1 Chitsimikizo: Ali pabanja
Ngati wokondedwa wanu ali pabanja, sizofunikira kuti cholinga chake ndi banja latsopano lomwe adzakupangirani nawe. Ndizotheka kuti chilichonse chomwe akufuna ndi chosangalatsa komanso chosavuta ndi mkazi wokongola kunja kwanyumba. Nthawi zambiri, munthu woyenera amachita zonse zotheka kuti mukhale pafupi ndi iye.
Zachidziwikire, ndizotheka kuti banja lake lili panolo silidzasiyidwa. Koma kodi akufuna kumanga ubale ndi inu? Komanso, adzasowanso zolakwa za zolakwa zomwe zimayambitsa kusokonekera kwa banja, ndipo zidzawabwerezanso. Zikuoneka kuti izi zichitika kale kwa inu, kenako komaliza zidzakhala zowonekera.
Ndiye chifukwa chake anthu amakonda kucheza ndi maukwati atsopano, ndipo anadabwitsidwa - kodi ma vailo akale amachokera kuti, omwe ali olimba pamphumi pamphumi? Ndipo izi ndizothandiza kwa zochitika zosasinthika kwambiri zokhudzana ndi maubale. Popeza analibe zochitika zatsopano za chikondi.
"Koma pali zosiyana!" - Udzanena. Ndipo mudzakhala bwino. Kungokhala mwayi woti "kupatula" kumeneku ndi kochepa kwambiri.
Langizo: Ngati munthu wokwatiwa amakusamalirani, ndipo si wokongola - iyi ndi imodzi mwa mphatso zapamwamba kwambiri (musaiwale kumuthokoza). Limbani mtima ndi mpumulo, kutembenuka ndi kumugwetsa. Ndipo ngati panali chete pakati pa inu - thawirani. Thamangani mpaka iwo atagwa mchikondi, kutaya nsapato, koma osati mutu! (Zikomo thambo pamsewu).
Atachita mantha atathamangira, yang'anani mozungulira: amuna aulere, opambana adzakhala okwanira aliyense. Zonsezi ndi nthano chabe kuti zidapita kwinakwake kapena kuzitulutsa. Ali! Momwe mungasanthulire ndi kukwatiwa nawo, ndimauza wophunzira wanga. Ndipo palibe geometry mu mawonekedwe achikondi ma triangles ozungulira - inu nokha ndi iye yekha.
Yulia Lansk, katswiri pa kusankha kwa awiri abwino ukwati
2 Mfundo: Kuyesetsa Roma
Zachidziwikire, malongosoledwe enaawo amafana kwenikweni amakhala ofanana ndi moyo wanu weniweni, weniweni. Ndi tchuthi, malo osiyanasiyana okhala, kupumula, tchuthi tsiku lililonse. Iyi ndi nthawi yochepa, yophwanyika moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku, ana, ntchito. Ndipo bamboyo patchuthi ndiofanana.
Ngakhale inunso kapena munthu amene simukumana nawo sakugwirizana ndi nthawi iyi. Izi sizili pazithunzi zonse zomwe nthawi zambiri mumakhala nazo ndipo zimakhala zodziwika bwino. Ndipo akangotsala pang'ono kunena ndipo nonse mumasamutsidwa ku boma lathu mwachizolowezi, m'mikhalidwe yeniyeni ya moyo, masks onse adzabwezeretsedwanso.
Langizo: Patchuthi, mwachidziwikire, mutha kukumana ndi munthu wabwino, yemwe mungakhale ndi banja losangalala. Koma kuti akhazikitse chibwenzi chachikulu, muyenera kukhala ndi mbuye wamkazi wamkazi, ndi mkazi wamkazi. Izi ziyenera kuonekera mu chilichonse - kuchokera ku chithunzi chakunja kukhala machitidwe. Kupumula ndi nthawi yabwino kukumana ndi anthu atsopano osangalatsa: pezani, kukulira bwino maluso olankhula, koma osakondana nthawi yomweyo.
3 Mfundo: Chikondi pa intaneti
Kodi mwapeza zomwe adalemba mawu omwe adatanthauzira molakwika? Chifukwa chakuti adatengedwa ndi mtundu wosiyana kwathunthu, mudakhala bwanji poyamba? Komanso, kutengera momwe mumakondera, mumangoganiza za zithunzi, mutha kupanga chithunzi cha intloctor, lomwe sichoncho. Munthu uyu kulibe, Iye ali Pabondo. Munalongosolera zomwe simunawone ndipo simukudziwa.
Mukamaliza kusinthana ku kulumikizana kwenikweni kuchokera pa intaneti, kumatha kukhala kowawa kwambiri. Kupatula apo, mumazolowera munthu amene wapangana ndi inu, amene akhala wolakwa kwambiri.
Komanso, ngati mupanga abwenzi pa netiweki, kwa miyezi yopitilira isanu ndi umodzi, sizothekanso kukumana ndi misonkhano, mwina, iyi ndi buku labwino lomwe lingachedwe kwa zaka zambiri ndipo musayende mu maubale enieni.
Langizo: Gwiritsani ntchito netiweki ya chibwenzi, osati ubale wokhalitsa mu ubale wake. Pa intaneti, mutha kupeza chikondi chanu mosavuta, koma maubwenzi olimba amapangidwa kale m'moyo weniweni. Kuti mukwaniritse munthu woyenera pakhomo la pachibwenzi, muyenera kutsatsa bwino zokambirana, kuti muzicheza ndi kulankhulana mwachangu komanso tsiku loyambira.
Kuyankhulana pa intaneti kuli bwino kutembenuka mwachangu.
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4 Mfundo: Kudalira kwa Patlogies
Ngati Wosankha Wanu ali ndi zizolowezi zoyipa mu mtundu wa mowa kapena mtundu wina wa mankhwala oletsedwa, simuyenera kuganiza kuti mutha kuwasunga. "Changa chikondi changa chitha chilichonse, ndichichiritseni!" - Mkazi amaganiza ndipo ... zolakwa. Ngati simuphwanya ubalewu, kuyesera kupulumutsa kumira, posachedwa posachedwa mudzangomizidwa ndi Iye. Ndizomvera chisoni, koma ziwerengero zimatero.
Mkazi amakakamira mu gawo la ndalama. Pang'onopang'ono imakhala yogwirizana, ndipo iyi ndi matenda amisala. Sali ngakhale kwambiri monga udindo wa wozunzidwayo, ngati kuti adziona kuti ndi mnzake Wamphamvuyonse. Kupatula apo, adzasowa popanda iye, amatha kuganiza, zikutanthauza kuti ali mulungu wamkazi apa, ndipo munthu ali ndi mphamvu kwathunthu. Ili ndi Carpman wa Triangsa, masewera a ndalama, kudzipereka ndi kulondola, ndi kusokonekera mwa izi komanso zovuta kwambiri.
Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti munthu ndi munthu wachikulire wa paini, ndipo ayenera kutsatira zomwe adachita. Ngati Abeyss akufuna - izi ndisankhe zokhazo zokha. Simungatengere udindo wina.
Langizo: Ndikwabwino kusapewa kusankha kwanu kwa munthu yemwe amadalira zathanzi. Koma choti ndichite ngati "zikuchitika"? Zikumveka kuti uku ndi kusankha kwake (osati malingaliro a tsoka la chikondwerero cha chibwibwi) kenako ndikuchita pambuyo pake. Chomaliza ndi cholondola.
5 Mikhalidwe: Kudalira Kwa Chikondi
Uku ndikudalira kwambiri kwa mmodzi wa omwe ali ndi anzawo. Amadziwikanso kusokoneza munthu wina. Nthawi zina zimatengera masikelo oterowo omwe angafanane ndi kulowerera kwenikweni.
Munthu amene amavala zipata za wina amakhala ndi zosowa zomveka bwino kwa iye. Mwina satha kumwa osadya, zokongola zokha zinali pafupi. Gwira m'maso aliwonse, kupuma. Amatsuka, amakoka chidwi chake kuti azigwira.
Munthu amene amalunjikitsidwa kuti azikhala ndi chikondi komanso kukondera, amangomira, akukhumudwa. Amayesetsa kuthana ndi maubwenzi osagwirizana ndi izi omwe amapanga manja ndi miyendo ndi miyendo ndi kugwedeza ufulu.
Langizo: Ngati mukuwona kuti muli ndi mutu wanu amatenga chidwi ndi mnzanu, kumbukirani kuti imatha kukankhira mosiyana. Munthu sayenera kukhala tanthauzo lokhalo la moyo wanu, sinthani chidwi chanu kwa magawo ena. Kuphatikizanso ndikofunikira kudzidalira - gwiritsani ntchito nokha, pamwamba pa mtengo wake, kufunikira, kudzikhulupirira nokha, chifukwa chisangalalo chili muyezo wokongola.
Osasankha gawo la Mpulumutsi - pang'onopang'ono zimakonda
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6 Chidule: Chiwawa Chathupi
Ngati kumenyedwayo kunali ndipo, makamaka, mwina, sikudzaleka, koma kudzabwereza, kubwereza ndikubwereza. Itha kuyamba ndi kumenya mbama ndikufika, ndiye kuti kuvulala kwambiri kumapita.
Simungathe kulekerera zinthu ngati izi, zilimbikitseni munthu yemwe angakulimbikitseni kuti mubweretse chithandizo. Thupi lathu limakhala ndi chidwi, palibe amene ali ndi ufulu wobweretsa mavuto akuthupi. Koma ndizosatheka kupsetsa, manja otchuka kwambiri kuja.
Langizo: Ngati banja lanu lili ndi chiwawa, ubalewo umatha kusiya. Anthu kugwiritsa ntchito zachiwawa kumatha kusintha, koma, mwatsoka, izi ndizosowa. Adayika kale gawo lina.
7 Chitsimikizo: Kugonana
Pano sitikulankhula za zogonana koyamba ndi mnzanu watsopano. Nthawi zina muyenera kuzolowera wina ndi mnzake, kuwulula. Koma zimachitika kuti kusagonanadi munthu samagwirizanana chifukwa chofuna kutentha, zomwe amakonda. Mwinanso, popita nthawi, kusakhala ndi vuto lotere kumakula.
Zimachitika kuti munthu m'modzi ndi wodekha, wokonda kugona, ndipo wachiwiri ndi wokangalika komanso wamwano. Kapenanso ayenera kukhala pafupipafupi komanso ochulukirapo, yachiwiri siyikukwanira. Kapenanso munthu wina amafuna masewera akusewera, ndipo wina ndi woseketsa komanso wopusa.
Chifukwa chake, ngati muwona izi pazinthu zomwe simumagwirizana ndipo sizokonzekera kuyang'ana zolowerera, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti izi zitha kubweretsa kusokonekera.
Langizo: Yesani kupeza muzu wa zoyipa (ndipo nthawi zonse zimakhalapo, ndikukhulupirira). Mungafunike kulimba mtima ndikukambirana zomwe mwakumana nazo ndi mnzanu kapena pemphani thandizo kuchokera kwa katswiri pankhani yogonana. Ngati izi sizothandiza kwambiri, ndiye yankho lavuto lingapezeke.
Chiwawa chakuthupi sichosavomerezeka ndi wamwamuna kapena mbali inayi
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8 njira: kusowa kwa zokonda wamba
Tikulankhula za milandu yomwe abambo ndi amayi alibe malingaliro okhudzana ndi kulumikizana, sakonda kulumikizana ndipo sangakhale zofananira. Inde, tsopano ali ndi chikondi, amawabweretsa pafupi, koma izi zidzadutsa nthawi, kenako zidzakhalabe ndi banja liti lokonda?
Nthawi zonse zokhazokha zomwe zimakhala limodzi ndimatha kukhala maziko ndi chithandizo cha chitukuko chogwirizana. Ngati mukufuna kukhala limodzi, muyenera kuyesetsabe kuti mfundo zokhudzana ndi zokhudzana ndi zokhudzana ndi izi zidachitikabe, ndipo mungayang'ane mbali imodzi, ndikupanga njira wamba.
Kupanda kutero simudzakhala ndi maziko amtsogolo, ndipo pezani maubwenzi osagwira ntchito ndi mtundu "swan, khansa ndi pike".
Langizo: Ngati ndinu munthu wamisewu, yesani kupeza mfundo zokwanira kuti muyanjane naye. Zolinga Zazifala, Zokonda, Kupumula Zimabweretsanso ndikulimbitsa Mgwirizanowu.
9 Minder: Ubwenzi pamalo omaliza
Ichi ndi njira yomwe ubalewo uli kumapeto kwa mndandanda wa moyo. Momwe mungamvetsetse? Mwamuna samamanga mapulani amtsogolo. Samafulumira kukudziwani ndi anzanu komanso anzanu. Simudziwa chilichonse chokhudza iye, chifukwa amalankhula kwambiri za iye. Kuphatikiza apo, titha kunena kuti sizimakondwera ndi moyo wanu.
Simudzaonanso ndalama iliyonse ndi ubale wanu. Samawononga nthawi yambiri, sangakhale ndi ndalama. Palibe chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro. Amakumbukira kuti amakhalapo pokhapokha amazifuna akafuna izi.
Nthawi yanu imachoka, ndipo tsopano ndi ndani. Pamalo oyamba ali ndi ntchito, makolo, ana ochokera m'maukwati akale, zosangalatsa zathu zokha. Chilichonse, koma osati inu.
Langizo: Onetsetsani chifukwa: Yang'anani ndi kusanthula. Mwamuna safuna ubale wa nthawi yayitali kapena ubwenzi ndi inu? Mlandu wachiwiri, sikofunikira kusintha, koma iyemwini. Ngati munthu sanakonzekere ukwati mwakulira, taganizirani, kodi mwakonzeka kudikirira kapena kukakamizidwa, gwiranani ndi ubale wanu komanso mosalekeza? Ili ndi chisankho.
Njira 10: Kusiyana kwakukulu muzaka ndi udindo
Amakhulupirira kuti kuchokera ku malingaliro a chuma ndi psychology, kusiyana pakati pa okwatirana sikuyenera kupitirira zaka 15. Kupanda kutero, mwayi wopanga banja lofunikira umagwera kwambiri. Chifukwa chiyani izi zimachitika? Chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta ndi zovuta kumvetsetsa komanso kulumikizana pakati pa mibadwo yosiyana.
Kuphatikiza apo, kuwonjezeka kwa zaka zautali kumabweretsa zoopsa zosiyanasiyana ku thanzi la abwenzi. Koma ngakhale izi, pakadali pano pali zomwe zikuchitika pakukula kwa kusiyana kumeneku. M'zaka zaposachedwa, kuchuluka kwa maukwati oterewa kwabuka. Ndipo, ngakhale pali zoopsa, amuna ndi akazi ambiri adazindikira mgwirizano paubwenzi ndi chisangalalo muukwati.
Koma ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti si onse awiriawiri amatha kumanga banja lotere. Zimachitika kuti zonse zili bwino, kenako chilichonse chimayamba kutha, ngati nyumba ya khadi.
Langizo: Munthu aliyense amakhala payekha, ngati ubale uliwonse mu awiri. Simuyenera kuyika mtanda ngati mnzakeyo anali wamkulu (wachichepere) kwa zaka 15 ndi tsiku limodzi. Ndikofunikira pano kumvetsetsa ndi mavuto omwe mungakumane nawo, ndipo mutha kusankha. Ngati mukuwona kuti uyu ndiye amuna anu, ndipo ndioyenera bwino kwa inu, ndiye kuti muli ndi chopinga pano. Ponena za kusiyana pakati pa anthu anzeru adzatha kukula kwa munthu ndikukhala mkazi wake, chilichonse chimangokhala m'manja mwathu.
Pendani ubale wanu, podalira izi.
Mwina mukuyenera kusiya kudya mizere ya mpweya ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu pachabe? .. Ndipo mwina mudzamva kuyitanidwa uku munthawi ndipo mutha kutsogolera ubalewu ndi njira yoyenera.
Ine, Yulia Lansk, katswiri pa kusankha kwa awiri abwino ukwati, ndikulakalaka mutakhala mzimayi wokondwa, wokondedwa ndikulakalaka kwa mwamuna wanu.