Kuchokera kwa owerenga a kalata:
"Moni Maria!
Funso langa ndi losungira komanso laling'ono, mwina. Ubale wanga unapita kumapeto akufa, anandisangalatsa, ndipo, monga ine ndikuganiza mnyamata wanga. M'mbuyomu, zonse sizinali choncho ... Tidayenda masana, tinapita kumakanema, tinkagonana mokhazikika. Tinkakondana kwambiri wina ndi mnzake kuti palibe amene anafunika kwa ife. Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti chikondi chatha. Palibe kunyezimira kale m'maso, kulibe chisangalalo kuchokera kumisonkhano iliyonse ... zaka 3 akukhala limodzi limodzi adapha chikondi chonse. Zikuwoneka kuti ndi anthu achikhalidwe kwa wina ndi mnzake, kukhala pamodzi ndife omasuka, ndipo chikondi chikuwoneka kuti. Ndipo kotero ine ndikufuna Icho, chifukwa cha ichi tikhala padziko lapansi. Kodi mungalangize chiyani kuti mupitilize chibwenzicho?
Svetlana, wazaka 29.
Moni Svetlana!
Funso lanu siliri pa beseni yonse, koma yofunikira kwambiri. Makamaka lero - kasupe ... makamaka pazaka zanu pamene mkazi ali ndi mphamvu ndi mphamvu.
Amada nkhawa mwachindunji malingaliro amakono okhudza ubale wabwino. Ndipo amuna ndi akazi amalota za kusambira m'nyanja momwe zimakhalira kuti chikondi chikhale kosatha ... motere timakhala osangalala. Izi ndi zanga zachikhalidwe zochokera kunja mothandizidwa ndi mabuku ndi sinema. Mu psychology yamakono, ngakhale fanizo la "chikondi chachikondi" ndi makonzedwe onse, malingaliro ndi zoyembekezera kuchokera paubwenzi. Amagona chifukwa chakuti, ndikugwa mchikondi, timayamba kukhulupirira kuti titha kupeza tanthauzo lomaliza la moyo mwa chikondi chathu. Timakhala ndi malingaliro amphamvu komanso owala, chifukwa cha moyo wopeza phindu. Ndipo mosadziwachi tikuyembekezera kuti wokondedwa wathu azithandiza momwe amamvera komanso kusangalala. Koma izi sizichitika. Ndizosatheka kukhala moyo wanga wonse, kuzunzika kwambiri ndi malingaliro ambiri. Sizingatheke ngakhale mwakuthupi! Ndipo msambo wonse ndikuti timathamangitsa chibwenzi, zomverera zowoneka bwino, koma osati zaubwenzi.
Anthu amakonda kukhulupirira kuti chikondi chachikondi ndichabwino, ndipo ubale wonse ndiwofunika kwambiri. M'malo mwake, ndi nkhandwe, chifukwa pamafunika umboni wosakhazikika kuti tsiku lina litaleka kulandira. Ndipo pamene malingaliro athu aphedwa, amakhala osasangalala komanso osungulumwa. Zodabwitsa zimakhala zodetsedwa ndipo zikuwoneka kwa ife kuti chikondi chatha, ndipo moyo watha.
Sizili choncho konse! Osawopa zenizeni! Uku si kutha kwa ubale, koma chiyambi cha atsopano. Pitilizani kulankhulananso, sinthani zolinga zogwirizana ndi kutsegula zinthu zina ndi wosankhidwa wanu. Yang'anani wina ndi mnzake ndi maso otseguka, ndipo osadandaula. Chikondi chenicheni sichimafunikira umboni wosalekeza. Tsopano udzaona ngati uyu ndiye munthu wako, uzikhala wabwino limodzi osadzikuza. Mapeto ake, omasuka "ali kale ndi pang'ono ...
Chifukwa chake, ngati chibwenzicho chidatha kusokoneza magazi, ngati mumagona mwakachetechete usiku ndikusiya kuganiza za wokondedwa wanu mphindi iliyonse, ndiye kuti simuyenera kuchita kuchokera pamalingaliro oterewa. Ndipo osataya kalonga watsopano;)
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