Kuchokera kwa owerenga a kalata:
"Thandizeni! Tili ndi amuna anga mtundu wina wamavuto, ngakhale malingaliro okhudza kusudzulana adayamba kuwonekera! Zikuwoneka kuti ndinamupempha kuti: Ndikupemphani kuti mupite kumakanema, akuti: "Palibe nthawi", ngakhale mukuyesera kundithandiza pamavuto onse. Koma ukwati ndi pamene anthu ali osangokumana ndi mavuto, komanso ali osangalala. Ndine woipa kwambiri, moyo wabanja wasintha zochita. Ndipo ine ndikufuna kukhala ndi banja losangalala! Zoyenera kuchita? Zowonadi, musasungedwe, sizingathandize. Ndithokozeretu".
Choyamba, musadere nkhawa! Zachidziwikire, chisudzulo sichoyenera nthawi zonse pamavuto am'banja, makamaka popeza muli ndi chikhumbo chothana ndi ubalewo, kusintha. Sungani chisangalalo cha banja, mwina, mwina. Ndikuyesera kusintha momwe mnzake nawonso amawonera. Njira imodzi yothandiza kwambiri ndikusintha. Yesani maudindo ambiri kuti mumveke bwino. Kuti muchite izi, ndikofunikira kudziwa chomwe chimakusangalatsani. Itha kukhala kapu ya khofi mu cafe nyengo yabwino, milomo yatsopano, msonkhano ndi bwenzi, buku losangalatsa. Kwa aliyense - aliyense payekhapayekha. Kupatula apo, aliyense wa ife angaphunzire momwe angasangalalire ndi chinthu chokongola chokha, kulumikizana ndi anthu osangalatsa, nyengo yabwino. Chinthu chachikulu ndichakuti chisangalalo ichi sichidalira china chakunja - kuchokera kwa munthu wina, ku moyo wake ndi zina zambiri. Tikadziwa kuti mungadzidalitse bwanji, zomwe timafuna kuti tizifuna. Chifukwa chake, kuchuluka kwa zonena kumachepa. Ndipo izi zikuwongolera ubale. Zimachitika kuti sitingathe kusamalira bwino kuchokera kwa theka labwino kwambiri. Koma titha kuchilipira pang'ono. Kuphatikiza apo, kudziyimira pawokha kwa ena kumapangitsa kuti ena azidzidalira, zomwe zimapangitsa ena kuti likhale nafe.
Inde, maubale amadalira okwatirana. Ndipo tikufunika kuti aliyense akonzeka kusintha. Mutha kuphunzira kumva mnzanu ndikuchita nawo zomwe zakuchitikirani. Chinthu chachikulu ndichakuti ichi chinali chikhumbo. Ndipo mutha kuyesa kupanga koyamba kuti mudzisinthe ;-)
Ngati ndizosatheka kuvomerezana nokha - sikofunikira kuti mukhale wamanyazi kulumikizana ndi katswiri.
Ngati mukufuna kufunsa katswiri wazamisala wa banja, lembani makalata: [email protected].