Ziwerengero za makanema achingelezi "okonda kwambiri a Chingerezi", malinga ndi kafukufuku wa 2017, akuti: Akazi 70+ amakhutira ndi azimayi azaka 40+. Gwirizanani, izi sizosangalala? Nthawi zambiri, mavuto amabwera chifukwa cha mavuto azaumoyo - anthu awo amayesetsa kuchiritsa zina. Kusazindikira pafupifupi pafupifupi zana limodzi la milandu amalankhula za kulephera kuyankhula m'mawu kudzera mkamwa. Malangizo, kuyesa kunyengerera, kuchezera maphunziro ogonana - zonsezi ndizopanda ntchito ngati simukufuna bwenzi nthawi imodzi. Munkhaniyi amagawidwa ndi upangiri - sangapweteketse kunyada kwa wokondedwa wake, akulankhula naye za kugonana.
Ndine kalata yoyamba ya zilembo
Kuyambira ndili mwana, tikuphunzira kulingalira za ena ndikudzipereka. Izi ndi zongocheza ndi wokondedwa popanda "Ine" sindingachite. Yambani ndi kufotokozera kwa malingaliro anu ndi zokhumba zanu, osadandaula za wokondedwa wanu. Zomwe zimanenedwazo zimaphatikizidwa ndi malingaliro, kunyoza kapena kunyalanyaza - aliyense wa iwo adzakhumudwitsidwa ndi wokondedwa, zomwe zingamulimbikitse kuyesa kuyesa. Pempho lililonse likhoza kufotokozedwa kudzera mu chikondi ndi chikhumbo cha chisangalalo chonse: Malinga ndi chisokonezo chomwe chidzawerengedwa mosazindikira. M'malo mwa "inu ndinu ovala ndipo simumandipsompsone pakuyamba," ndiuzeni "ndimakukondani, motero ndikufuna kuti ndikhale wachifundo kwambiri - kumpsompsona kudzandipsompsona nthawi zambiri?".
Yang'anani pazomvera zanu
Lankhulani
Ngakhale ofunsa mafunso okhudza kuyandikira kwa munthu amakhala ndi nkhawa akamalankhula za kugonana osati ndi mnzake, koma omwe amawakonda. Pofuna kuti kukambirana kukhala ndi zotsatira, sonkhanani ndi magulu ndikufotokozerani zomwe simukukhutira. Mwachitsanzo, "pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwana, minofu yanga yapamtima sinabwereke kwa kamvekedwe - ine ndikufuna kulowa mu mawonekedwe akuya kuposa masiku onse. Tiyeni tiyesere kuvina?" Ndikwabwino kuposa kunena kuti simukumva chilichonse pakugonana - Apa chifukwa chake chimatha kuvulaza zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Kukhala ndi vuto linalake, inu ndi mnzanuyo kumakhala kosavuta kuzithetsa ntchito yolumikizirana.
Osayerekezera wina aliyense
Ingoganizirani kuti munthu amene mumakonda ndi woyamba m'moyo wanu. Izi ndizothandiza kwa iwo omwe amakonda kukumbukira omwe ali ndi anzawo omwe anali mnzake. Fananizani mnzanuyo ndi iye wakale komanso pano. Chongani pambuyo pa kutha kwa zomwe mumakonda: nenani mokweza, kuti wokondedwa wanu amamvetsetsa "tchipisi" kuti agwiritsenso ntchito, ndipo kuchokera pazomwe zikufunika kwambiri. Kukongoletsa kotereku kumatha kumasulira zokambirana zanu kukhala mitu yayikulu kwambiri.
Siyani zokambirana zapadera
Sungani mawu anu
Ndipo asungwana ndi anyamata amachimwa ndikulankhula za kugonana ndi abwenzi apamtima. Ndi chinthu chimodzi, ngati mumasintha pafupipafupi okwatirana - pakuyankhulana amakhala wopanda "wopanda chiyembekezo" ndipo ndi nkhani zabwino kwambiri zokambirana za kampaniyo. Funso losiyana kwambiri ndi liti pamene muli maubwenzi okhazikika: sizokayikitsa kuti bambo wanu angasangalale kudziwa kuti atsikana anu amadziwa zomwe amakonda komanso zomwe Lingrie amakopa. Ngati muli omasuka kukambirana za mitu yapamtima, chonde, zomwe zikuwonetsa: anthu amakonda kusiya zokambirana kumbuyo kwa nyumba zawo.