Pyschology yomwe imachitika mdziko lamakono imakumbukiridwa kwambiri, chifukwa psychology ndi sayansi yomwe mukufuna kuphunzira ndi kuchiritsa miyoyo ya anthu. Ndipo moyo mwa ambiri a ife amapweteka. Zitatero, aliyense angasangalale ndi kukhuta ndi moyo wawo ... Koma, tsoka, anthu achimwemwe padziko lonse lapansi silochuluka kwambiri.
Sitikudziwa momwe tingasangalalire tsiku lililonse m'moyo wathu, timakumana ndi mavuto tsiku lililonse. Ndipo nthawi zonse tiyenera kugawana zomwe takumana nazo ndi munthu wina, kaya ndi mnzake, makolo, ogwira ntchito. Tikufuna anthu omwe amakhulupirira omwe amawamvera kapena kupereka malangizo oyimilira. Nanga bwanji osalandira upangiri kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi bwenzi lanu lapamtima, amamvetsetsa zobisika za psyche ndi maubale anu? Eya, sitikupempha kuti tithandizire mnzanu kapena mayi, tikakhala ndi zota za ku Turkey m'galimoto kapena kubzala mtima ?! Timapita kwa katswiri paderali.
Pali malingaliro oti thandizo la katswiri wazamisala amafunikira kwa munthu amene akudwala "pamutu wonse." M'malo mwake, anthu athanzi labwino amafunikira thandizo la malingaliro. Odwala amafunikira akatswiri ena. Munthu akangokopeka ndipo saona kutuluka komwe zinthu zomwe zikuchitika, amafunidwadi kuti wina achite yankho ku vutoli, adayambitsa mwayi ndikupereka chiyembekezo chamtsogolo. Ndipo ndi wazamisalo panthawi yovuta ya moyo imatha kuthandiza kuthana ndi nkhawa, kupulumuka kukhumudwa kwam'kati kapena kupulumuka kwa mabanja.
Inde, wamaphunziro amisala sangakupatseni mayankho osakhalitsa ndipo sangakupatseni zisankho. Adzatha kupereka chithandizo cha m'maganizo, kufalitsa vuto lanu pamashelefu. Ndipo pakuwona zinthuzo pansi pa ngodya yosiyana, mutha kudziwa zoyenera mothandizidwa ndi katswiri wazamisala ndikuwona njira ya mavuto anu.
Ma psychologist amathandizira kuti zinthu zizichitika mosiyana ndikusintha zochitika za zomwe mwachita.
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Mutha kulumikizana ndi katswiri wazamikhalidwe ndi vuto lililonse komanso vuto lomwe "limapweteka" ndikulepheretsa moyo. Katswiri adzathandiza kubweretsa oda yamutu, kuchiritsa mabala a uzimu ndi amtima. Ndipo koposa zonse, mudzakhala ndi algorithm kuti ndikhale ndi mwayi wokonzekera kupita kukayambiranso zomwe mukufuna. Aliyense wa ife amapatsidwa ufulu ndi mwayi wosintha ndi moyo wawo. Koma ndi ntchito yolimba komanso yopweteka yomwe imafunikira pantchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku, chikhumbo chachikulu ndi kupirira. Chifukwa njira yoganiza komanso youzira mizu imavuta kusintha, koma mwina.
Ndipo iyi ndi ntchito ina ya katswiri wazamisala - kuti akuthandizeni ndi chidwi chanu komanso kukhalapo kwanu. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa chinthu chofunikira: Mudzakhala ndi zaka zomwe zingathetsedwe pamagawo angapo kuchokera muukadaulo. Ndikukayika kuti wina ali ndi zaka zowonjezera izi. Zowonadi, aliyense amasankha yekha, pamafunika kudzilimbitsa nokha kapena ayi, kuti muchite nokha kapena mothandizidwa ndi wamisala. Koma sikuti mwina kuthana ndi vuto ndi thandizo la katswiri wazamisala kuti amvetsetse kuti kusiyana pakati pa atsikana ndi ntchito yaukadaulo. Ngati muli ndi moyo wochita zinthu zina zomwe zimawoneka kuti ndi zosalemekeza, kapena mukukhala momwemo, osadziwa kusintha moyo wanu, yesani kusintha izi ndi wamisala.
Ndinakumananso ndi moyo wanga ndimavuto ambiri. Linali lolumala mkati kuti ngakhale kunalibe mphamvu. Akumva ngati ndinali mtembo. Ndipo atawoneka bwino kwambiri ndipo ngakhale anali wamphamvu.
Chifukwa cha psychology, ndidathandizira kutuluka m'dzenjemo, komwe ine ndikudzigwedeza ndekha. Ndipo potuluka, ndinawona anthu ambiri odzikonzera, mkhalidwe womwe unali wofanana ndi wanga. Ndinkakonda zaka zambiri, ndimagwira ntchito yophunzitsa zamaganizidwe ngati katswiri wa katswiri wa ATTA. Koma ndikazindikira kuti kunali kofunikira kupeza njira yomwe ingathandizire pakapita anthu ambiri. Chifukwa chokha sichinthu chambiri cha anthu omwe ndingawathandize. Ndipo posachedwapa anapeza njira yomwe imatha kupopa kuchuluka kwa moyo. Pokonzekera kuphunzira, mumayamba kumvetsetsa kuti malingaliro athu ndi omwe amakhaladi. Kupukusa malingaliro ena m'mutu, timapeza ena. Ndipo izi zimakopa zochitika zina. Timasintha kuganiza, kusintha moyo.