Posachedwa, nyumba yopenga yakuthupi Victoria Boona idasintha malo omwe alipo - tsopano mtsikanayo pamodzi ndi mwana wake wamkazi amakhala ku likulu la Britain.
Malinga ndi Boni, akumvanso momwemonso zomwe zimayendera pochoka ku Moscow, ndiye kuti ukupita mozungulira mzindawo, ndipo sizitha. Ngakhale chilengedwe chatsopanochi, nyenyeziyo ikuvulaza pang'onopang'ono.
Tinaganiza zolingalira mavuto omwe anthu omwe asankha kusintha moyo wawo.
Zomwe zimalepheretsa dziko lanu kudziko la munthu wina
Kutalikana ndi lilime
Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira molakwika kuti adzatha kulankhulana mosavuta kuyankhula kwa munthu wina atangofika kumene. Osati. Njirayi imatha kukhala yoposa chaka chimodzi, ndipo muyenera kukhala pano ndipo tsopano: Ngati simungawerenge nyuzipepala, mukamatha kuwerenga ndi kugwiritsa ntchito anansi a mitu ya pulaimale, yomwe siyikuvomerezeka.
Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuyamba kutsutsidwa ndi chilankhulo chatsopano kuyambira koyambirira. Ndikofunika kuyamba ndi zosavuta, mwachitsanzo, kuchokera m'mabuku a ana a ana. Pang'onopang'ono, mudzachulukitsa "chidziwitso, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mudzakhala osavuta kusintha.
Mavuto apabanja
Mukangolowa m'chipindacho kapena nyumba yatsopano, pali zovuta zambiri pamaso panu, mwachitsanzo, zomwe zimasinthidwa kapena zovuta zamagetsi. Pafupifupi palibe mlendo amalephera kukhazikika m'miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yoyambirira ya moyo watsopano.
Kuphatikiza apo, mutha kuthana ndi kuti simungapeze zinthu zosungidwa m'sitolo, yomwe ndi vuto lalikulu komanso vuto lolimba.
Mutha kuyamba kukhala osungulumwa kwambiri
Ndipo kumverera kumeneku sikukugwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe akukuzungulirani. Anthu ambiri osamukira kumayankhula za kumverera kosatheka kwa nkhawa ndikulakalaka m'nyumba. Mfundoyi siyongogawanika ndi moyo wamba, komanso ndi chikhalidwe chake chomwe chapangitsa umunthu wathu pamoyo wawo wonse.
Ndiye chifukwa chake magulu am'deralo mkati mwa zikhalidwe zina amayamba kupanga: Ndi thandizo lawo, njira zomwe zimasinthidwa sizili zolimba komanso nthawi iliyonse yomwe mungalumikizane ndi anthu omwe angakumvekererani.