Anthu ambiri akuchita mantha achinyengo: Chimodzi cholumikizidwa ndi zomwe sizinachitike kale, ena safuna kulowa m'malo otere. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, Wachisoni wa amuna ndi akazi amamvetsetsa mosiyana. Ofufuza a ku yunivesite ya Chapman anachititsa kafukufuku pakati pa anthu 64,000, popereka njira inayo. 65% ya azimayi ofunsidwa ndipo amuna 46% okha amasankha njira yachiwiri. Munkhaniyi tiyesetsa kufotokoza chifukwa chake kumverera kwa nsanje kumapezeka ndi momwe tingachitire ndi mawonekedwe ake owonjezera.
Chizolowezi ndi munthu
Ena amachita modekha pamene mnzakeyo akukopana ndi anthu ake achidwi, malo enawo sakuletsedwa kuti atuluke pa intaneti ndi riboni ndi zithunzi za anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzanu. Palibe wamisala yemwe angakuuzeni kuti machitidwe oyamba ndi muyezo, ndipo wachiwiri - kuphwanya mawu pachitsanzo chabe chifukwa kulibe miyambo. Mulingo wololera wa nsanje umasiyanasiyana pakupempha othandizana nawo. Ngati inu ndi wokondedwa wanu, mumakonda kunyezimira ndi ma spores otentha pambuyo potengera nsanje - chonde khalani omasuka kwa inu. Kumayambiriro kwa ubalewu, ndibwino kukambirana nkhaniyi kuti mumve kulingalira kwa mnzanuyo ndikumvetsetsa ngati mwakonzeka kulandira malo ake.
Osataya misempha pamunthu wosafunika
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Kusiyanitsa
Chifukwa chodziwika bwino kuti nkhani iliyonse yamaganizidwe imayimba. Nthawi zambiri, chinthu ichi chidzatsatira malangizowo kuti apititse patsogolo mankhwala, phunzirani momwe angavalire bwino, bwerani mu mawonekedwe akulu ndikudzikonda kuposa mnzake. Zowona, nthabwala zina zimanena kuti nsanje siyosatetezeka, koma osatetezeka mwa inu. Ngati mnzakeyo chifukwa cha zomwe amachita zimakupangitsani mantha, ndikukayikira ndipo mumulimbikitse, kuchokera ku munthu wodekha mudzasamukira ku neurotitu. Njira yokhayo yakupulumukira kwa munthu amene "amadya" malingaliro anu osautsa, ndipo osayesa kusintha zinthu.
Wocheperapo mumamudziwa bwino
Kodi ndi mfundo iti yomwe anacheza ndi mbuye wotheka? Ngati munthu aganiza kukusintha, kapena sitampu ya pasipoti, kapena kukhalapo kwa ana asanu ndi galu wamba, kapena zingwe zanu, palibe chomwe chingasinthe zisankho. Inde, ndipo okonda azimayi amakonda kwambiri anzawo. Nthawi zambiri akazi omwe ali wankhanza kwambiri ndi omwe amuna awo sasiyana popanda ndalama kapena mawonekedwe athupi, kapena malingaliro osentrivi. Chifukwa chake, m'malo moganiza za "zazikulu" zokambirana chifukwa cha chifukwa chake theka la ola la ola lachedwa kuntchito, gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yanu yaulere yodziwonetsa komanso kusamalira okondedwa anu.
Bwino kusamalira nokha komanso anzanu, musataye nthawi pa mikangano
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Yang'anani ena
Chiwedo cha akazi chinali chithupi chotere monga Beyonce, Sara-Jessica Parker, Gwen Stephanie - mndandandawo ukhoza kupitilizidwa mopanda malire. Atsikana ena amapeza mphamvu zokhululuka, adakwanitsa mavuto a ubale komanso zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhutira ndi moyo wabanja. Komabe, ambiri amamedwa kwanthawi zonse ndi opanduka - kenako amapeza chikondi chatsopano ndikukhala mosangalala. Ngakhale bambo wanu akuchita izi, mutha kukhala woposa kale, ndipo m'kupita kwa nthawi, iwalani za kukhalapo kwa wopanduka.
Mukuganiza chiyani? Kodi kuperekedwa kukuchitikireni ndipo ndani anali chifukwa chawo?