Maubwenzi achikondi - mutu womwe umayambitsa zokambirana zambiri komanso mikangano yambiri kuposa ndale ndi zachuma. Ndi anthu ochepa omwe amasungidwa kuchokera ku kuyerekezera ku zomwe akudziwa komanso kukambirana zomwe angachite, tidzakhala mu ubale wawo. Zimakhala zovuta kwa mabanja osagwirizana - anthu akuyesera kuwatsutsa nthawi zonse ndikupanga zofanana ndi ambiri. Polyamoria ndi chitsanzo cha mtundu wa ubale womwe ulipo nthawi yayitali, koma osazindikirika ndi gulu lathu. Munkhaniyi, timalongosola bwino mfundo zake ndikuchotsa nthano.
Kondani ochepa ndikukhala owona kwa iwo
Zikuwoneka kuti ndizosatheka kukondana ndi othandizana ndi achinyamata awiri komanso ochulukirapo ndikulankhula za kukhulupirika - sichoncho? Komabe, polyamoria siyofanana ndi maubwenzi aulere - othandizana nawo, komanso muivale wamba, limodzi amakambirana ndi chidwi chofuna kugonana. Malinga ndi katswiri waku America paubwenzi wa Susan nyengo yachisanu, nthawi zambiri maubwenzi a poltamapita "nthawi zambiri amadziwika ndi banja lalikulu, lomwe ndi lolumikizana (komanso mogwirizana ndi anzanu achikondi. Izi zogonana zimatha kukhala ngati awiri kapena odziyimira pawokha. "
Anzakewa, ovuta kwambiri
Anthu ambiri - mavuto ambiri
Ma polyamoras ayenera kukhala ovuta kwambiri pakugawidwa kwa nthawi yomwe munthu aliyense payekha - aliyense ayenera kulipira osachepera ola limodzi, komanso makamaka. Mavuto kuntchito, kusakhutira, mikangano ndi ana - zonsezi zikukambidwa mu awiri monga maanja wamba kukambirana. Kuti akhalebe odekha, aliyense wa umodzi amafunikira nzeru zamphamvu kwambiri: kuti amvere enawo kuti asakhumudwe ndi zinyengo, kuti asadutse malire anu. Popeza polsomoor mwa awiri ndi m'modzi yekha, ndikofunikira kuti amupatse ufulu - kukhulupirira munthu ndikumulola kuti azikhala moyo wake, osaganizirana chimodzi pa ubongo awiri.
Mafunso okhudza moyo uyenera kuthetsa banja, osati gulu
Kuwona kosakwanira kwa ena
M'badwo wachikulire, pakuphunzira za Promomoria ya mwanayo, makamaka akuwopa kuti kuwonongedwa kwa Union kudakhazikitsidwa kale - okwatirana omwe mwana amatha kukula. Anzanu amakayikira kuti munthuyo adaganiza zoyesera sangayang'ane kuti abwenzi enane ndi omwe akugonana kwakanthawi. Chowonadi ndi chakuti poliyomoria ndi chinthu chabwinobwino chomwe chimamukhudza munthuyo ndipo savulaza ena. Phunzirani kuganizira mozama, ndipo osati template motsutsa, kuti musadzichenjeze ndi ena ndipo musamangire maganizidwe amomwe amafunikira kuti akhale ndi moyo.
Penyani mawonekedwe achikondi ngati chinthu chokongola ndikupanga, osawononga mlengalenga mkati mwanu. Vomerezani omwe ali ndi anzanu ngati anzanu: Ndikhulupirireni, ndikhulupirireni, palibe choopsa chokwanira kudziwana ndi okondedwa anu kuposa momwe mumadziwira.