Ndili mwana, mtsikana aliyense adasewera "mwana wamkazi wa amayi" - kuti akhale ndi zidole zake - wopatsa chidwi wa chitsanzo ichi chidangothandiza kuti anthu oyandikira. Masewerawa amaphunzitsanso malamulo ofunika okhudza ana akhanda, omwe adzakhale othandiza mtsogolo, mtsikana wodyetsa atangoganiza kuti akhale mayi. M'masiku ano, m'badwo wamakono, akakhala ofunika kwa mwana, amangokula. Anthu akukankhira kufunikira kwa makolo kumbuyo ndipo kokha pafupi 30 amaganiza zopanga banja. Ngati simukutsimikiza kuti mukufuna kukhala mayi, yang'anani nkhupakupa muzinthu zotsatirazi.
Funsani mnzanu
Woyamba, komwe angayambitse kukonzekera kholo - kukambirana moona mtima ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ngati amuna anu ali ndi mtima pakugonjetsa nsonga za ndalama ndipo safuna kumva za ku Banja, bwanji amatenga udindo wotere? Sankhani pamodzi mukapatsa mwana nthawi yokwanira kuti muzimusamalira ndikupereka chikondi. Kukoka mayiko ali ndi chiyembekezo choti mwamunayo amazolowera mwana - yankho laiwisi. Palibe cholakwika ndi chakuti mudzakhala makolo zaka 35 kapena pa 5-7. Ndiwoluma kuposa kusamalira ana omwe ali ndi agogo ndi nanny kapena kutsutsa mnyamatayo kuti wakuwonongerani zaka zabwino kwambiri.
Mnzake ayenera kukhala wokonzeka kukhala kholo.
Khalani odziwika
Kuphatikiza ntchito, misonkhano pafupipafupi ndi abwenzi, njira zosakhalitsa mu maubale, masewera ndi mayi ndizosatheka. Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti kudera nkhawa kwatsopano kudzatenga pafupifupi tsiku lonse - ngakhale mphamvu kapena nthawi yoyenda mu cafe ndi sinema sikudzakhala koyamba. Zidzakhala zosavuta patatha zaka 2-3, mwana akadzakula ndikupita ku Kindergarten. Mpaka nthawi imeneyo, iye ndi bwana amafotokozera zomwe mukufuna tsikulo. Ngati simunakonzekere kudzipereka kwakanthawi chifukwa cha moyo wanu, zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuchita ndi kholo.
Konzekerani kugwira ntchito zambiri
Mu 2014, dipatimenti ya ulimi yaku US yakonza lipoti, malinga ndi makolo omwe amagwiritsa ntchito ndalama pafupifupi 300,000 kuti alere mwana asanakhale wamkulu mpaka atakula mpaka ma ruble 20 miliyoni. Tikaikira kuti banja lililonse limatha kugwiritsa ntchito ma ruble 90 pamwezi, koma ngati mukufuna kupereka mwana woyenera, kuchuluka kwake kumayenera kulungamitsidwa. Inu ndi amuna anu muyenera kugwira ntchito moyenera kuti mupereke wolowa m'malo wa maphunziro, kulipira zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa.
Muyenera kugwira ntchito kwambiri kuposa kale
Gwirani ntchito
Ngati nthawi zambiri mumakhala wamanjenje pantchito, ndipo mu moyo wanu, ndipo pitani ku mikanganoyo, si ntchito yabwino kwambiri. Mwana wakhanda nthawi zambiri amalira, amaphwanya chilichonse ndipo amakhala akuchita bwino mpaka zaka 5-7. Sychers yokhazikika - gawo lophunzitsa aliyense wathanzi la anthu, osati neurotic. Konzani ndi inu kuti mugwiritsa ntchito ubwenzi ndikuyesera kuti muletse. Idzapulumutsa mitsempha yanu ndikuchotsa matenda ambiri, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti moyo udzakhala wachimwemwe ndipo ungakuloleni kusangalala ndi makolo.