Zachidziwikire, kudzikuza nthawi zonse kumathandiza kukwaniritsa zotsatira zomwe mukuyesetsa, ndipo zivute zitani zomwe mwakhala nazo. Komabe, mpikisano wochita bwino nthawi zina ukhoza kukhala ndi vuto lalikulu kwambiri pazochitika zathu zonse, kuti anthu ena azikhala nthawi yonseyi, akuyang'ana mavidiyo athunthu chifukwa chongofuna, koma sakuthandizanso ntchito yanu ndipo sakukhudzani Kukula kwanu - kosavomerezeka komanso zopanda tanthauzo potentha nthawi. Mwamuna weniweni amaletsa iye kuti akufuna china chake. Tinaganiza zopeza chifukwa chake nthawi zina timayesetsa kukhala, koma ndibwino kuti tisakhale.
Aliyense amalankhula za izi
Tikukhala m'dziko la mpikisano wokhazikika, makamaka njira iyi imadziwika kwa anthu okhala m'mizinda yayikulu. Timatikumbutsa nthawi zonse kuti ngakhale ola lina lowonjezera lomwe timakhala nalo pabedi losangalatsa, lomwe likhoza kundichotsa pa karronovnik, "Mukamagona, ena amapambana mawu awa. Imani ndikuganiza, kulakalaka kopambana ndi chikhumbo chanu kapena simukufuna kuti musakuchotsere anzanu ndi anzanu?
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Tikufuna kukhala bwino
Ndipo pali ngozi yotayirira nkhope ilo, yomwe imalekanitsa zabwino zofuna kuchita zowawa zopweteka. Malinga ndi akatswiri azamisala, pafupifupi theka la makasitomala awo omwe amagwira ntchito m'magulu ambiri, akumana ndi mavuto ambiri - zomwe nthawi zina zimakhala zosatheka, koma makotchi otsatsa ndi malonda otsatsa Mosiyana, zomwe zimabweretsa kutopa mtima munthu yemwe amagwira ntchito, koma sakulandira zotsatira zake, kupatula zovuta zoyipa pa psyche yake.
Tiyenera kudziwa zomwe timakonda
Kukhala pagulu, zimakhala zovuta kunyalanyaza zofuna zake. Aliyense wa ife akudziwa kapena ayi, pamlingo wina wozindikira umafuna kuvomerezedwa ndi anthu omwe ali ndi ulamuliro kwa iye m'malo ena. Ndipo monga tikudziwira, ndalama zokhazokha zitha kukonda aliyense. Ngati simusiya kuyesetsa kukhalabe omasuka, patapita zaka zingapo zotere, mudzagwera pampando wa wodwala muofesi ya katswiri wazamisala.
Timayesetsa kuoneka ngati zikuyenda bwino ndipo sitikufuna kudikira
Nthawi zambiri, malingaliro athu onena za iwo okha samafanana ndi zenizeni, ndipo izi zimatha kusokonekera. Tikalandira zomwe tikufuna kuchita, chidwi chofuna kuchita china chake chotsatira chomwe chimatha kuchititsidwa kwa nthawi yayitali, ndi vuto ili lomwe limakhala lalikulu, munthu akafuna kuchita bwino pa chikonzero chake, Koma zotsatira za moyo zimamukhumudwitsa. Munthu amasiya ndikusiya kuchitapo kanthu, ngati kuti sanali pafupi. Simuyenera kudikirira kuti anthu ayamikire zoyesayesa zanu - onetsani kulolerana kwambiri ndipo mudzawona zotsatira zake.