Kuyambira kalata ya owerenga athu:
"Wokondedwa Maria!
Ndili ndi zaka 37. Ndinasudzulana. Ndilibe ana. Khalani nokha. Nthawi ina kale ndidakhala ndi munthu. Koma ndi wochepera kwambiri kuposa ine - ali ndi 26. Ndife abwino m'njira zonse, kuphatikiza, kudzera munjira. Ndipo, posachedwa ife tinakambirana za ukwati. Koma ndili ndi nkhawa za banja losayenerera, chifukwa tili ndi kusiyana kwambiri zaka pafupifupi 11. Kuphatikiza apo, ndimayesetsa kuti ndisalankhule za maubale athu ndi atsikana, ndimaganiza nthawi zonse kukhala zaka zitha kusokoneza ubale wathu? Kodi munganene chiyani? Yulia ".
Moni Julia!
M'malingaliro mwanga, ngati mukuwona zovuta zomwe zingakhale zovuta mu zaka zosasiyana ndi zaka, ndiye kuti mulibe nkhawa. Ndimafulumira kukudziwitsani kuti pali mapindu enanso pamenepa. Tiyeni tiyambe ndi chakuti kuti chidwi cha amuna chizikhala cha zaka 25-27, ndi chachikazi - ndi 30-40. Pankhani imeneyi, muli abwino kubwera kwa wina ndi mnzake, zomwe ndizofunikira kwa banja laling'ono. Kuphatikiza apo, kusiyana kulikonse pakati pa ochita nawo, zaka kapena zina, kungakhale chinthu chabwino chogwirizana: aliyense wa inu akwaniritsena wina ndi mzake. Simudzatopa konse. Yesani kulingalira kuti muli chimodzimodzi. Ndipo malo achikondi ali kuti?
Monga tikuwonera, mafuta mu moto adathiranso zosokoneza. Mayi, achichepere ... ukwati wosagwirizana ... Zamkhutu! Mwa awiriwa, padzakhala kusiyana pakati pa anzanga, nthawi zina kwambiri m'badwo waukulu kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri amatha kuwatsatira. Zambiri izi zimapezeka bwino kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti mumamva bwino.
Mwambiri, kusinkhasinkha pafupipafupi pamutuwu "ukwati wofanana kapena wosaonedwa" sunadzetse chilichonse kupatula chosakanizika. Ganizirani kuti munthu uyu wadzisankhira nokha.