Posachedwa ndidabwera zilembo zingapo za maloto osavuta, omwe ndakhala ndikudikirira kwa nthawi yayitali. Kwa zaka pafupifupi 4 zakupezeka kwa zilembo ndi zoterezi, sanakhulupirire.
Mwina chifukwa safunikira kutanthauzira, komanso mopweteketsa nkhani yake!
Komabe, pazitsanzo pansipa kuti ndipamene mungakweze.
Gona Yoyamba:
"Ndimalota za chikondi changa choyamba. Ndinakumana naye kusukulu komanso kumaphunziro oyamba a Institute. Timadzipeza kuti tili ndi mwayi wokhala ndi maloto, m'maloto omwe ndimakhala ndi nkhawa, chisangalalo chowopsa kwambiri ndi chogonana. Zowona, motsutsana ndi maziko a zomwe zikuchitika, zokambiranazokha zimakhala ngati mwamuna wanga. "
Gona Lachiwiri (Wolemba ena):
"Sindinadalire nkhawa kwambiri ngati izi zaka zingapo, ndipo ndinalota. Ndinkalota kwa amuna omwe ali wapadera, ndipo nthawi yayitali ndi omwe ndidachokapo kwa nthawi yayitali, koma ndimakhala chete. Ndidadzuka, amuna anga omwe ali pafupi ndi. Nditadzuka, ndinakhala ndi mlandu, ndi chisangalalo chotani nanga chikuyembekeza, ndipo ndi bwenzi lenileni, sikumatopa kwambiri, ndipo sikatha. "
Mukudziwa? Mwamuna wotsutsa ndi ngwazi yokonda, ndipo mnzake ndiye wotumphuka wake.
Apa ndikufuna kukondwerera mphindi zochepa za maloto awa:
imodzi. Ndikosavuta kukhala Macho, monga momwe zongofunira zili pa zongopeka, zomwe zimayambitsa zosowa zawo. Ndili ndi mnzanu weniweni, muyenera kufunsa kapena kupereka china chake mu mapulani ogonana. Ndipo nthawi yomweyo sungani mulingo woyenera kuti musatazolo. Koma kugonana ndiye mutu wa mapeboo, samalankhula naye, chifukwa kugonana kwa okwatirana posachedwa kapena kutopa. Malingaliro samaganizira za chimango chomwecho, chifukwa chake zonse zili mwa iwo mwanjira yabwino kwambiri.
2. . Mulimonsemo, chifukwa cha maloto awiriwa, maloto awa amawonetsa kuchepa kwa chikhutiro chogonana. Mfundoyi siili mwa wokondedwa wawo, koma mwa kuthekera kwawo kungakhale ndi thupi ndi thupi lonse. Kwa iwo, lidzakhala nkhani yabwino, chifukwa chisangalalo ichi chimapezeka kwa iwo m'moyo, osati m'maloto okha.
3. Funso losangalatsa kwambiri la ngwazi zamasiku ano ndi: Kodi apanga chiyani mu ubale wawo ndi amuna, omwe kale anali oti amakonda? Kodi amaziziritsa chiyani chibwenzi? Momwe mungawononge kukhudzika pabedi ndi amuna?
Zachidziwikire, ndizosavuta kudzuka pano mu katsutso, akuti, "Samakhala wosaganizira," sachita chidwi ndi ine, "" Alibe chidwi ndi ine, sitipita kulikonse, musanene. " Zoyambitsa misa. Nthawi yomweyo, kugonana ndi kupsinjika koopsa, kusinthika kwakukulu, komwe kumawonetsera mawonekedwe enieni mu awiri. Kuphatikiza pa kubwezeretsanso, kugonana kumawunikiranso kwa onse omwe ali payekhapayekha: momwe ambiri amakondera komanso amadziyamikira okha, amadzidalira, kukhala owoneka bwino komanso odekha komanso odekha . Mwina kugonana ndi kunyalanyazidwa kwambiri kuti mumazindikira nokha ndi mnzawo.
Tiyeni tisiye maloto athu ndi mafunso awa. Mwina, ndikokwanira kuyambitsa kafukufuku.
Ndipo ndi maloto anji a inu? Tumizani maloto anu ndi mafunso ndi makalata a [email protected].
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin