Posachedwa, vutoli ndi ntchito yofufuza limakhala pachisoni kwambiri, koma limakhala lalikulu kwambiri pakadali pano munthu akakhala ndi vuto lakelo ndipo limakhala bwino kwambiri. Zimakhala zosasangalatsa ngati munthu wotere akakhala munthu yemwe mumamuona kuti "mtsogoleri wodalirika" komanso munthu amene angakanitsidwe. Nthawi zina palibe zokopa komanso zotchinga zimatha kutembenuza nkhaniyi. Tidazindikira momwe tingachitire ngati munthu asintha maudindo onse muubwenzi wanu, kuphatikizapo ndalama, pamapewa azimayi.
Mayamikiro Akuluakulu
Osati nthawi zonse kusanthula ntchito ndi Lena. Kuphatikiza apo, ngati mukuwona kuti mwamunayo amagwiritsa ntchito zoyesayesa zonse zofuna kuthana ndi vutoli, palibe chifukwa chochititsa manyazi. Osamayang'anira zochitika, chifukwa kupeza malo oyenera muyenera kuchita ndi kukhala oleza mtima. Kusiyana kotheratu kukuchitika ngati munthu amapewa kuyankhula za kupeza ntchito ndipo sachita chilichonse kuti athe kufikira cholinga. Pankhaniyi, sikofunikiranso kupukusa zofatsa - khalani patebulo "yokambirana". Munthu wofunitsitsa yemwe amayamikira ubale wanu adzamvetsera zopempha zanu ndikuti chidzafika pothetsa vuto lomwe silikupatsani mtendere.
Osapanga ntchito yonse
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Tiuzeni za momwe mukumvera
Inde, ngati mnzanuyo anyalanyaza zomwe mwakumana nazo, mkwiyo komanso chidani kwenikweni kwa munthu amene wangodziwana ndi munthu posachedwapa "wavala m'manja mwawo ungathe kubadwa mu mzimu. Amachita mawu ndi caustic m'malo ngati amenewa sangapewe, mutha kutsanulira mnzanu. Osawuka zomwe amaneneza, m'malo mwake, ndiuzeni momwe simuphweka komanso momwe mukuwonera ntchito yomwe ilipo, mwachitsanzo, kufunafuna kwa mnzake.
Osatembenukira ku "mayi"
Chinthu chosasangalatsa kwambiri chomwe mungachite ndikuyamba kufunafuna ntchito. Koma mumangopereka "chobala" chanu ndi wosankhidwa kwanu, chifukwa munthu angaganize kuti kufunafuna ntchito ndikofunika kwa inu, chifukwa chiyani ayenera kuvuta. Monga mukumvetsetsa, zochita zanu sizingamupatse. Kuphatikiza apo, ngakhale mutapeza malo oyenera, wokondedwa wakeyo adzakukumbutsani, ngati mungakumbukitsidwe ntchitoyo, komwe "siyikhala yolipira / Anzake osagwirizana ndi" etc.
Thandizo lagalimoto
Zachidziwikire, tikulankhula za nthawi imeneyo bambo akamayesa, koma sanachite bwino pamenepa. Kwa munthu aliyense, chithandizo chofunikira kwambiri, makamaka kwa munthu wosimidwa, chifukwa chiyani osamuchirikiza m'malo mongokufotokozerani nthawi yambi zana pomwe adzabwera kuntchito. Khalani ochenjera.