Chikondi cha Neurotic: Momwe mungathanirane nazo?

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Kalata Yowerenga ya MAYHIT:

"Moni Maria!

Ndikusangalatsani ngakhale kuti simuli ngati wamisala, koma monga mtsikana kwa mtsikana wachichepere. Miyezi ingapo yapitayo, ndinakumana ndi mnyamata, ndipo ndimawoneka kuti amakondana nthawi yomweyo. Anandigwira ntchito mokongola kwambiri, ndipo maluwa, adafotokozera mchikondi. Ndinayankha mobwerezabwereza. Ndipo, zoona, monga nthawi zambiri zimachitika munthawi yomwe munthu adzagula, takhala tikugwiritsa ntchito bwino anzawo komanso tsiku lililonse. Ndinayamba kuyendera masewera olimbitsa thupi pafupipafupi, mwa njirayi, sindinandichitikire kupatula magawo ndi fuluwenza mu maofesi a Feby Syros. Koma, monga akunenera, palibe chomwe chiri chamuyaya pansi pa mwezi - panali wovuta kuti abwerere kuntchito. Kuphatikiza apo, ndidasowa abwenzi anga. Ndine mkazi wabwinobwino, wokha - pofika zaka 34 ndapanga zizolowezi, zomwe sindingathe kuzikana.

Chifukwa chake, zili choncho kuti alibe moyo. Ndi zachilendo kwambiri ine ... Amafuna kuthera ndi ine nthawi zonse. Ndikapita ndi atsikana ndipo sinditenga ndi ine - kukhumudwitsidwa. Zikuwoneka kuti amandikonda kuposa ine. Koma sizili choncho, inde? Iye mwini akatsogolera, ndipo umandigwera. Zoyenera kuchita chiyani, tikadakhala kuti tonse tikadakhala kuti) Olga.

Moni Olga!

Ndiyesetsa kukuyankhirani ngati mtsikana, ndipo monga wamatsenga :)

Nthawi yomweyo amafuna kufotokozera mfundo ziwiri. Choyamba, kodi mukutsimikiza kuti amakukondani kuposa inu? Moyenera, mukutsimikiza kuti zofunika kwambiri kwa inu ndikupereka zofuna zanu ndi za chikondi? Ngati munthu amafunikira umboni wosalekeza ngati nthawi zonse amakusankhira kusankha, umachitira umboni za kuopa kwake kokutaya. Ndipo uku sikuwonetsera chikondi chathanzi. M'malo mwake, izi ndizotsatira zakudzidalira komanso zosakhazikika, zomwe zimatsogolera ku zinthu zopanda manyazi zachikondi. Mnyamata wanu ndi wofunikira kuti mnzake wa munthu wayekha, akhale wokonzekera, wakonzekera chilichonse. Chikondi cha neurotic. Kufunika kwa umboni wa chikondi pankhaniyi ndi kochulukirapo komanso kosatha. Mnzakeyo ayenera kupereka nthawi yake, zokonda ndi zikhulupiliro. Kukana pankhaniyi kumamveka ngati kukana. Ndipo koposa zonse - simudzatha kupereka chikondi chofunikira, nthawi zonse zimakhala zokwanira. Anthu oterewa amafunikira kutsimikizira kwakunja kwa kufunika kwake, monga lamulo, pothana ndi ena. Chifukwa chake, akuyesera kuti atenge nthawi yanu yonse. Ndipo safuna kulolera opikisana nawo ngakhale pamaso pa atsikana, masewera ndi masitolo.

Kukonda kwathanzi ndi pamene ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti muzimukonda kuposa kukondedwa. Ndikofunikira kusangalala ndi kumverera kwanu, kupulumuka mkhalidwe wabwino kwambiri kuposa kuyesa kusungitsa winayo. Kenako palibe malo oti katundu akhalepo. Kuphatikiza apo, pa kumverera kochokera pansi pamtima, ndizovuta kusayankha kubwezeretsa;)

Yachiwiri. Kodi mukufuna kusintha motani? Kupatula apo, aliyense wa ife ndi njira zodzilira zokha, ndi chiyani, ndipo ngati tili okonzeka kusintha zomwe mukuchita mokomera wina, ndiye kuti ndi momwe mungafunire kuchita chilichonse mwa inu nokha. Kupanda kutero, idzayambitsa mikangano yatsopano ...

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