuti njira yopita kwa magawo chikwi zimayamba ndi imodzi, musadzikwanitse, lolani kuti nthawi isakhale ndi zaka zambiri. Lolani kuti musangalale ndi ntchito yomwe ingakusangalatseni, musati musaganize momwe mungapezere. Lingaliro lidzafika.
Msungwana wanga wapamtima nthawi zonse amakhala ndi ana. Amayi athu onse odziwika bwino amagwiritsa ntchito ngati Mila adabwera kudzacheza, ana anali osangalala komanso ochulukirapo. Kugwira Ntchito Mola ndi Woyang'anira Malo Ogulitsa pa intaneti, ndipo ogwira nawo ntchito adayang'aniridwa ndi abwana awo: Kuyambira chilengedwe chokonza bwino; Zomveka, zodekha, zodekha, zachilungamo, zodekha, zodekha, Lyudmila Evgenievna anali mphunzitsi wokonda kwambiri antchito. Chilichonse adapita kwa iye ndipo adatuluka, koma nthawi ina adandivomereza kuti: "Chilichonse, sindingathe kupititsa, kulibe kuwonjezera!" Ndipo ine ndinapita kukagwira ntchito ndi namwino wamadzulo mu Kirdergarten. Zingamveke, chabwino, pomwe, ngati manja awo amatsitsidwa? Koma kupuma kwachiwiri kunafikiridwa ngati njira yodabwitsa. Patatha miyezi ingapo, idayitanidwa kuti igwire ntchito kusukulu ya pulaimale, komwe adatha kukhazikitsa mikhalidwe yawo yonse yabwino. Icho chinali chomvetsa chisoni kwambiri ndi maphwando onse oyendayenda, maphwando ena okonda kwambiri Ludgenyevna sanafune kuti ogulitsa awo agulitsidwe mwanjira iliyonse.
Kuwotcha, koma osayaka
Nanga bwanji za iwo omwe adasankha ntchito yawo, tsiku lililonse ndinali wokondwa, ndikupita ku ofesi kapena kubzala, koma nthawi zina ndidataya chisangalalo panthawiyi? Chifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika? Akatswiri oganiza zachiwerewere amapezeka pazifukwa ziwiri zazikulu: katswiri wochenjera komanso zosintha zapadziko lonse mu tokha. Tiyeni tiwone chilichonse mwa dongosolo.
Chofunika!
Kupumula. Pofuna kupewa kutopa, ndikofunikira kutsatira zinthu zitatu. Loyamba limapuma pafupipafupi, ngati mlungu wachidule (sabata iliyonse!), Komanso motalika. Musaiwale kutenga tchuthi osachepera sabata kawiri kenako katatu pachaka.
Kusintha. Kusowa kwanu kuntchito, mwatsoka, sizitanthauza kuti mukupumula (makamaka tsopano, mu nthawi ya "kuchotsedwa"). Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti "muchepetse" kuchokera ku mafoni: Kusankhidwa makalata, makalata aubizinesi, makanema a makalata ndikukhala ndi anzanu, inu nokha ndi okondedwa anu ndizofunikira.
Kuwongolera. Pofuna kuti musakhumudwitse komanso kukhumudwitsidwa ndi ntchito yanu, ndikofunikira kumva tanthauzo lanu. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti mulibe udindo, zambiri zimadalira inu - motero muyenera kumva. Mvetsetsani kuti mumawongolera mkhalidwe ndipo ndi udindo wa "mbali zanu, ogwira nawo ntchito, angakuthandizeni.
Mawu akuti "kutopa" adawonekera kalekale: akatswiri amagwira naye ntchito pafupifupi zaka makumi anayi. Poyambirira zidakhulupirira kuti oimira omwe amatchedwa kuti amapulumutsa apadera omwe amasungapo "amayaka mwachindunji, opulumutsa moto ndi apolisi komanso aphunzitsi okha. Valani mndandandawu ndi zama psyfitepists. Koma pambuyo pake zidapezeka kuti anthu onse ogwirira ntchito amadziwa matendawa, kuchokera kwa owonda opanga apamwamba kwambiri makampani apadziko lonse lapansi.
Patsa pagle ngati mudzafunditsa, mutha kufika kuntchito. Zimatengera zinthu zingapo. Choyamba, kuthekera kwanu "kumenyedwa" (inde, tikulankhula za kuthana komweko!) Ndikupeza chithandizo ndikuthandizira pomwe amafunikira. Timu ndi mlengalenga momwemo ndiofunikira kwambiri. Ndikosavuta kumva kutalika ndikusangalala ndi ntchito yomwe mawotchi amalamulira muofesi, mukuvutika ndi miseche ndi ma peres, ndipo m'malo mwa masewerawa omwe mumawakonda. Akuluakulu ndi malingaliro okwera kwambiri ngati mawonekedwe osiyana amatenga zofunika kwambiri, kudziwa zomwe zathera ndalama ngati katswiri.
Mchimwene wanga, sanakhale ndi zokumana nazo, posamukira ku Russia kupita ku Europe kuti athe kukhala akatswiri. Ndipo choyamba zonse zayenda bwino: ntchito yake, yomwe m'bale amangokongoleredwa, anali m'phiri. Koma m'zaka zochepa adabwerera ku Moscow modzidzimutsa ku Moscow, ndikunena kuti sakufunanso ndipo sakanatha kugwira ntchito komwe amagwira ntchito. Zinapezeka kuti sanalumikizane ndi anzawo - kutembenuka kumene, cholepheretsa chilankhulo chinakhala zonse. Pozindikira zomwe zikuchitika, Zhenya "adatulutsa" Chingerezi ndipo adatha kukhazikitsa maubale ndi Comrades kuti agwire ntchito. Ndi utsogoleri, womwe ndi mawonekedwe, kulankhulananso kufikira gawo latsopano.
Koma mzanga Ani ndi zolumikizana ndi zonse zili bwino - pamapeto pake adagwira ntchito ngati nyenyezi zokopa. Ntchito yake ikhoza kuchitira nsanje: magulu okhazikika, ndalama zabwino, zopatsa mphamvu komanso ulemu kwa makasitomala ndi ogwira ntchito. Zowona, analibe sabata. Ayi. Ayi. Amayamikiridwa chifukwa adalumikizana, monga akunenera, makumi awiri ndi anayi mpaka asanu ndi awiri. Moyo wamunthu unayenda kwambiri ndi katswiri, ndipo anali wosagwirizana kale, komwe kumathera (ndipo ngakhale zitayamba) imodzi ndi zina zimayamba. Ntchito yomwe amakonda, yomwe inali gwero la kudzoza, lidayamba kugona. Kutulukako, sanawone, malingaliro anzeru a psychotherapist sananyalanyaze, chifukwa chotsatira chinali pabedi la chipatala. Tchuthi chokakamizidwa mu Dipatimenti ya Neurological, komwe ma laputoni adaletsedwa, adapita naye. Pomaliza, Anna adavomereza chowonadi chosasinthika: Kugwira ntchito mosangalala, ndikofunikira kupuma moyenerera.
Kupewa kokhazikika kumachitika pafupipafupi komanso kokhazikika kwa masiku okhazikika pomwe mungathe kutsutsana ndi kusungunuka kuchokera kuntchito ndikuiwala kuti ndinu akatswiri. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kulandira ndemanga zapamwamba kwambiri kuchokera kwa anzanu. Pomaliza, muyenera kuyang'anira njira, ndikudziwa kuti mutha kupanga zisankho. Kupanda kutero, kumverera kwake kumapangidwa kuti inu ndinu chingwe chaching'ono chokha mu makina akuluakulu.
Musanachoke chilichonse ndikuthamangira kunja ndi mutu wanu, yikani ndi zonunkhira zonse zomwe zingazungulira ntchito yanu yamaloto
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Ndi chinthu china ngati ofesi yomwe mumakonda yatha, chifukwa inu ... mwasintha. Inde, ndipo zimachitika. Sindidzapitanso ndi zitsanzo: Pambuyo pa zaka zingapo wokondwa muutongesimu, ndinazindikira kuti ndikufuna china. Ofesi ya Olemba, yomwe ndimayenda, ikusangalala Lolemba lililonse, ndinayamba kuchitiridwa, ndinasiya kuganiza kuti ndimachita zinthu zofunika kwambiri. Zinachitika chifukwa kukhazikitsa kwanga komanso zinthu zofunika kuzisintha, ndinasinthanso mfundo ndi zizindikilo. Izi zitha kuyembekezeredwa kuyembekezeredwa kwa aliyense wa ife: Takulandilani, vuto la zaka zapakati! Pafupifupi ife timakhala moyo wanu wonse ndipo nthawi zambiri timakhala olimba mtima kusiya zikhalidwe zakale. Iwo amene amatuluka m'vutoli, akusungabe ntchito, kapena kuti amvere chisoni, chifukwa popanda "Resert" nthawi imeneyi zimakhala zovuta kudikirira zodabwitsa mtsogolo. Pakatha zaka makumi atatu, kuphatikiza mpaka zaka zingapo, ifenso timadziwa tokha komanso titha kudziwa zambiri, taphunzira kale momwe angamvere zosowa zawo ndikukonzekera zomwe akufuna. Titha kumvetsetsa kuti chinthu chachikulu ndi banja kapena ntchito, timamvetsetsa momwe tingapezere komanso kugwirizana. Pakadali pano, ntchitoyo imanyamuka. Pamwamba pali iwo omwe adazindikira ndipo ali okonzeka kugwira ntchito ndi magulu awo olimba komanso ofooka, zilakonizo ndi zikhumbo. Kubwerera ku nkhani yanga, ndendende makumi awiri ndi anai ndidazindikira kuti ndikufuna kusintha zochitika zophunzitsa, ndipo patatha chaka chimodzi ndidakhala ndikumuphunzitsa kale Russia kusukulu. Kenako lamulo lidachitika m'moyo wanga, ndipo nditatha kubwerera kwa mkonzi, koma iyi ndi kukambirana kosiyana kwathunthu.
Tonse tikuthamanga ngati muli pamavuto, kumvera mawu amene anamva zaka zapitazo: "Cifukwa cace! Ndikofunikira kukhala ndi nthawi, ndikofunikira kuyamba, kugwira ntchito! " Ndani, pamene, bwanji - moyo - nthawi zina moyo umatiyika mu izi kuti sichikhala chofunikira. Koma mukakhala ndi mwayi woti muchotse, yesani kuyankhira funso limodzi losavuta: Kodi ndinu okondwa polemba Lolemba? Ngati yankho ndilo "ayi," mukudziwa komwe mungayambire. Zabwino zonse!
Ndikufuna kusiya chilichonse. Bwanji?
Ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti njira yanu ya akatswiri ikukuthandizani kumapeto, musafulumire kuti muyake milatho. Mwina "munazimirira"? Onani ndi tchuthi chachifupi ndi magawo angapo ku psychorarapist. Ngati simukufuna kubwerera "pantchito", pitani ku chinthu chotsatira.
Ntchito yosintha, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti muyenera kuyambitsa zambiri kuchokera kumuka. Kodi mukuvomera kukhala wophunzira, munthu wachinyamata "pazaza matuza"? Palibe cholakwika ndi izi, koma ndikofunikira kuzindikira kuti mwina zingachitike. "Pilo" idzakhala njira. Yambani ndi zazing'ono: Muzipita nawo mu mutu wankhani chidwi kwa inu, onani omwe ayamba kale kuchita "bizinesi yanu", lankhulani nawo, werengani chilengedwe. Musanachoke chilichonse ndikukanthira kunja ndi mutu wanu, kwezani zolakwika zonse zomwe zingazungulira ntchito yanu yamaloto.