Malinga ndi ziwerengero, pafupifupi 40% ya amuna amakono amalembera ansembe a Lufov, koma ndizosadabwitsa, sizongogonana, ngakhale zimakonda kutenga gawo lalikulu. Ndi anthu ochepa omwe amaganiza zomwe amakankhira munthu wamba, nthawi zambiri - wokwatiwa, padziko lapansi, padziko lapansi, chifukwa kulankhulana, komanso kulumikizana. Pano pali vuto - mnzake wokhazikika satsimikizira kuti palibe wina, bambo amayenera kuyang'ana momwe zinthu ziliri, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimazipeza m'manja osavuta.
Tandimverani
Tikukhala m'mphepete mwa misala kuti zovuta za munthu wokondedwa nthawi zina zimakhalapo nthawi, ndipo zochulukitsa zomwe sizinazengereze zimayambitsa maboma, mikangano mkati mwa awiriwa ndi kuphwanya kwa psyche. Amuna nthawi zambiri amawopa kutembenukira kwa akatswiri azamisala, ndipo akufuna "makutu" poyamba, osayenera malowa. Atsikana ochokera kwa operekeza nthawi zambiri amalankhula kuti makasitomala awo okhazikika amawatembenukira okha pamikhalidwe imeneyi akafunika kusankha chofunikira m'moyo, ndipo palibe kukambirana za kugonana - bambo akufuna kuwongolera kapena kungolankhula . M'malo mwake, abambo ndi amodzi mwa zikwangwani zosavuta kwambiri kwa anthu: Akazi amakhala otanganidwa ndi ntchito zapakhomo ndi ana, alibe nthawi komanso khama.
Sizikhala zogonana nthawi zonse
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Gawani zovuta zonse
Chifukwa china chochitira chidwi amuna kwa achiwerewere ndi osindikiza nthawi zonse komanso mawu obwereza ku moyo wawo: "muli ndi ngongole." Kwa munthu, zimamveka ngati kukakamiza kufuna wina, komwe amayamba kukana, ngakhale ndizovuta mukakhala ndi udindo waukulu m'banjamo, ngakhale bizinesi. Nawonso wamwamuna woti azimutcha mwamunayo sayenera - ubale wawo ndi wosavuta komanso womveka. Kuchotsa magetsi m'malo obisika kwa iye, pomwe ali ndi chidaliro kuti sadzaponya "kudzutsa" ku ubongo, ndi nthawi yofunika kwambiri.
Chifukwa chiyani ndili ndi ubale
Koma si amuna omwe ali pabanja lokha amasankha mavuto awo amisala m'malingaliro a "agulugufe agulu a usiku". Amuna ambiri opanda ufulu safuna kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza, yomwe ikufunika kukhala ndi nthawi yambiri, nthawi yakhala nthawi yayitali, chifukwa chake zovuta zonse, kuphatikizapo kugonana, kuphatikizidwa mwachangu, kuyenera kuthetsedwa mwachangu. Amuna sakukonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito mwezi umodzi kapena wina kwa mayi m'modzi yemwe sangamuyankhe, ngakhale kuti akufuna kuyesetsanso kuyang'ana mkazi wina ndikuyambanso. Chachikulu kwambiri.