Mwinanso, aliyense ali ndi nkhani yomwe kugonana ndi mowa kudagwirizana kwambiri. Ndikosavuta kunena kuti malingaliro awiriwa sagwirizana bwanji, chifukwa kuphatikiza chimodzimodzi kumayenera kukhala zabwino. Pa izi tikuyenera kudziwa.
Sizikudziwika momwe angakhudzire wokondedwa wanu
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Ubwino ndi wotani?
Mowa umathetsa
Palibe chinsinsi kuti chifukwa cha kugonana ambiri kuli kosangalatsa. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri timadumpha magalasi angapo m'chiyembekezo kuti lithandizanso kupuma.
Zowonadi, ngati sizikugwiriridwa, vinyo wabwino adzakubweretserani.
Mumayiwala
Apanso, magalasi angapo amaponya "kuchokera ku ngongole za m'mutu anu osalipidwa, kulembetsa malipoti ndi nkhawa musanapite kwa dokotala. Kugonana kumafunikira chidwi pazinthuzo, ndipo ntchito zina ndi zovuta zimatha kupha chilakolako chilichonse.
Wokondedwa amakhala wokongola
Inde, musanaganize za kuyandikana ndi munthu, lingalirani ngati mukufuna. Ngati simukufuna munthu konse, simudzakondwera. Chinanso, ngati magalamu angapo akuthandizani kuti "mutseke maso anu" m'mavuto ang'onoang'ono a wokondedwa wake.
Mumayika pachiwopsezo
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Imathandizira
Kwa anthu osiyanasiyana, mowa umachita zinthu zosiyanasiyana: wina amagona, wina amakhala munthu wachilungamo, ndipo winayo ndiwokhudzidwa kwambiri. Ngati simungathe kusankha kuvomereza wokondedwa wanu, mwina kuwonjezeka kwa digiri kungakuthandizeni kutenga gawo loyamba.
Kodi chipwirikiti ndi chiyani?
Si aliyense amene angamwe
Musaiwale kuti anthu ena amakonda kudalira mitundu yonse, kuphatikizira uchidakwa. Ngati mukudziwa kapena mnzanu amene amachita izi, ndibwino kuti mugule mowa kuchokera pamndandanda wa chakudya chamadzulo.
Mumalephera
Ndipo konse, sikofunikira kumwa "mafuta" ndi malita - muthanso kubwera ku "zinthu zazikulu" ngakhale kapu imodzi, popeza ambiri sadziwa konse. Ngati kugonana kukuchitika ndi munthu amene mumamudziwa pang'ono, kugwiritsa ntchito mowa kumakutembenukirani, chifukwa sikudziwika kuti ngakhale 50 magalamu zingamukhudze bwanji?
Ngozi zaumoyo
Ngati mungatenge mankhwala, ngakhale mowa wocheperako ungasanduke. Mukuvomereza, simumawerengera malangizo a mankhwala mpaka kumapeto? Musakhale pachiwopsezo, chikhumbo chongofuna kupumula chimatha kuthetsa vuto lalikulu kwambiri.
Kugonana koipa
Zoona zake: Kuledzera kumachepetsa libido mwa abambo ndipo kumachepetsa kwambiri kuchuluka kwa mafuta mwa mkazi. Mpweya umodzi wa vinyo umatha kuwononga nthawi yayitali kuti musamagonana, zomwe zingakuwonongerani inu usiku wamadzulo, komanso momwe zimakhalira masiku angapo otsatira.
Kugonana kumafuna kukhazikika
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Kuchotsa Kuchotsa
M'malo momizidwa mokwanira mu njirayi, simudzakhala "osowa," ndipo mnzako sadzamvetsetsa, unakondweretsa kapena ayi. Inde, ndipo inunso mudzakhala mu bewerement, zomwe zidachitika.