- Musanayankhe nkhani ya funsolo, tiyeni tiwone zomwe tikulankhula.
"Zovuta" ndizosangalatsa zomwe zimawoneka chifukwa cha kupsinjika ndi zovuta "zopweteka".
Za zowawa zomwe amazikidwa, chifukwa kuzindikira za munthu sikunapirire. Psyche imatha kubwezeretsanso, kugaya izi ndi kuzimitsa kuti zitheke, munthu wangoziwala.
Ngakhale kuzindikira sikuli wokonzeka kuzindikira izi kapena zomwezo, zimasinthidwa kukhala "nthawi zabwino", zomwe zimatetezedwa ndikudzitetezedwa.
Ndikosavuta kuthetsa vutoli lomwe ndi, koma osakumbukira, simudziwa ndipo simukukayikira. Paradox.
Zamankhwala a psylogist irina
Press Service zida
–Ndi mavuto ati ochokera kwa ubwana ndi ena opangidwa ndi ena, mavuto akulu akulu?
Choyamba, ndili mwana, tikudziwa za ndipo tikudziwa kwambiri momwe timangodziwa momwe dziko lino lakonzedwa. Tilibe zida kapena zinthu zilizonse zoyenda mwanjira ina.
Kachiwiri, chilichonse chomwe chimachitika muubwana ndiye chochitika choyamba.
Izi ndi zokoma mtima, "zoziziritsa", zomwe zimakumbukirabe, zimagwira chikumbumtima ndipo ndi "maziko", "chodziwikiratu", "chodabwitsa".
Sitingasinthe zakale. Ngati tsopano muli ndi Mercedes, koma tili naube njinga, sunakhalebe njinga udali ubwana ndipo palibe Mercedeye adzasintha.
Chifukwa chake, ndizosatheka kuthetsa mavuto kuyambira ndili mwana, koma mutha kuzindikira. Pachifukwa ichi, moyo umatitaya mavuto athu.
Mavuto amenewa omwe timakumana nawo akuluakulu amatha kuphatikizidwa ndi mavuto kuyambira ali mwana, kuyambira pano ndikutuluka "mpaka kuvulazidwa, nthawi zambiri mavuto a masiku ano amatha, iye amathetsedwa.
–Kodi Mungatani Kuti Muzipanikizani?
1. Pitani kumavuto ndikudziwona nokha. Mukangopanga sitepe, nthawi yomweyo mukwaniritse zomwe zadziwikitsa komanso kugwira ntchito.
2. Zindikirani zomwe zimachitika mthupi, mawonetseredwe ndi ziganizo. Thupi ndi nyumba yokhotakhota komanso malingaliro. Chowonadi ndichakuti chimakhala chosasangalatsa osati chochitika chosasangalatsa, koma koposa malingaliro ndi malingaliro onse okhudzana nawo. Ntchito yathu ndikugwira modzimvera kumbuyo kwa mchira ndikupeza nyama yamtundu wanji.
3. Onani zomwe mungapewe izi kupeza zotopetsa, zomwe ndi zomwe zimadabwitsa. Mu gawo la TV, kuti munyalanyaze mutha kupeza zosangalatsa zambiri "kuyambira ndili mwana."
4. Onani zosowa zanu. Mukufuna chiyani. Kumene kumakoka. Mukufuna chiyani. Popanda zomwe zili zovuta kwa inu.
5. Pindani ndi luso lapadera: Mafalawo amawonera, Werengani mabukuwo, werengani zithunzizi, mverani nyimbo ndikuwona zakukhosi kwanu. Monga ntchito zaluso zimakhudza dziko lanu lathupi, lomwe Rose.
6. Tsatirani malingaliro anu, khalani ndi diary kapena masamba m'mawa. Chifukwa chake mutha kutsata zosintha zanu kapena nthawi zonse.
7. Ngati simupipi nokha - phunzirani kudalira ndikupempha thandizo kwa akatswiri.