Kuchokera kwa owerenga a kalata:
"Moni!
Ndili mbanja zaka 10. Tili ndi maubale abwino ndi amuna anga, timamvetsetsa zonse ndikuyesera kuthandizana. Sitingakhale ndi ana kwanthawi yayitali. Ndipo tsopano, mwana woyembekezeredwa wautali anaonekera chaka chatha. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga timakhala osangalala, sangalalani powoneka, owuma, mphindi iliyonse ya moyo wake. Apa maonekedwe ake amawoneka okha manja onse ndi moyo wathu. Ndimakhala nthawi zonse ndi mwana wanu. Mwamuna amachokera kuntchito ndipo nthawi yomweyo amapita kwa iye kapena amayesetsa kuti andithandizire pa ntchitoyi. Zotsatira zake, madzulo ndimatha kutamandira ndipo mphamvu imasowa wina ndi mnzake. Za kungokhala limodzi kapena kupita kwinakwake, ndakhala chete. Ngakhale kuti sitikhala osagonana !!! Ndinkakonzekera kuti mwana asintha moyo wathu, koma osati kwambiri !!! Kodi ndi mawonekedwe a mbadwawo anawonera chikondi chonse mpaka kalekale? "
Moni!
Bata, bata yokha! Kudandaula kwamtunduwu kumamveka nthawi zambiri kuchokera kwa makolo omwe adapangidwa kumene. Makamaka mwana akakhala woyembekezera komanso wokondedwa. Ndikufuna ndimupatse nthawi yomweyo. Pali gulu la nkhawa. Kodi Mungatani Zonse? Ndingatani ngati ndilibe nthawi kapena sabata? Ndimakumbukiranso zolakwa za makolo athu omwe, omwe safuna kubwereza kwathunthu. Kodi kugonana pano ndi chiyani? Kodi malo achikondi ali kuti?
Nthawi zambiri, kukhala makolo, timayiwala kwathunthu kuti ndife okwatirana. Ndipo ichi ndi cholakwika chosakhululukidwa. Kukula, ana sasangalalabe chifukwa cha nsembezi. Amawoneka ngati awo, makolo amachoka. Kudera nkhawa kwawo kwambiri kumakhala kosafunikira. Ndipo makolowo ali ndi ulemu. Kupereka mphamvu zosagwirizana? Zovuta? Zikafika kuti aiwale kale momwe angakhalire limodzi. Kupatula apo, mphamvu zonse zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa mwana wokondedwa ... zonsezi zimatha mavuto, muukwati komanso kholo la ana.
Kuphatikiza apo, sikuti ndi chifukwa chodzikhululukira kuti ayankhulena ndi wina ndi mnzake.
Banja lanu tsopano lalumikizana ndi gawo latsopanoli, mwana wamng'ono adawonekera. Muyenera kumanganso moyo wonse. Ndipo sizitanthauza kuti palibe malo okondana nawo. Pakalipano chifukwa cha izi muyenera kuchita izi ...
Chifukwa chake muyenera kutenga lamulo limodzi. Osachepera kamodzi pa sabata. Gawo laulamuliro lingasamutsidwe kwa agogo, ngati alipo. Kapena nan. Mulimonsemo, iwalani za wina ndi mnzake - iyi ndi mlandu womwe chilango chomwe sichingalephereke.
Kuphatikiza apo, makolo achimwemwe komanso odekha ndizofunika kwambiri kwa mwana, ndipo osasamala bwino mathalauza ndi phala lotentha. Makolo a makolo amakhala ndi chopereka chachikulu m'tsogolo cha mwana.