Kulefuka kwa maubale nthawi zonse kumakhala kovuta, zotsatira zake ndi zomwe ambiri amakonda kugwedezeka ndi chikondi chatsopano, koma nthawi zambiri chimatchulidwa. Akatswiri amisala amalimbikitsa kutenga nthawi yosangalatsa, ndipo tinazindikira chifukwa chake.
"Ayi" zakale
Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti kugonana ndi woyambayo atakhala ndi matupi anu osakhazikika, sadzabweretsa mpumulo, ndipo simungathe kulankhulana ndi kale, pongokana mgwirizano. Ngati mwabwera kuti muthetse maubalewa, siyani kucheza ndi zakale, ziribe kanthu momwe mungapangire zogonana "zochezeka" izi. Pezani mphamvu kuti ifikire patsamba lino m'moyo wanu ndikubwezeretsa mwaluso kwa buku lotsatira.
Zindikirani zomwe mukuyembekezera kuyambira
Ngakhale nthawi yokwanira itapita ndipo mukusangalala ndi maubale atsopano, pendani zomwe cholakwika chanu chinali nthawi yotsiriza (kapena nthawi) pomwe mumalakwitsa mwa munthu. Mwina mwasankha mosamala osati okwatirana amenewo omwe angafune, kapena kutsatira malingaliro a abwenzi ndi abale, kuwunika anzawo omwe angakhale nawo pa maubale okhazikika ndi maso awo. Ngakhale kuti muli mfulu, mvetsetsani zomwe mukufunikira.
Khalani ndi nthawi
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Phunzirani kumvetsera nokha
Tikamakula ndikupeza chidziwitso, nthawi zambiri timayamba kukhala ndi malingaliro ndi machitidwe a anthu ena, omwe sangafanane ndi zofuna zathu. Ndizosasangalatsa makamaka pamene malingaliro a pagulu amakhudza chisankho cha moyo wa satelari. Kumbukirani kuti mudzakhala ndi moyo ndi munthuyu mudzakhala nawo, osati bwenzi lako, lomwe mu msonkhano wonse ukukakukanani pansi pa tebulo, osanenapo chidwi chanu ndi mnzanu. Mverani nokha.
Khalani otseguka chatsopano
Mutu wina umakhala wotanganidwa ndi malingaliro athu, kukhazikitsa kwake kumachedwetsedwa kwa nthawi yayitali. Modabwitsa, koma chowonadi. Yesani kusinthana ndi china chatsopano, mwachitsanzo, lowani, pamapeto pake, maphunziro omwe simunakhale nawo kale, kapena kupeza njira yatsopano. Cholinga chathu ndikusintha chidwi. Komabe, khalani okonzekera misonkhano yatsopano nthawi zonse, osakana chibwenzi ndipo mudzaona kuti "munthu wanu" adzakupezani.