Tonse sitikuyimira moyo wopanda chikondi, koma njira kwa iye aliyense wa ife. Wina ali ndi mwayi, ndipo amapeza chikondi chawo mwachangu, ngakhale muubwana. Wina amapeza, kutaya, koma osataya mtima, koma amakhulupirira ndikudikirira, nthawi zina kwa zaka zambiri, chisangalalo chake. Wina samadikirira modzichepetsa yekha wokha, choncho kufunafuna iye akusanduka pamasewera osangalatsa kuposa kudzaza miyoyo yawo. Koma pali ena omwe akufunafuna chikondi samabweretsa china chilichonse kupatula zokhumudwitsa ndi zokumana nazo zamaganizidwe. Mwachitsanzo, izi, mwachitsanzo, atsikana omwe amataya chidwi ndi abambo omwe amakondana nawo.
Poyamba, izi sizingawonekere zachilendo: kufunafuna chidwi cha munthu amene angafune komanso kutaya chidwi ndi izi akangokumana ndi kubweza. Koma kwenikweni, vutoli limapezeka kawirikawiri. Amakhulupirira kuti kusaka kumakhala kwachilendo kwa amuna, pali malangizo ambiri kwa atsikana za momwe angachitire ndi amuna kuti ayambitse chidwi chawo pogwiritsa ntchito chibadwa chawo. Nthawi yomweyo, lingaliro la "chibadwa" limatanthawuza kuti munthu sazindikira mopanda tanthauzo, kumvera kosasinthika.
Kodi mtsikana akhoza kukhala pansi pa ulamuliro wa zomwezi? Mwina banja (kapena kukhalapo kwa munthu wapafupi) amakhala cholinga chofunikira kwambiri. Potere, munthu aliyense, woyenera kapena woyenera kwenikweni muubwana ndi mawonekedwe, amakhala chinthucho "kusaka" (ndipo nthawi zovuta kwambiri, kumasaka ngakhale kwa iwo omwe sayenera kuchitira). Mtsikanayo akukopeka, amakopa chidwi ndi iye, ngakhale kuti sanachotse munthu amene ali patsogolo pake. Asitikali onse amapita kukakonda, osadziwa munthu, chithunzi cha munthu nthawi zambiri chimakonzedwa, chimasinthidwa ndi miyezo yomwe mukufuna, ndipo - imangopangidwa.
Asitikali onse a mtsikanayo afuna, ndipo osadziwa chikondwerero chanu
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Ndipo munthu wopangidwa ndi munthu wotereyu pamapeto pake akhudza mtsikanayo, kulankhulana kwawo kuyandikira kwambiri, mwaumwini, mwadzidzidzi, chilichonse chomwe chapangidwa sichowona, komanso kuti sichoyenera. " Ndiye kuti, munthu amakhala wabwinobwino pakokha, koma m'chithunzi chopangidwa sichikudziwika. Ndipo kusokonekera kumeneku kumadzetsa kukhumudwitsa - mphamvu zambiri zimatha, osati pamenepo. Mtsikanayo amataya chidwi naye.
Zochitika? M'malo mwake, zinthu zitha kukhala zosiyana pang'ono, koma zotsatira zake ndizofanana: munthu akangokhala wotsika mtengo, chidwi chake. Ndipo nthawi zambiri, makamaka chifukwa munthu weniweni samakwaniritsa zoyembekezera zathu. Koma chinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri ndikuti sayenera kufanana ndi iwo, sadziwa kuti unakondana nawo, koma mwa inu adapanga fanolo. Zigwa zimatha kukhala zonse - ndipo mtsikanayo yemwe adalandira "osalakwitsa," ndipo munthu amene samvetsa zomwe sanakondweretse.
Nthawi zambiri, kusaka kwa munthu (Trophy) - msonkho ku lingaliro la Sosaite "tiyenera kukhala ndi munthu." Koma zenizeni, mtsikanayo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mantha kapena samafuna chibwenzi chachikulu. Pankhaniyi, iye amakopa, akwanitsa, ndipo atalandira chitsimikizo cha malingaliro ochokera kwa munthu, amataya aliyense wofunitsitsa kupitiriza.
Kuti musakhumudwe, simuyenera kuti musachite bwino munthu. Ndikwabwino kudziwa zomwe akuimira
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Kwa ena, kusaka kotereku ndi mtundu wa fupa lanu, "nditha". Koma pankhaniyi, mtsikanayo alibe cholinga chopanga ubale wautali komanso wapamtima, ndi masewera chabe. Kumva pakavalo, wokongola, wofunira.
Ambiri amaganiza kuti mkazi woterewa ndi chizindikiro chodzikuza. Koma motero, ndipo mwina, mtsikanayo ali ndi mavuto ena odzikuza komanso amaopa ubale.
Njira yothekera mu zinthu zili pamenepo, komwe ndi khomo ndi lolowera silingaganizire! Palibe chifukwa chodzipangira munthu kwa inu nokha, pamsonkhano woyamba womwe ukupereka ukwati wabwino, ndi ukwati wa kukhitchini kunyumba kwanu, komanso ana amtsogolo. Gwiritsani ntchito mphamvu ndi nthawi kuti mudziwe kuti ndani pamaso panu. Zochita zimawonetsa kuti kudziwa zinthu mwanzeru, kukambirana pang'ono, masana omwe kampani imodzi kumathandiza kuti mumvetsetse, kaya muyenera kudziwana? Inde, kumayambiriro kwa ubale wathu tonse tili akhungu pang'ono, osafuna kuti tisazindikire pa osankhidwa zomwe sitimakonda kwenikweni, koma simuyenera kulimbana ndi izi! Kumbukirani, mumangosewera osati ndi malingaliro anu, komanso ndi malingaliro a munthu. Ndipo awa si masewera omwe Blafuye adapambana.