AJulter, Wachinyengo wa mnzake - chochitika chosasangalatsa, koma chofala, makamaka masiku ano komanso pagulu, zomwe sizochepera komanso zochepa zomwe zimachitika.
Koma osati gulu lokha lomwe limasintha, ndipo malingaliro athu a Chiwesoro, tsopano si umboni waukulu kwambiri, koma chizindikiro cha kukhalapo kwa mavuto mu awiri.
Kuphatikiza apo, anthu ambiri, kusintha mnzake, kumanong'oneza bondo kuti izi ndi zoyanjana posachedwa, ndikubwezeretsanso chidaliro. Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri. Kupatula apo, chochititsa manyazi sichinthu chowopsa kwambiri monga chidaliro chotayika. Ngati mnzanuyo sakukhulupirirani, samawona satellite wosadalirika mwa inu, iyi ndi gawo loyamba loyandikira chiyanjano.
Kodi ndizotheka kubweza chidaliro cha bwenzi pambuyo pa munthu wowonongayo?
Ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti si wokondedwa yekha amene adasintha, "Ndingayambe bwanji kudalirana?", Ndikofunikira kuti ndikhalenso olimbikira, kutengapo gawo kuyesa kum'khulupirira. Zachidziwikire, ngati ubalewo ukuimira mtengo ndi woweta - gawo.
Nthawi zambiri, akatswiri azamisala amawalangiza banja lomwe linagundana ndi wachinyengo wa mmodzi kapena onse, amakhala pansi ndikulankhula mavuto onse, kudziwa zomwe zimayambitsa kuchita izi. Izi, ndizofunikira komanso upangiri woyenera, koma ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti anthu omwe ali ndi anthu omwe ali ndi moyo, ndi "mitsempha ya chitsulo" amatha kuyamba kukambirana motere . Anthu ambiri amachita zinthu zosiyanasiyana: Choyamba - chodabwitsa - kudabwitsidwa, kudabwa, modabwitsa, kenako nkukwiya, kubwezera, kunyalanyaza. Ena amathawira mwachangu kuti asinthe, kotero kuti sizinapweteke. ", Ena akulira kapena kumenya, ena amanyalanyaza amayi." Izi ndi zachilengedwe kwathunthu. Komano funso limabuka: momwe mungakhalire.
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Ndipo pano ndikofunikira kusunthika sitepe ndi sitepe, ngati awiriwo adasankhabe kuti sakanagawana.
Gawo loyamba lobwezeretsa chidaliro - Kuzindikira za munthu wophedwa ndi kukana kwa mzere wolakwika kwathunthu kuti awonetse mnzanu wachiwiri kuti akane wolakwa. Tikuvomereza, ambiri omwe ali nawo, amateteza, kumenya kuposa kuvala msomali pachitseko cha ubalewo. Mutha kunena kuti kudakhala mavuto, koma simungathe kutsutsa mnzanu wachiwiri poti ndi zomwe zimayambitsa WERU. Mbiri yabanja ingathandize, kupulumuka bwino kwambiri ndi izi.
Gawo lotsatira - kulumikizana mzere wotere kuti mnzake ayambenso kukukhulupirirani. Ndikofunika kuwonetsa chidwi chowonjezereka, kupatula "kuchedwa" kuchedwa kwa nthawi yina - kwakanthawi - misonkhano ndi abwenzi kapena abwenzi - zilizonse zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti palibe chisoni chifukwa cha zolakwika zawo.
Nthawi yomweyo, sikofunikira kuti musamvetsetse bwenzi la mnzake, pemphani kukhululuka pamawondo ndi zina. Sizithandizanso kubwezeretsanso kukhulupirirana, koma m'malo mwake kukuwonetsani munthu wonyoza, wojambula yemwe amatha kuchita zinthu zilizonse, kungokwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna.
Maganizo abwino amatha kuchiritsa mabala aliwonse. Ndipo chifukwa chake muyenera kuiwala za madandaulo okhudza wokondedwa wanu kapena osatsukidwa ziwiya. Yesani kuwonetsa chisamaliro chochulukirapo, kukhulupirika kwakukulu, pangani zinthu zabwino kwambiri, koma kuti musachite chidwi ndi zoyesa za Balal kuti mubweze: akunena kuti iPhone, ndikumaliza kuyankhula za izi. Njira zoterezi ndizothandiza pokhapokha mnzanuyo atakupatsani mwayi kuti mutseke munthu wina chiwembu chosinthana ndi mapindu ena - ndalama, kugonana kwabwino, ndi zina zotero.
Ndikofunikanso kuwonetsa kuti munthu yemwe unoule adakumana nawo sakutanthauza chilichonse, adangowoneka kwina ndipo adapita kulikonse. Umboni wofunikira kwambiri uwu uwu udzakhala kusiyana kokwanira ndi munthu uyu, ndipo uyenera kuwonetsa kuti uzikonzekera ntchito, ndipo nkusintha malo okhala mwana wanu wachiwiri kukayikira kuti misonkhanoyi inasiya.
Ndipo china chake: Inde, chinyengo chitha kuchitika m'moyo wa aliyense, ndipo ndi lingaliro lanu lokha ndi kukhululuka kapena kulonjeza munthu m'moyo wanu.
Ngati chithunzi chanu chadziko lapansi ndi chosavomerezeka, mukukumana ndi mavuto amphamvu ndipo simumayandikira, ngakhale ndi nthawi, musamalole. Chifukwa nthawi zina zimakhala zosavuta kuthana nazo posiya kusiya kusiya zowawa (ngati mudzakhala muukwati chifukwa cha kuperekera).