Mikangano muiva imatha kuchitika osati chifukwa chakugonana, komanso pomwe zilakolako zachita. Othandizana ndi libido osiyanasiyana amachitika mayeso apano, kuyesera kusinthana. Koma kodi kufunika kwa kugonana kumadalira chiyani komanso zomwe akatswiri amakhulupirira? Pa izi tinayesa kudziwa.
Kwa ndani "zochulukirapo
Asayansi satengedwa kukatsutsa kuti chipembedzo chowala chilibe zikhalidwe zina, koma pali ziwerengero zina zomwe "zikuumirira" chifukwa nthawi yomweyo gwiritsani ntchito kulera amatanthauza pafupifupi nthawi iliyonse. Maflo amachitikanso, zotsatira zake zinkachita chidwi ndi akatswiri: zidapezeka kuti azimayi amafuna kuti azigonana kamodzi kuposa amuna, ngakhale amakhulupirira kuti ndizovuta kuchita zolimba kuposa theka lamphamvu.
Kuphatikiza pa zinthu zakunja, palinso zinthu zachilengedwe payekha zomwe zingachotsedwe.
Phunzirani kumvetsetsa zomwe zimachitika
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Mbiri
Mwachitsanzo, kukopa kugonana kumachitika chifukwa, kuchuluka kwa dopamine kumakhudzanso chikhumbo cha munthu kuti apeze mnzake wogonana. Mwambiri, munthu aliyense amayesetsa kuwonjezeka dopamine m'njira zambiri, nthawi zambiri zolimbikitsa ndi zizolowezi zoipa. Tepisnosterone imatumikira monga testosterone, ndi oxytocin, omwe tonse pamodzi amapanga magazi okha, ndiye kuti chisangalalo chogonana chikafika pachimake.
Kusakhazikika kwa cycle
Ngati njira zokomera anthu zimachitika, monga lamulo, malinga ndi chiwembu chomwecho, kuti ndi azimayi omwe ali ndi vutoli akungovuta - kusamba sikungangochepetsa libido, komanso kupha "chilakolako cha" kupha "chilakolako. Ndi magwiridwe antchito a mahomoni opanga mahomoni, kulakalaka kwakukulu kwa mkazi kumawonekera masiku angapo chisanachitike, koma ngati pali zovuta zina, thupi silifulumira kukankhira mkaziyo kuti azilumikizana ndi mkaziyo, motero Zoterezi mayi amatha kuwonetsa kuzizira kwa mnzake wokhazikika, osati kutchula kale zolumikizirana.
Moyo wosapatsa thanzi
Njinga yosafa yokhudza kuchuluka kwa kuchuluka kwa vodka ndi kukongola kwachikazi kumatembenukira ku nthano. Inde, "pansi pa digiri" tikumva bwino kwambiri, koma machitidwe ogwirizana satsimikizira zokumana nazo zapamwamba kwambiri. Chomwe chimachepetsa mlingo wa testosterone, mphindi iyi imakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi mwamunayo, popeza kusangalatsidwa kwake kumangirizidwa kwambiri pamlingo wa mahomoniwa. Ngati pali mowa wabwino kwambiri - koma moyo wanu wachiwerewere, koma moyo wanu wogonana umakhala ndi izi, yesetsani zakumwa zotentha kwa miyezi ingapo - muwona momwe mungasinthire .