Banja ndi kachitidwe, ndipo, monga kachitidwe kalikonse, kamamveketsa malamulo ena. Malamulowa sawoneka osazindikira, koma kuphwanya kwawo kumawonekera kwambiri. Awa akupempha magwiridwe antchito mosiyanasiyana, ndipo magetsi okwera / alarm mu banja, ndi chipongwe ngati njira yolumikizirana, ndipo, monga mawonetsere, matenda am'mimba, kuphatikizanso ana ).
Chimodzi mwa malamulo omwe amakhalapo ndi makonzedwe a machitidwe ndi lamulo la olamulira, banjali lili ndi akulu a genius, omwe alipo ndi ocheperako, ndipo pali ang'ono.
Mabanja agawidwa:
-Nukiliya (a) Banja la okwatirana lopanda ana; B) Amayi, Abambo, Mwana / Ana)
— Owonjezereka (Makolo a zida za nyukiliya + ndipo nthawi zina amaphatikizapo makolo a makolo).
Monga lamulo, ana nthawi zambiri amakhala omasulidwa pakati pa abale athu, ngakhale kuti ku nyukiliya.
Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa mu banja lalitali, mulingo wokhazikika. Tiyeni tiyese kuzindikira.
Monga m'Chilamulo chilichonse, pali zingapo / zolemba muulo wa ulamuliro.
1.1. Banja la nyukiliya limakulitsidwa kwambiri, kupatula, ngati banja laling'ono lili ndi makolo.
1.2. Makolo Aabwino kuposa Ana (!)
1.3. Kwa mwana, atsogoleri akuluakulu ndi amayi ndi abambo.
Mwana akapusitsa mayi ndi agogo a (nthawi zambiri), izi ndichifukwa choti akuluwo sanasankhe mwa Yemweyo, ana osawerenga bwino awerengenso izi ndikugwiritsa ntchito pazolinga zawo.
Kwa mwanayo, wamkulu - Amayi ndi abambo, posowa, makolo amapereka mphamvu izi kwa munthu wina (agogo / agogo, agogo, ndi oterowo, ndikofunikira kutchula mwana. Chitsanzo: "Amayi auza mwana wake kuti:" Ngakhale kuti ndidzatsamira kukagwira ntchito, udzakhala ndi agogo. Pakuti mafunso onse apanani ndi iye. Pakusowa kwanga kuli kwathu. " Kenako, pa parishi, ndibwino kumaliza ntchitoyo, komanso ndi mwana. Amayi a Agogo akuti: "Amayi, zikomo kwambiri chifukwa chondikonzera kuti ndinakhala ndi mwana wanga wamwamuna."
Chifukwa chake, mwana sadzasokonezedwa m'mutu, ndipo sipadzakhala mwayi wocheperako.
Mubwezere ulamuliro wa mwana sanachedwe! Osawopa kumuuza kuti akuluakulu ndi ofunika kwambiri. Ana amafunikira kugona ndi zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa, zomwe zimachitika komanso kudya.
Pakukula kwake, nthawi zonse "amayesa" kukulitsa chisonkhezero chawo ndi malo, ntchito ya munthu wamkulu ndikuchepetsa, popeza anawo amatengera chitsanzo mu banja kuti athetse. ntchito komanso pagulu. Popeza ndakhala ndikugwiritsa ntchito kusangalalira m'banjamo, mwanayo sangachite bwino kuti ali m'mundamo, komanso kusukulu, komanso wacikulire.