Mpikisano uliwonse wachimuna, mu bizinesi kapena m'moyo wamunthu, ndikukangana mwachindunji kwa amuna awiri. Chilichonse chimachitika chimodzimodzi monga chilengedwe cha nyama. Akulimbana. Mwakuthupi, mwaluso, chikhalidwe, mawonekedwe. Nthawi zonse zimakhala mkangano wowongoka komanso wowongoka.
Mwa akazi, chilichonse ndi chosiyana, kupikisana nawo - chophimba, zinthu zophimbidwa, phazi lapafupi, jakisoni ndi pini kapena gawo lovuta. Nthawi yomweyo, mtundu wa msampha wampikisano adapangidwa, ndikutulutsa wopambana, muyenera kudziwa za iwo.
Tsatirani nambala 1 - Kuthamanga
Mzimayi amagwera m'makono a Triangle. "Amuna Kapena Amuna-Amuna Amuna. Munthu wopikisana akuwona cholinga chake ndikupita kukagonjetsa. Koma pansi ofooka kuli kwambiri ku malingaliro komanso kwathunthu, mutu umamizidwa mu mpikisanowu. Pakadali pano, cholinga chake ndi wosankhidwa kwawo - amakhala sekondale, kuyiwala za izi. Ndi malingaliro onse okhudza chinthu chimodzi: kuphunzitsa mnzake. Bweretsani zoyera kapena kutsimikiza mikhalidwe ndi zochulukira, kukonza mtundu wina: Zonsezi zimaganiziridwa mobisa.
Nthawi yomweyo, chidwi chonse chimasankhidwa ndi munthu kuti akhale mnzake. Pakadali pano, cholinga chilichonse cha izo ndikuphwanya ndikuwononga wotsutsa, osati momwe amakondera pamaso pa okondedwa ake. Ndipo amayimirira pambali ndikuyang'ana njirayi, akuwoneka ngati azimayi awiri omwe amapatsekona ndi tumakov, akuti Knickles, amapanga zoipa. Ndi cholinga chomwe adalowa m'mabuku ankhondo, sadzakwaniritsidwa, chifukwa onse awiri adasiya mbali ina. Iwo, akudziwulula okha kuwunikira koposa, akuvulaza wina ndi mnzake, nadzionera.
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Tsatirani nambala 2 - kunyalanyaza
Ngati mkazi abwera mu mpikisano, amachepetsa kwambiri mtengo wake mwadzidzidzi pamaso pa wosankhidwa wake. Akuwoneka kuti akufuula kuti: "Nditengere, ndibwino!". Koma malamulo wamba amisika sagwira ntchito paubwenzi. Izi ndizoyenera kuyenda pakati pa mizere ndikusankha zomwe zikugulitsidwa. Kupezeka kumakopa wogula mtundu wina wa zinthu zina, koma posankha mzimayi wa munthu amachita mbali yosiyana kwambiri. Oimira chikondi champhamvu chogonana kuti asasunge nyama, kuthana ndi zotchinga, zotchinga. Amathamangitsa kalulu, osayang'ana mu mawonekedwe omalizidwa.
Mkazi akamenya munthu, amadziwonetsa kuposa wotsika mtengo. "Ogulitsa! Panopa pano! Ma ruble onse asanu! " Zachifundo za Hunter zimachoka kwathunthu, chifukwa safuna chala chokhala ndi chala, iye abwera kudzathamanga mphwambala wake woyamba kapena ngakhale kuyenda kwamaso. Mkazi amafalitsa kuti ali ndi zipolowe zabwino kuposa mitengo yake, okonzeka kupambana pamtengo uliwonse, mulimonse. Kodi ndizotheka pankhaniyi kuti mugonjetse?
Tsatirani Nambala 3 - Kukweza Chisankho
Kupikisana, azimayi amakulitsa zomwe akumvera. Chiwerengero chachimuna chija chimakula m'maso mwawo, chimakhala chofunikira kwambiri. Kudzimva kunawonekera, chikhumbocho chimakulitsidwa, kusokonezeka kwa malingaliro kumakukulirakulira komanso kulimba. Amazunzidwa ndi malingaliro, kudya zokumana nazo. Uku sikulinso munthu wokha amene amamvera chisoni kwambiri kotero ndikufuna kuyesa ubale, koma chitsimikizo chokha m'moyo, makhoma abwino kwambiri.
Ndipo tikakumana ndi anthu osankhidwa kumeneku, kufalikira kwa osankhidwa kwanu kukukula, ngakhale sikuchita chilichonse payekha. Zotsatira zake, chithunzi chojambulidwa mwamphamvu cha munthu, chomwe nthawi zonse chimafanana ndi chokwanira. Malamulo a msika akugwira kale ntchito pano: Ngati akufuna kukwera, ndalama zikukulira mtengo.
Tsatirani nambala 4 - Kuopa kutaya Thupi
Polimbana ndi munthu, chikondi cha mkazi chikukula. Iye mwiniyo amadzikonzera yekha, kubweretsa zomwe anali wodabwitsa komanso wabwino kwambiri. Pamodzi ndi izi, mantha otaya osankhidwa awo akukula, omwe akhala chuma chenicheni. Manthawa amakhumudwitsa umunthu wake kwambiri pa umunthu wake, mantha angamveke pachibwenzi kuti sangamukwaniritse. Kupatula apo, watulutsa kale miyezi 5 kuti agonjetse ndi kugwira munthu uyu - chinsalu chabwino kwambiri komanso "chomaliza cha Moigun".
Nthawi yomweyo, mkaziyo akuvina mokwanira ndi mwamuna, zikuwoneka kuti kwa iye kuti pali osaka ambiri mozungulira, motero ndikofunikira kulumikiza. Ndikosangalatsa komanso yotakasuka. Mkazi ngati leecheche, mobwerezabwereza amadzipweteka m'maso mwake. Kwa iye, ndiye yekhayo wabwino, ndipo amangoona ena m'moyo wake. Sanataye malingaliro komanso otsutsa. Titha kunenedwa kuti amadzimangirira ngati munthu wokwanira.
Mkazi akamenya munthu, amadziwonetsa kuposa wokwera mtengo
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Msampha wa nambala 5 - nsanje kuti mumumenye
Vuto la mpikisano wotere limayambitsa kaduka. Poyamba, kukangana kumayamba ndendende chifukwa mkaziyo akuganiza - ngakhale atakhala mosavuta, mozama pang'onopang'ono - ndiye wachiwiri kuposa pamenepo. Zokongola kwambiri, zosangalatsa kwambiri, zogwira ntchito, zabwino, chifukwa chake kusankha kungakhale mtsogolo mwake. Ndipo malingaliro awa amachititsa kuti wopikisana naye adziwonongetse.
Kuti muchepetse mtengo wake mwina m'maso mwake, ndipo nthawi yomweyo - komanso m'maso mwa ena, mayiyo ayamba kumutsutsa, akumamuuza ena, ndi oyipa komanso osayenera. Mumawonetsa kusagwirizana kwanu, kusatsimikizika pakutha kwanu komanso kuthekera kwanu. Ndipo mumakhala ngati mzimayi wokalamba yemwe amakhala pachifuwa.
Kodi mungapewe bwanji mpikisano wopikisana?
1. gonjetsani mantha onse pamaso pa ocheperako komanso okongola kuposa inu.
Mawu omwe atsikana ang'ono okha omwe ali ndi mawonekedwe achitsanzo amagwiritsidwa ntchito pofuna - zabodza. Kwa munthu wokondeka, osankhidwa kwake nthawi zonse amakhala mkazi wokongola kwambiri padziko lapansi.
2. Musapereke kuti muwapatse mpikisano wanu.
Lolani ena adzichititse manyazi okha, ndikugwetsa mtengo wawo pamaso pa munthu. Osatenga nawo mbali movutikira, kuti muchite mokwanira ndipo mudzawoneka wopindulitsa kwambiri. "Ndipo ndikuwonjezera yogurt ku saladi, osati mayonesi," m'matumba otere, ngakhale pakhala pali "poto" mu zotengera izi.
3. Zochitika zilizonse, khalani olimba mtima komanso omasuka.
Ngati muli ndi kudzidalira kokwanira, chithunzicho chakhazikitsidwa, pambali pake, mwakwaniritsa zovuta, simudzakhala ndi mavuto pamavuto aliwonse.
4. Kukopa munthu wanu ndikukhala kwa Iyeyo.
Kugwira ntchito pa iyemwini, kumakulitsa monga munthu, kuwulula ukazi wake ndi kudzipangitsa yekha udindo wa mkazi wake, kutsatira njira yoyenera ndi njira, mudzapeza theka lanu.
Pankhondo ya munthu, chikondi cha mkazi chikukula bwino
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Gawo 1: Kudziwunika "Ndine lero"
Pa gawo loyamba loyambirira lomwe muyenera kudzikumbukira, muli ndi chiyani pakadali pano. Ndipo yambani kudzichita nokha, kumvetsetsa komwe muli ndi cholumikizira chofooka. Ndi luso ndi maluso ati osakwanira? Kodi chithunzi chanu sichichotsedwa chiyani? Kodi muyenera kugwira ntchito kuti muulule mu mawonekedwe opindulitsa kwambiri?
Khwerero 2: Kuwulula Kwa Mkazi Kuwulula
Mumapanga dongosolo kuti mukonzekere kusintha kwanu ndikutsatira. Popanda kupopera mbewu, osasokonezedwa, ikani ntchito zingapo ndikuzichita. Mukuchita, yerekezerani kuti simuli ndi bwenzi kapena ndi lingaliro labwino, koma nokha ndi inu nokha. Onani zomwe mudali ndi zitsulo ziti. Zabwino kwambiri ... komanso zabwinoko ...
Gawo Lachitatu: Kupanga Zinthu Zosankha
Muyenera kuchita zonse zomwe zingachitike kuti mudzisankhire munthu, wabwino kwambiri. Mwa kudzisintha nokha, mumaphika chatsopano kuti ndikhale woyenera kukhala wochita bwino. Muyenera kumvetsetsa mtundu womwe umafunikira munthu wotere momwe angadzipangire yekha ndi iye ndi momwe angapangire banja lolimba lolimba.
Mkazi weniweni amakhala akudziwa za kupanikizika kwake.
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Kuchokera pa Puku - mu Gulugufe!
Mkazi amasandutsidwa, kusintha, kumadzipangira yekha mmbali zonse. Anatulutsa chithunzi chake chakunja, ndipo anasiya mkaziyo kwa mkazi kwa mkazi. Kuwongolera umunthu wake, amapanga dziko losiyana lamkati, limadziona kuti limadzikonda iyemwini ndi chidaliro, osataya zingwe zakale. Amawulula zakugonana ndi umunthu wake. Amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito bwino thupi. Kulankhulana bwino ndi abambo amaphunzira zanzeru zawo. Ndipo kwenikweni, yeniyeni Kupadera kwake.
Mkazi wotere sangakumane m'njira yomwe mukufuna.
Iye ndi mayi weniweni woyenera kudziwika pagulu komanso kusilira komanso kukonda kugonana kwamphamvu. Ndikogwirizana, ndipo chilichonse mwachidule chithunzi chake sichinalumikizidwe ndi dziko lakunja, lomwe limazungulira komanso ndi dziko lake. Zonsezi zimapangitsa kuti mzimayi wamkazi wamphamvu zamkati, zomwe zimakopa anthu opambana.
Pokhala nazo zonsezi, mutha kukhala chithunzi cha ukazi ndi kukopa, kuzunguliridwa ndi chisamaliro, mudzakhala osangalala ndi chikondi ndikudzikhazikitsa ngati mkazi ndi mayi.
Ndikulakalaka mukakumana ndi theka lanu, pezani chisangalalo, pangani banja lokongola. Ndipo ndidzakuthandizani ndi izi: Julia anu a Julia, katswiri pa kusankha kwa awiri abwino ukwati.