Mwinanso chinthu chosasangalatsa kwambiri chomwe chingachitike muubwenzi uliwonse - woweta. Nthawi zambiri mnzawo mnzake safuna kulimba mtima kuti avomereze, ndipo wina amayambitsa "kumanzere".
Zimachitika kuti ngakhale kugwidwa ndi andale, ophunzira sazindikira kuti ali wolakwa. Tasonkhanitsa zifukwa zodziwika kwambiri zomwe si okwatirana okhulupirika.
Kunena zoona zake zakugonana, ngakhale kopanda malingaliro, kumawonedwa ngati wachiwembu
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"Sindinachite chilichonse ndi ine"
Ngozi ikuchitika, koma chinyengo sichingachitike chifukwa cha izi. Mutha kusokoneza makiyiwo mwachangu, kuti muiwale kuyimitsa chitsulo, koma ndizosatheka kusintha cholakwikacho. Chifukwa chake wogwidwa ndi "ngozi" zoterezi ayenera kukhala osamveka kufotokoza kuti chifukwa cha zolakwa zoterezi zimayenera kulipira mozama, koma nthawi zambiri amathera ndikupumira.
"Kugonana Kunasowa m'moyo wathu, ndiyenera kusintha"
Ndipo izi zitha kumvedwa kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wawo. Mfundo za munthu ndichakuti masiku angapo osagonana amamupatsa ufulu wazochita.
Nthawi zambiri, izi zimachitika awiriawiri, komwe sizachikhalidwe chokambirana mavuto. M'malo mothetsa mavuto omwe amakhala ndikuchotsa cholakwacho mwa kukambirana, m'modzi mwa omwe amagwirizana amayamba kufunafuna ma Advent mbali, kuyesera kuiwala bedi la munthu wina.
Kuledzera sikungakhale koyenera
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"Tidapitabe ndi"
Inde, ubalewo uli pafupi kufalitsa, kumverera kwa kusungulumwa kumaphimba mutu wake. Kukhalapo kwa wokondedwa sikuli kosangalatsa, ndipo mukusoweketsedwa kale kukhala limodzi.
Kuyesera kuti musayike chilonda cha mzimu ndi kusiyana, bwenzi limasunganso ubale, koma nthawi yomweyo kufunafuna munthu wina. Koma chinthucho ndichakuti mnzakeyo atangophunzira za chiwembu chowawa, sichikhala chosavuta kwa iye, kotero kuti kukhulupirika sikudzakhala chowiringula paubwenzi wowonongeka. Ngati simungathe kukhala pafupi ndi munthuyu, ndikupumulirani, kuti musapusitse kapena iyemwini.
"Tidali oledzera"
Kuledzera Mowa sikungakhale chowiringula chifukwa cha machitidwe omwe amavulaza ena, theka lanu lachiwiri ndi inu panokha. Kumbukirani kuti zosankha zanu zonse zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha mowa udzakhala ndi zotsatirapo zotsatila, zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito kwa Wwer - mumagwiranso ntchito yomwe mnzanu sayenera kukukhululukirani chifukwa chikumbumtima chasinthidwa.
Ngati mukufuna kugawana, chitani nthawi yomweyo
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"Koma sindimamukonda /"
Kugonana kokha chifukwa zidachitika. Zilibe kanthu kuti mwakumana ndi malingaliro ati kwa munthu yemwe mwamupereka. Panthawi imeneyi mudakopeka, musalole mphamvu zotere, zomwe mukukumana nazo kwa mnzanu wokhazikika, sizingakupangitseni zomwe mwachita. Kuyenda "Kumanzere" safuna gawo lodyera pansi pazenera.