Nthawi zambiri, azimayi ali ndi chidaliro kuti zikafika pogonana, mwamunayo ali kale "m'thumba mwake," koma kuyandikira kwake sikutsimikizira kuti munthuyo azikhala nanu. Amayi ambiri nthawi zonse amapanga cholakwika chofananira - khulupirirani kuti kugonana kumakupatsani "kupotoza" munthu momwe mungafunire. Osati. Tikukuuzani nthawi yomwe kuyankhulana kuyenera kusamala kuti mwamunayo woopsa sanathane ndi kulumikizana kwa sabata yoyamba (ngakhale mutagonana kangapo).
Osakakamiza
Kwa bambo kuti palibe usiku waukulu kuposa bwenzi lakumaso. Inde, mwakumana pafupi mokwanira, koma sizitanthauza nthawi yonseyi kuti ndi nthawi yoti mudziwe munthu watsopano ndi abwenzi ake ndi abale ake - ndikupatseni nthawi yonse yoti mukhale ndi chidaliro mu mgwirizano wanu. Iwalani nambala ya foni yake ndipo musapukuke mu zithunzi za Mtumiki "wokongola" komanso emoji - zikukwiyitsa ndipo sizothandiza kwambiri pakukutukuka kwa inu.
Ayenera kudziwa zomwe mumakonda
Amuna ambiri amawona kugonana ngati chitsimikiziro cha amuna awo, chifukwa chake zotsatira zake sizofunika kwenikweni kuposa momwe. Mwamunayo ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti chilichonse sichinali pachabe, ndipo ndiwe wokhutira ngati sukunenanso. Zachidziwikire, si tonsefe omwe tili m'maganizo, koma mulimonse, mnzanu ayenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti ndinu okonda kale kuchokera momwe amakukhudzirani. Musakhale opusa pamalingaliro, adzayamikira.
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Osadikirira kwambiri
Ngakhale mu sabata loyamba la kulumikizana, munthu amakhala ndi inu m'manja mwake, zingwe ndi mphatso zake ndipo izi zikuchitika ngakhale kuti chinthu chachikulu chazokambirana pakati panu, Sizingatheke kukhala ndi chiyembekezo kuti mwamunayo ali wachikondi, ndizosatheka. Yesetsani kukhala ndi nthawi yambiri pamodzi, phunzirani munthu akakhala kuti chibwenzi chake chachangu sichitha mu miyezi ingapo yolumikizirana, pakadali pano mutha kuganiza kale kuti ubale wanu uzikula bwino.
Musalole kuti akhale wotopa
Amuna amakonda mitundu yonse, ndipo kumayambiriro kwa ubale woyenera kudabwitsanso kuposa zosavuta. Yesetsani kusankha tsiku m'malo osiyanasiyana, pezani ntchito zosiyanasiyana, ndipo amayang'ana pabedi losiyanasiyana - masewera osewera, zinthu zachilendo zimamuwonetsa kuti ndinu wokonzekera kuyesa.