Malamulo ndi gulu lofunikira pa sayansi iliyonse. Popanda iwo, komanso popanda chopatula, sitingaphunzire chilankhulo champhamvu padziko lonse lapansi ndipo sitingadziwe chifukwa chake mphepo imaphatikiza ndi kusenda lawi la nkhosa. Kodi pali malamulo mu ... chikondi? Kupatula apo, iye, monga ngwazi ya kabuku, katswiri wankhusula, akhoza kuonedwa kuti "sayansi yodekha". Kodi akufunika kuti zinthu zonse ziwonongeke, ndipo malingaliro ake anali chete? Ndi malamulo ati omwe amayenera kuwongoleredwa, ndipo kuiwala kwamuyaya? Ndipo ngati angathe kuwonjezera zaka zathu zachikondi? Tikuyesa kulingalira.
Timangomva kuti: "Chikondi Chamuyaya, tinali owona kwa iye ...", kondani miyoyo ya zaka zitatu! " - Izi ndi zina mwa mfundo imodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri pazinthu zomwe sizitha. Zitha kuwoneka ngati zopanda pake komanso zopusa kwambiri zokhudzana ndi nthawi yayitali zomwe amakonda muubwenzi mu zaka zathu, pomwe misonkhano ikuluikulu imayiwalika, ndipo tsiku lotchedwa Usiku wina silililika. Koma asayansi omwe amayesa kulandira chikondi cha mankhwala nthawi imodzi adatibweretsera mbiri yabwino - iye, wamuyaya, ulipodi! Tsopano zikuyenera kumvetsetsa momwe mungapangire mgwirizano wanu kukhala momwe munganene kuti "ndipo adakhala moyo wautali."
Nthawi Yabwino
Nthawi zonse tikalowa mu nyengo yachikondi ya maluwa, maswiti, ndipo, kumene, magalasi apinki, tikukhulupirira kuti nthawi ino ndi yofanana, ndipo mnzake uyu ndi wosankha. Pano ali ndi malamulo awo ndi malamulo omwe pambuyo pake amapanga mavuto ambiri. Buku lalikulu "lowopsa", lomwe timalima mkaka wa amayi - onetsani bwino. Zikuwoneka kuti choyipa ndikuwonetsa mphamvu zake zokonda? Ambiri, mwatsoka, osawona kusiyana pakati pa kudabwitsa wokondedwa wawo ndi zomwe amakonda kwambiri, komanso masewera anzeru moyenera. Simukufuna kuphika, koma nenani kuti mumakonda utoto, ndiwe wotsatsa msinkhu, koma kufinya, simukukonzekera kukhala ndi ana, koma kunamizira kuti sanamve funso. Mvetsetsani komwe njira iyi ikutsogolereni? Ndipo ngati inu ndi wogwira ntchito yanu mudaganiza zosewera munthu wabwino?
Pali zinthu monga kukhumudwitsidwa kwa mwezi wachisanu ndi chimodzi. Ndikutha kwa theka loyamba la maubale maubale omwe anthu amayamba kukonzanso masks, charters chikuwoneka kuti chikuwoneka ngati kwa omwe siali. Ndipo kuyambira kale kuchokera ku Bossy wanyumba ya Pussy, yolimba mtima ikuthamangitsidwa, ndipo kuchokera kwa nyumba yogwira ntchito - ndi mtima wopanda pake. Zachidziwikire, inu (ndi mnzanu, mukadasewera masewerawa ndi zosinthika) kugwedezeka: Ali kuti amene adakhala patsogolo panu pachakudya choyenerera ndipo mumakambirana ndi akatswiri oyambira. Kudzikhumudwitsa, kumverera komwe mudapusitsidwa, kusamvana komweko - kuchuluka kwa misempha yomwe ili pachaka choyambirira chaubwenzi. Kuwona kowopsa kwambiri ndikuti ambiri amakhalabe m'mipingo imeneyi, akupitiliza kuperekera chilengedwe chawo ndikupusitsa (apo ayi simungathe kunena) za mnzanu.
Malamulo a anthu mamiliyoni ambiri ndi ochepa kwambiri, koma ali
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Kodi mungatani kuti musalowe mu msasa wofananiza? Lamulo lomwe linalowerera, limamveka zosavuta: Khalani nokha. Inde, ndizosavuta kuposa kuchita, chifukwa tidzayambitsa malangizo omveka bwino. Osamachita chilichonse, ngakhale kumalire komanso pang'ono. Musamvere ndipo musatero Julit. Ngati simukufuna kuyankha funso mwachindunji, choncho ndiuzeni. Osawoneka ngati mgwirizano ndi munthu kuti azimusangalala naye. Ngati malingaliro ake ndi makonzedwe ake sakudabwitsani tsiku loyamba, sizokayikitsa kuti china chake chisintha pambuyo pake. Chikondi Chikangani - Chingwe, konda vinyo - vinyo, osati madzi. Kukaikira ngati kuli koyenera kuyankhula ndi mitu yayikulu patsiku loyamba? Nthawi zonse mudzakhala ndi mwayi wokambirana chilichonse chachiwiri, koma nthawi yathu mu zaka zathu ndi gwero lazinthu zofunikira kwambiri, ndiye bwanji kugwiritsa ntchito miyambo ya Chitchaina?
Ambiri amakhala ozolowera kuyenda m'chigoba, amawopa kudzionetsera pano, zomwe sizingalimbane ndi mlandu wokhala. Ngati muli ndi izi, muziganiza ndikuganiza zomwe zimachitika ngati mukukhudzidwa pamaso panu. Musakhulupirire, koma zotsatira zake zoopsa "- simukuwonanso munthuyu. Bedi, sichoncho?
Payokha, ndikufuna kutchula mwambo wofunika kwambiri monga momwe muliri ndi makolo ndi anzanu. Apa lamuloli ndi chimodzimodzi. Osayesa kuwona msungwana kapena mtsikana wabwino. Khalani mtundu wodzilemekeza kwambiri - ndipo zonse zidzachitika.
Ndi chisoni ndi chisangalalo
Nthawi yoyambira maubwenzi ndiyofunikira, ikani maziko a mgwirizano wanu, koma ngakhale zitakhala kuti zitachitika miyezi isanu ndi umodzi ya chikondi zidapezeka kuti pali mlendo pafupi ndi inu, chilichonse chitha kukhazikika. Choyamba, yesani kuphunzira mlendoyo kuyandikira. Tayang'anani pa iwo, mverani, lingalirani za mawu ake, kumvetsetsa zikhumbo zake ndi mfundo zake. Ndikotheka, ndinu mwayi, ndipo pambuyo pa masks atakonzanso, mudzakhala amene akukuyeneretsani. Pankhaniyi, awiri anu adzakhala ndi mwayi wopambana. Ingoganizirani kuti muli ndi makina a nthawi, kusewera tsiku loyamba, koma kale malinga ndi malamulo omwe anenedwa pamwambapa - yesani kukhala nokha komanso nokha.
Ngati nthawi itayika zonse pamalo ake ndipo simunawone "imodzi", ndipo yosasangalatsa kwa inu, simuyenera kutsatira mawonekedwe a "maubwenzi" ndi chisoni pa miyezi yotayika. Mukasiyira chimbudzi ichi, thanzi lino (ndi malingaliro, ndi mwathupi) mudzapulumutsa.
Chifukwa chake, inu palimodzi, inu muli palimodzi, mawu oyamba agona, koma moyo wolumikizana sunathe kuyimilira katundu pamapewa anu. Ndiwe banja lokhazikika m'chikondi, chomwe chili patsogolo pa zaka ndi zaka. Kuti akhale opepuka, okondwa - Omwe mukufuna kubwereza, zomwe sizipweteka koma zosapweteka, muyenera kugwira ntchito. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi wokondedwa wanu monga theka la chimodzi, sizitanthauza kuti mwakuwoneka kwanu amakutsimikizirani kuti mumakhala ndi moyo wabwino komanso mosangalala osachita khama.
Kulankhula mosamalitsa, malamulo adziko lonse lapansi kwa mamiliyoni a mitundu yosiyanasiyana ndi ochepa, koma ali. Ndipo woyamba pano ali wodalirika. Sikuti za chidaliro chokha kuti wokondedwa wanu sadzakusinthani. Mapeto ake, maanja ena amakana kufunikira kwa chiwembu, amakhala m'mabanja otseguka komanso nthawi yomweyo amakhala osangalala. Kukhulupirirana nayenso ndi chidaliro kuti zidzakhala pafupi kwambiri ndi moyo wovuta komanso zofunika kwambiri m'moyo wanu, idzakhala kumbali yanu, kuti muchite zofuna zanu. Iwalani za mawu oti "kudalirika, koma onani." Macheke, mayeso, zopereka - chifukwa chotsimikiziridwa chotsimikizika chiyanjano chofewa komanso chokhazikika. Tsatirani lamulo "silinagwidwe - osati mbala." Khalani ngati ngati pafupi ndi inu odalirika komanso odzipereka, chifukwa ngati simukulakwitsa panthawi yoyambirira yaubwenzi, ndi. Chikondi chimapereka chikondi, ndipo zomwezo tinganene za kudalirika. Chikondi chopanda chidaliro chili ndichabe ngati chidaliro chopanda chikondi.
Chikondi chimatulutsa chikondi, ndipo zomwezo zitha kunenedwa za kudalirika
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Lamulo lachiwiri la chilengedwe chonse limachokera kwa woyamba. Mavuto onse, mikangano ndi mafunso okhudza mgwirizano wanu, kambiranani wina ndi mnzake. Ndinu kumbuyo kwanu wina ndi mnzake, ndipo simuyenera kupanga zovuta za banja pa zomwe zikuchitika mukamapita ndi atsikana a paphwando la bachelorette. Zachidziwikire, zolankhula zokongola za akazi kapena zinsinsi za amuna - miseche ya moyo wamuyaya yokhala ndi abwenzi apamtima ndi anzanu apamtima, koma simuyenera kupereka zinsinsi za wina ndi mnzake, kudandaula kapena kukanda theka. Zomwe mumaletsa pamaso pa anzanu ndi chizindikiro cha ulemu komanso kulumikizana pakati panu ndi mnzanu. Kupatula apo, ngati mungakambirane mitu yonse yodwala komanso mafunso ovuta ndi mnzanu, bwanji amazichita ndi munthu wina?
Malire ndi kutsamba kwawo molimba mtima kulinso chidaliro cha "mwana wamkazi". Ziribe kanthu momwe mumakonderana wina ndi mnzake, ngakhale mutaphatikiza momwe mungagwiritsire mizimu yanu, kumbukirani kuti inu ndi osankhidwa anu ndi anthu osiyanasiyana omwe sakufunana nawo. Ndipo mutha kusankha momwe mungagawane. Kodi mungakhale ndi chiani mutasweka? Dzisungeni nokha, simirirani zokonda zanu - osadzikonda, monga timakumbukira, kukondana kwa mnansi ndikosatheka.
Ndikofunikira kukumbukira za zomwe mumakonda, koma popanda kunyengerera paliponse. Dziwonetseni nokha mphindi zazikulu komanso zosagwirizana ndi moyo wokhudzana ndi moyo wanu. Sichipotoza chivindikiro cha manoste - kodi ndikofunikira, kodi chimachepetsa moyo wanu ndi chikhulupiriro mwa umunthu? Kapena kodi kanyadi kakang'ono kameneka sikuyenera kusamalira? Luso la kunyengerera ndikofunikira kusiyanitsa ndi zomwe zakhudzidwa, kuchokera ku chipiriro chatha kuchitika komwe sikuli kofunikira. Pokhapokha mutapita kwa wina ndi mnzake, ndizotheka kupulumutsa ndikuchulukitsa zomwe zili pakati panu.
Lamulo lokhudzana ndi mkanganowo ndilomveka - mukamakhala ndi kutentha kwa mikangano yomwe mukufuna kwambiri kukhudza mnzanu, ndikukumbukira kuti muli mdani kuti mulibe mdani, ndipo mumakonda. munthu yemwe mumasavuta kutsutsana, lolani komanso pazinthu zofunika. Opunthwa adzadutsa, koma mawuwo adanenedwa mokwiya, ndimakumbukira nthawi yayitali ndikuwononga mlengalenga wanu.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri ndikuyika ndalama m'banja lanu. Nthawi zonse timakhala ndi vuto lathanzi, koma tikukulimbikitsani kukumbukira chinthu chimodzi chomwe sichingakhalepo popanda kutenga nawo mbali.
Ndatsala kumanja
Chikondi Chamuyaya - ichi ndi chowonadi chotsimikiziridwa ndi akatswiri azamalonda. Mu ubongo wathu pali madoko omwe amatha kulimbikitsa chikondi mwa zaka zomwezo kwa zaka. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mutha kutsegulanso mnzanga, ndipo palibe zaka zitatu, pomwe moto wamaliro uti udzatheke, suli wowopsa. Koma zimachitika kuti njira za anthu sizigwirizana. M'dziko lathu, chisudzulo sichimawerengedwanso china chamanyazi kwa mkazi. Ndipo zili bwino! Sitiyenera kuyanjana kwambiri chifukwa cha izi, komanso ufulu wopanga kusankha. Zikuwoneka kuti pokhapokha ngati nthunzi zokha zitha kuwoneka ngati nthunzi, zomwe zizikhala limodzi mpaka atakwanitsa, chifukwa awa ndi chikhumbo cha mikhalidwe yazakunja.
Malamulo atatu:
1. Kuona mtima. Chofunikira kwambiri pakusangalala ndi mgwirizano onse mwa mawonekedwe a solo ndipo mu Union ndi kuwona mtima, koyambirira mogwirizana. Popanda izi, sindipeza chakumwa chachikondi. 2. Kukhulupirika. Ndipo ndani, mwa njira, kapena kodi tiyenera kukhala okhulupilika paubwenzi ndi chiyani? Kwa inu nokha, ndi mfundo zanu, zokhumba zanu, komanso malingaliro anu wamba, maloto ndi mapulani. 3. Ufulu. Popanda kumverera kwa "Ine" Yamikirani ndi kusamala ufulu wanu, chifukwa ndiye chinsinsi cha bata lanu, kudzidalira komanso kukhazikika.
Koma kubwerera ku zinthu ngati chikondi chimadutsa, zofuna ndi zikhumbo zimasintha, ndipo mukumvetsetsa kuti mgwirizano wanu watsala pang'ono kuwola. Kuti tisunge nkhope ya anthu, thanzi ndi kukhala mu ubale wabwino ndi mnzake, muyenera kutsatira malamulo ena. Khalani oona mtima komanso osankhika. Ndikosatheka kukoka ndi Kugawana chifukwa cha chisoni - pamapeto pake, pang'ono ngati izi, akadzamva chisoni m'malo mwa chikondi. Simuyenera kuyesa kuvulaza wosankhidwa wanu, kulankhula motsimikiza, lankhulani za kusunga chakukhosi. Tsopano sikofunikiranso, ndipo nthawi yolankhula inasiya. Khalani okoma mtima ndi obisika.
Chikondi, chisangalalo chokhala pafupi - izi ndizotsatira zomwe sizili bwino kwambiri, kuchuluka kwake, gwiritsani ntchito ndi maubale. Benti, koma ndizowona bwanji! Zowonadi zosavuta - za kumvera chisoni, chidaliro, za m'malire a anthu - ndichinsinsi, chinsinsi, chothandiza kutuluka ndikulimbikitsa kumverera kwamphamvu kwamuyaya.
Momwe Mukanakangana
Mikangano ndi gawo la ubale womwe simuyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito, koma muyenera kukhala okonzekera. Amatha kukhala mtundu wophulika, koma pokhapokha ngati mukudziwa kulingalira.
Chifukwa chake: Lankhulani ndi I-Mauthenga. Pa nthawi ya mkanganowu, lankhulani mongonena za momwe mukumvera komanso zokumana nazo, poyambitsa malingaliro kuchokera ku mawu akuti "ndikuganiza ..." Za momwe zinthu ziliri, ndipo kuukira ndi kuneneza kudzatayika m'mawu.
Kusintha "Munandikhumudwitsa" Nditakhumudwitsidwa kwambiri nditawona kuti ... "- Munthu amene amamva mawu achiwiri a mawuwa, samvera milandu yachiwiri. Osapita ku umunthu, osasewera masewerawa "ndipo iwe ..."