"Moni!
Tikufuna katswiri wazamisala. Ndili ndi zaka 31 ndipo sindinakwatirane. Ndipo ndimafunitsitsadi banja! Ndipo ndikufuna kumangiriza moyo wanga osati arbaba nayo ndani, koma ndi munthu wabwino. Zikuwoneka kuti siurba. Pali maphunziro apamwamba. Ndimagwira ntchito bwino. Koma ndi amuna mwanjira ina osapindidwa. Kodi mumalangiza chiyani? Kodi pali njira zina zopeza satellite wamoyo? Elena ".
Moni, Elena!
Kumanani ndi satellite wa moyo ndi kotheka. Chofunikira kwambiri ndikukhala kunyumba ndipo musadikire kalonga woyera "Mermcedes," adzalankhula mulu woyamikiridwa, udzaimba pandenade ndikuyenda mu mphatso.
Choyambirira kuchokera ku zomwe zikuyenera kuyambitsa ndi kufunsa kuti: "Ndi chiyani, munthu wamaloto anga?" Yesani mwatsatanetsatane kufotokoza, muthanso kulemba momveka bwino. Ndipo dzifunseni kuti: Kodi pali munthu wotere? Ndipo, ngati yankho ndi labwino, gawo lotsatira lidzakhala mndandanda wa malo omwe mungakhale mwina mutha kukumana ndi munthu wotere. Mulimonsemo, yesani nthawi zambiri kupita komwe kuli kosavuta kukumana. Pambuyo pachibwenzi ndikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse wosankhidwa kuti amakusangalatsani, zomwe mukufuna. Zonsezi sizovuta. Nthawi zambiri amamwa amakana lingaliro lofunafuna satellite wa moyo, komanso pambali pake, mwanjira inayake onetsani chisoni chanu. Izi zimachitika, poyamba, mwa malingaliro azolowera pachikhalidwe chathu chomwe mzimayi amafunikira kugonjetsa. Nthawi yomweyo, sayenera kuwonetsa chilichonse. Ndipo chachiwiri, izi ndizotsatira za lingaliro lakuti wina ayenera kutichitira zinthu zonse. Mwana akabadwa, amamusamalira, kudyetsa, nsapato, wovala m'manja mwawo - onse, amakwaniritsa zosowa zake zonse. Ngati mwanayo apeza chidwi kwambiri, akakula, amakhala wodalirika kuti mavuto onse a iye ayenera kuthetsa mavuto ena. Zotsatira zake, chifukwa cha zifukwa ziwiri izi, kukhudzika kolakwika kumapangidwa, kudziletsa kumva ngati Mwini moyo wake. Koma dziko lapansi lotizungulira silitha kutipangitsa kukhala achimwemwe, lokha ndife omwe ali ndi udindo pa izi komanso mu mphamvu yosintha kena kake. Koyamba tiyeni timupatse munthu mwayi wakupezani. Anecdote ndi ofunika kwambiri pamutuwu, pomwe mwamunayo akupemphera kwa Mulungu, akufunsa ndalama, ndipo Mulungu amumvera iye ndikuganiza kuti: "Ndidzamutumiza bwanji ndalama? Akadagula tikiti ya lottery! " Chifukwa chake musaphonye mwayi wanu, gulani matikiti;)
Mfundo ina yofunika sikuyenera kukumana ndi kuzizira kwa mwamunayo. Kupatula apo, ambiri a ife timakhala ndi nthano kuti mayi ayenera kusanja. Ndipo ndi izi muyenera kusamala. Kupatula apo, munthu aliyense amakumana ndi mayi wina wokanidwa, nthawi zambiri kuyambira kiyirgarten (anyamata amaleredwa ndi amayi ndi aphunzitsi mwa Kirdergartens, monga lamulo, amayi). Ndipo safuna kubwereza izi konse. Mtima wovulala wa mwana nthawi zambiri umayamba kunyalanyaza mawonekedwe ake. Chifukwa chake mwamunayo ndiofunika kuti amvetsetse kuti ndiofunika komanso osangalatsa. Mwambiri, kuzindikira ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yodziyikira munthu. Chifukwa chake sonyezani chidwi chenicheni pamoyo wake, ndiroleni ndiyankhule za inu ndi zinthu zomwe ali ndi mwayi. Ndiye pang'onopang'ono mudzafunikira ndipo pakufunika munthu. Zachidziwikire, simuyenera kugwa kwina. Ndikofunika kuyesera kuchepetsa pakati pa ntchito zochulukirapo komanso usisitere, ndi enawo amawopseza amuna.
Malangizo ena yaying'ono omwe angakhale othandiza. Kumbukirani makanema ndi nkhani zachikondi zachikondi. Tsatirani mtundu wa chikhalidwe cha mkazi. Mwinanso ndi njira zina zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito;) mtundu wopambana kwambiri ndikufanizira chithunzi chanu kwa munthu winawake. Lankhulani naye m'mbuyomu, yesani kudziwa zomwe amayamika mwa anthu, ndipo zimakulanda. Ndipo yesani kuyang'ana zomwe zalandiridwa. Ndiponso, musachite mopitirira - mtundu uwu uyenera kufanana ndi moyo wonse. Ndipo pewani kukhala angwiro komanso olemekezeka, kenako zidzakhala chitonzo cha ungwiro wake kwa iye.
Ndipo pamapeto pake, nkotheka kuti mu zizindikilo munthu azikugwirizanitsa, ndipo mtima sudzakonzanso. Ndipo mosemphanitsa. Chofunika kwambiri, chomwe chiyenera kukwaniritsa chikuchitika ndikuchitika mwadzidzidzi zolinga ndi mfundo zake, komanso kulumikizana.