Okondedwa owerenga, tikupitilizabe kudziwa maloto athu omwe amatipatsa zithunzi zachilendo.
Kudzera pazithunzi, zifanizo, chizindikiritso amatikumbutsa kuti ntchito yozama imatiphunzitsa ngakhale titagwira ntchito yoyesayesa imeneyi.
Kuchenjeza maloto athu, titha kutsegula chophimba cha zinsinsizo ndi mavuto omwe amachititsa "ntchito".
Posachedwa ndandibweretsera kalata yosangalatsa komanso yosangalatsa ya owerenga athu, zomwe ndinapondapo kuti ndiyankhe.
Chifukwa chake, loto lomwe adagawana.
Nthawi zambiri ndimalota maloto omwewo, kapena nthawi zambiri, tanthauzo la kugona ndi chimodzimodzi, ndipo malo okongola ndi osiyana. Sindingathe kupita kwathu, ndayiwala njira yobwerera, anthu ondizungulira kapena osandimvetsetsa, kapena sindikudziwa ma adilesi. Sindingayitane kunyumba kukafunsa njirayi, kapena kuyiwala nambala yafoni, kapena batri ya foni imachotsedwa. Ndili ndi zaka 63, ndipo loto ili lidzalota kwa zaka 20. Ili si loto la zoopsa, koma kumverera nkosavuta. "
Tisanapereke loto la mtundu wake wa kusanthula, ndikusintha chimodzi chomwe sindikudziwa za moyo wake zaka 20 zapitazo.
Komabe, ndimaganiza kuti loto ili lidalota patangopita posachedwa m'moyo wake, zomwe zidachitika zaka 40-43.
Popeza nkhaniyi silikudziwika, mutha kungopanga malingaliro ambiri.
Poness Psychology ndi psychology yomwe imachita psychology yomwe ikuchita zambiri za kukhwima kwa anthu mu moyo wake wonse - zadalitsatu zinthu ngati zaka zovuta.
Mmodzi wa iwo ndi nthawi yaunyamata. Kudzera m'mphepo yamkuntho, yomwe ili m'mavuto, mwanayo wasiya kukhala mwana nthawi zonse nthawi zonse, atalandira ufulu wina ndipo amagwira ntchito komanso ufulu wokulirapo.
Nthawi yodziwika bwino kwambiri yokhala pakati pa moyo, i.e. Pafupifupi zaka 40. Pafupifupi m'badwo uno ndi ndemanga yapadziko lonse lapansi yofunika kwambiri, miyambo ndi zinsinsi.
Anthu amipikisano komanso opikisana nthawi zambiri atakhala olekanitsidwa komanso kumvetsera okondedwa athu. Mtsogoleri wawo ndi kuthana ndi ma veriji atsopano ndi atsopano omwe amasinthidwa ndi kulimbikitsa ubale ndi okondedwa ndi okondedwa.
Nthawi zambiri, mabanja ambiri amawonongeka pomwe anzawo afika m'badwo uno. Amuna ndi akazi amamvetsetsa kuti adakhala makolo, m'njira zambiri amasunga mabanja kwa ana. Ndipo ana akadzakula ndipo safuna chisamaliro cha ola limodzi, ndiye kuti makolo awo ali ndi ufulu, chidwi komanso ngakhale chidwi choyamba kukhala ndi moyo.
Monga lamulo, nthawi imeneyi imagwiridwanso ndi zokumana nazo zambiri, kuphatikizapo kukhumba ndi chisoni monga polota, zomwe sizingatheke, mu ubwana wake, zomwe sizidzabweranso, zomwe sizingabwereke.
Anthu ambiri nthawi imeneyi amakhala kwambiri kotero kuti amayamba kugwirizana ndi miyoyo yawo ngati kuti asunthira dzuwa, ndipo panalibe chifukwa chosinthira.
Mwachidule, zovuta za moyo kapena zovuta zili ndi zaka 40 zomwe zimachitika pa moyo, pomwe panali mphamvu zambiri, malingaliro, malingaliro, mwayi, thanzi, kale.
Gawo la zomwe zidatheka muunyamata, kuchokera paudindo komanso wachikulire, osawonekanso wofunikira komanso wofunikira. Pepani zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pazopanda pake, mavuto, anthu omwe sanatanthauze chilichonse m'moyo. Kupatula apo, monga mukudziwa, nthawi ikukwera mwachangu, nditakhala wamkulu.
Aliyense wa ife ali munjira ina iliyonse kapena ina, amapeza nyumba yosambira: malangizo okhwima, mfundo ndi mfundo zomwe zingakhale podalira. Monga momwe, mwachitsanzo, maubwenzi auzimu komanso odzaza ndi kutukuka ndi kutukuka mnyumbayo, kuzindikira kwawo kuzindikira kwawo, luso ndi maluso, chisamaliro cha thanzi lawo ndi moyo wabwino.
Mwa njira, mawu oti "mavuto" nthawi zambiri amapereka mthunzi woyipa, ndipo vutoli ndikuyesera kuti musazindikire ndi kupewa. Ndipo kwathunthu pachabe: Vuto ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kuti tikhalepo, ndipo mawuwo ali ndi matembenuzidwe ngati "mlatho" kapena "kusintha".
Tsopano tiyeni tibwerere ku maloto a maloto athu. Pafupifupi 43, anayamba kutuluka mnyumbayo, amaiwala njira ya iye, "ndipo kwa zaka 20 m'maloto, izi zibwerera kwa icho.
Mwina zimamuuza kuti akukumana ndi zochitika zina 20 zapitazo. Sanadutse popanda kufufuza, popeza momwe iye anataya kunyumba. Kapena zomwe amawona kukhala wolimba komanso wodalirika, ngati nyumba.
Ndipo popeza zonsezi zidachitika panthawi yamavuto kapena kusintha, sizinali zopita kapena zosafunikira. Kudzera malotowa, wowerenga wathu akuyang'anabe njira yobwerera ku kuti imakhala yodalirika komanso yosagwedezeka. Ndipo tsopano satha kubwerera kwa iye, mwina chifukwa tsopano nyumba yake iyenera kukhala ina: Makhalidwe ena, zofunikira zina zofunika kwambiri, malingaliro ake pa iwo ndi luso lawo. Izi ndi tulo obisika.
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Maria zemykova, wamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso kutsogolera kwa maphunziri a Center Working Center Marina