Mosiyana ndi vuto lomwe mkwatibwi ukwati usanayembekezere mosangalala, pamene wokondedwa wake akanakhala mwamuna wake wovomerezeka, ukwati ndi vuto lililonse, kusintha maudindo ndi maudindo. Aliyense akukonzekera ukwati, ndipo mkwatibwi amakakamizidwa kuiwala za ma alamu awo, chete mwakachetechete. Ndipo izi sizitanthauza kuti alibe chisangalalo. Osangokhala malo ochulukirapo mu buti laukwati asanalankhule za kukayikira, mantha ndi nkhawa.
Chifukwa chake, zonsezi zinagwera mkaziyo m'maloto, kuti athane ndi zokumana nazozo, mwanjira ina zimawapeza.
Chifukwa chake, loto la m'modzi wa owerenga athu, lomwe lidzakwatirana posachedwa:
"Nditaima m'chipinda cha agogo, ndi anthu ena. Mmodzi wa iwo adanena kuti mkwati wanga anali ndi chikondi, koma tsopano salinso amoyo, kenako adanena kuti adalankhula ndi munthu mobisa, ndipo sindinali wosasangalatsa, ndidasokonezeka, ndidayamba Ndidatsatira zopinga zagalimoto. Poyamba ndinkafuna kupha ndi mpeni, ndipo adaponya mpeni, koma adanditsanulira, ndipo ndidathawa. Kenako, zidutswa za banja lokalamba. Mayiyo adabwerako m'ndende kapena mtundu wina, womwe adakumana ndi mwamuna wake, ndipo iwonso anali abwino, mokondwa, ndipo mayi uyu amaphedwa usiku. Kuwala ... Maloto onse anali imvi yakuda, madzulo. Kenako wokalambayo amapha mumsewu mumsewu, ndipo mkazi wake watsala. "
Chifukwa chake, lingalirani za Mepana. Ngwazi yathu imapezeka m'nyumba ya agogo ake. Kenako imatsatira imfa ya m'modzi mwa okwatirana. Kuchokera pachilendochiwo, sindingaganize kuti ngakhale udzathetsa. Monga ngati m'maloto, alumpha zaka makumi ambiri kuti akubwera, ndipo amakhala agogo ake, ndipo amazindikira kuti mnzakeyo ankakonda wina aliyense koma iye atakonda wina kupatula iye.
Ngati mungatanthauzire mobwerezabwereza maloto - akuti m'modzi mwa okwatirana sadzakhala woyamba kapena pambuyo pake chikondi chimenecho, ngakhale zitatha bwanji. Ndipo ubalewo ndi wa Flite.
Achinyamata akamangokumana, sadzachita nawo malingaliro awa. Koma ukwati ndi chinthu china. Ngakhale ngati simukuganiza za izi, tikudziwa kwinakwake mu mzimu womwe pafupi ndi munthuyu akuyenera kukumana ndi ukalamba, kenako kufa.
Mutu wa kufa ndi phokoso ndi chimodzi mwambiri. Wolemba wotchuka komanso psychooterapist Irwin Yal akuti mantha amphamvu kwambiri m'moyo wathu ndiopa imfa. Ili ndi zochepa mu unyamata, komanso wazaka zimayamba kumveka. Sizingagonjetsedwe ndikunyalanyaza. Ndi iwo pali anthu onse popanda kupatula. Muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire naye, kuzindikira kuti sikudzakhala okondedwa athu komanso okondedwa athu, omwe timadziwika nafe ndi moyo wathu.
Ngwazi yathu ikukumana ndi ntchito yotere ya moyo wake monga banja. Izi ndi za moyo, kuphatikizapo mathero ake.
Ndizotheka kuti mothandizidwa ndi malotowa, imakopera ma alarm ndi nkhawa zawo zomwe sizingatheke m'mabanja ataliitali.
Mutha kupangira ngwazi zathu mwanzeru ndikugwiritsa ntchito mosamala maloto anu tsopano - zimamuthandiza kuda nkhawa ndi zomwe zikugwirizana ndi zomwe zimakhudzana ndi ukwati wake, kuphatikizapo ngakhale kuti mwamuna wake wamtsogolo amakonda munthu wina koma mnzake wam'tsogolo koma adakonda munthu wina. Ndipo silinakonzedwenso.
Ndipo ndi mafunso amtundu wanji omwe amakweza ndikuchiritsa maloto anu? Tumizani mafunso anu pa positi: [email protected].
Maria Zemkova, wamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso kutsogolera kukhazikika kwa kukula kwa malo ogulitsira marika Hazin.