Mutu Wobwezeretsa M'banja, monga lamulo, amakambidwa m'mabwalo a azimayi, chifukwa ndi mkazi wotenga nkhawa zambiri za mbadwa, nthawi yomweyo lingaliro la amuna silimayang'aniridwa kwambiri pankhaniyi, Ngakhale mnzanuyo ndi chiwalo chonse cha mkangano - kuyambitsa mwana kapena ayi. Tidzanenanso zifukwa zodziwika bwino kwambiri ngati munthu sanakonzekere kukhala bambo.
Mwina sangasankhidwe kwa nthawi yayitali kuti akhalebe tate
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Sakonzeka kutenga udindo
Mnyamatayo, yemwe maphunziro awo adakumana ndi wina aliyense, kupatula abambo am'mbuyomu, mtsogolo pakhoza kukhala zovuta pakupanga mabanja awo. Popeza bamboyo sanawone chitsanzo cha ubale pakati pa abambo ake ndi mwana wake, amatha kufooka komanso kuopa zatsopano, zosadziwika ndi abambo ake. Pankhaniyi, bambo wamtsogolo sangamupwetekere nthawi yambiri ndi anzawo omwe ali ndi ana, kuti "mutha kuphulika" mwa inu nokha maluso ofunikira.
Sangasankhe pa zakukhosi kwanu.
Ngati zaka zingapo pambuyo pake, bambo sangakupatseni yankho lolondola la tsogolo la tsogolo lanu, ndikofunikira kuti muzichenjeza ndikuganizira momwe mudakali okonzeka kuyembekezera ndikudikirira kuti mwakhala wokongola.
Monga lamulo, kukana kwa ana ogwirizana kumati munthu samadziona yekha pothamanga ndi mayi wina, yemwe amakhala kale ndi mkazi.
Monga lamulo, katundu wamkulu amagwera mkazi
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Amachita mantha kuti musintha
Modabwitsa, koma chowonadi: Mwamuna sangathe kuda nkhawa za kusintha kwake, koma zanu. Pafupifupi aliyense ali ndi ana odziwika bwino, ndipo nthawi zambiri mkazi atabadwa mwana akadzabe chisamaliro cha nyumbayo ndikupereka nthawi yake yonse kwa mwana, ndikuiwalanso za iye. Munthu wanu amawona zonsezi ndipo amagwira kale vutoli, monga momwe mudzavale zokha ndikuyiwalatu za zodzoladzola.
Ngati ndi za izi, muyenera kuyesa kutsimikizira amuna anu kuti ndi thandizo lake simudzakhala ndi nthawi yaulere yokhala ndi nthawi yonyansidwa.
Ali kale ndi ana
Monga lamulo, patatha zaka 40 munthu aliyense amakhala ndi mwana m'modzi. Ndipo ngati banjali litayamba kutabadwira mwana, mwamunayo akhoza kukhalabe osakondwererapo kale. Ntchito yanu siyosamutsa munthu movutikira: mumangodziwa momwe munthu wanu angafunire kuti ayesetse kuwongolera komwe mukufuna. Yesani ndipo zonse zidzatha!
Sanjani pang'ono kuti simutsutsana ndi ana ophatikizika
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