Lero ndidabwera kutanthauzira kwa tulo kuchokera kwa mkazi wakunja. Anamutumiziranso ziganizo zake, koma tiyeni tilumikizane ndi kugwedeza kwa maloto ake.
Chifukwa chake, kugona pafupi ndi malingaliro omwe sanazindikire zokhudzana ndi kukhulupirirana kwa ena:
"Tikuchoka ndi azakhali Olowera Pakhomo, ndimamufunsa kuti:" Kodi mukufuna kukwerera gudumu? " Amayankha mwa zochita za ana ake: "Ndikufuna." Amakhala pansi, ndimakhala kuti ndikuwonera kuchokera kumbali. Amapita patsogolo, amayima kenako kuchokera kwa wowonera onse kumbuyo, koma osati mu mzere wake, ndipo masamba akumanja atatsala kumbuyo kwa galimoto, kenako kuchokera ku Daci pomwe zimalowamo - Alamu 1st. Kenako galimoto ina imayendetsa, ndipo pazifukwa zina zimayendetsa mgalimoto ili. Apa ndatuluka kale. Galimoto yoyamba ndi yakale, ndipo iye anapeza pang'ono, woyendetsayo akuti safuna chilichonse; Woyendetsa wachiwiri akunena kuti amaphunzira mtengo wokonza.
Tsiku lotsatira adaitana ndikuti palibe zowonongeka za ma ruble 250,000. Ndadabwitsidwa, ndikunena kuti, mwina amalipira pa CTP. Ndili ndi woyang'anira mwadzidzidzi. Kenako ndikumvetsa kuti palibe azakhali anga ku Osago. Ndipo ngati satifiketi yachita kale, sizingakumbukire. Ndikuganiza kuti sindingathe kusuntha zonse izi pa azakhali. Ndipo dalaivala akuti salandila ndalama, chifukwa chake muyenera kundilipira.
Mapeto anga oti ndinali wowopa kwambiri kulankhula ndi munthu, chifukwa amandiwopseza ndi mavuto a zakuthupi, komanso wamba. Chifukwa yankho lonse lidzakhalabe kwa ine chimodzimodzi. Kodi ndi chiyani china chofunikira, sindimamvetsetsa. Chifukwa choti mfundo imeneyi ndi yosavuta, ndipo ndikudziwa. Ndikuganiza kuti pali kulumikizana komwe ndilibe antchito, sindiwakhulupirira. Kudikirira kutanthauzira kwanu. "
Mwambiri, monga momwe ndalankhulira mobwerezabwereza, ndikofunikira kutanthauzira maloto, fanizo lake lapadera ndi zizindikilo zake. Funso losangalatsa, amadzifunsa kuti wolumikizana ndi anthu komanso kuwononga amaphimba, popanda ogwira ntchito mu bizinesi yake.
Ndikuganiza kuti yankho ndi lodziwikiratu kwa iye. Amavomereza kuti galimoto yake ikadalamulidwa ndi azakhali, omwe samadziwa kuyendetsa, monga momwe ana amasangalalira. Zili ngati kukhulupirira nthawi zana kuti mukhulupirire Mawuwo, kuti Iye sadzamwa chigalasi, kapena wosewera wavidio yemwe sadzatenga wakale. Seweroli lonse, lomwe limasewera pambuyo, ndi umboni wokha kuti umalumikizana ndi anthu, podziwa kuti sangapirire.
Sizokayikitsa kuti mumenye ndalama zopindulitsa ndalama, makolo okalamba ofooka - kusuntha ndi kusamutsa piyano. Poganizira za kukumbukira ndi kukumbukira motsimikiza, mumapatsa mwayi kwa iwo omwe angathe kuthana nawo, kapena kudzipangira okha. Komabe, kugona kumaonetsa ngwazi, monga momwe amakhulupirira kwambiri komwe sikuyenera kuchitika. Chidaliro cha munthu wamkulu ndi chosiyana ndi lingaliro labwino la ana komanso zopanda malire chifukwa chodziwa zambiri komanso luso lanu kuzindikira, kumva: ndani ndi ndani amene angapatsidwe.
Kuphatikiza apo, magwiridwe onse a pambuyo pake akutsimikizika molimbika mwa kwawo kuti "aliyense kuti alipire chilichonse."
Izi zimamufotokozera kuti zilowe mu maubale ndi anthu olephera kapena anthu osadalirika, amayambiranso, kuzolowera chilichonse mwamphamvu kwambiri pakuganiza. Wozungulira. Ngati izi zidachitika ndi iye yekha, titha kudzipepuka. Koma izi ndi chikhalidwe cha munthu. Kuyenera, ngakhale zitakhala kopanda tanthauzo, kumafunikira maulosi odziteteza. Mwachitsanzo, lingaliro lodziwika bwino kuti "abambo sangathe kukhala odalirika kuti:" Msonkhano wokhala ndi amuna okwatirana: msonkhano wokhala ndi amuna okwatirana mowa.
Ngati tikambirana za ngwazi zathu, iye sayenera kuzindikira momwe angalipire, koma momwe amakwiyitsira okondedwa ake kuti "atsike" iye. Monga kukhulupilira mwakhungu komwe kumangokaniza kapena kuletsa.
Tikufuna zabwino zonse kwa iye panjira yosangalatsa kwambiri kuti musinthe zikhulupiriro zathu.
Mwa njira, izi, kapena zizindikiritso zoyipa za inu kapena za dziko lapansi, sizosavuta kuthengo. Malangizo opepuka kwa atsikana kapena agogo osiyanasiyana "Musaganizire za oyipa", "Pamwamba pa zabwino" pano sizingathandize. Zikhulupiriro zoipa zimangokhala pazinthu zopweteka. Chifukwa cha zochitika zovuta zomwe zinali pazomwe zinali zokumana nazo za aliyense komanso aliyense, timazindikira za ife eni ndi ena kuti afotokozere zomwe zikuchitika moona mtima. M'malo oyambilira, mfundo zoterezi zimathandiza kuthana ndi zomwe zikuchitika, koma zomwe zikuchitika m'moyo zimakhudza njira yoopsa kwambiri. "Sizosatheka kudalira" amuna "amangofalikira chabe, koma ndi prismo yomwe azimayi amayang'ana anthu onse. "Ine ndekha, palibe m'modzi wa ine padziko lapansi" nthawi yomweyo amayamba kuphompho pakati pa anthu. Tikazindikira kuti ndife ozindikira kuti sizingativulaze, koma mwina sitikudziwa zambiri, timamvera zilakolako zawo. Njira yopambana m'moyo ndikuzindikira zonena izi, kuyang'ana kwawo pazosasinthika ndi zowopsa zomwe maulosi owononga amenewo amatha kuwongoleredwa.
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Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin