Moyo wanga wonse timauzidwa kuti kuchita bwino sikulekerera zolakwa, koma kodi zilidi? Zachidziwikire, ndikofunikira kuyesa kuchita izi ndi zofanana ndi kuchuluka kwa chipata chopambana, koma sikofunikira kuphonya kuphonya - monga momwe sizikusonyezera, palibe njira yabwinoko yophunzirira, makamaka Pakakhala kuti ikumanga ntchito. Chifukwa chiyani timakhala owopsa kwambiri kuti tisalakwitse ndi momwe tingapindulire ndi zolakwa? Timvetsetsa lero.
Kodi mantha athu amachokera kuti
Monga tikudziwira, mavuto athu ambiri amachokera ku ubwana, kuphatikizapo mantha olakwika olakwika ndipo potero amayambitsa mkwiyo wa makolo. Popita nthawi, mantha amasunthika, koma osasowa kulikonse, malo okha omwe makolo amakhala woyamba Mphunzitsi poyamba, kenako abwana.
Nthawi zambiri, omwe amafotokoza za mwana kuti kuyeserera koyipa si kutha kwa dziko lapansi, kumatha kukonzanso komanso mtsogolo kumathandizira zinthu ngati izi. Ana omwe amamvetsetsa mfundo yaubwana ili mosavuta kuzolowera anthu achikulire pofunafuna ntchito, motero, mwachitsanzo, manja atatu oyambawa amalephera, zomwe sizinganenedwe zokhala ndi zabwino kwambiri Ophunzira omwe ali ndi mabenchi kusukulu, omwe aliwonse olephera pantchito ndi vuto la Universal, chifukwa chake, munthu wotere amakhala ndi vuto lofunika kwambiri.
Ngati mwakwanitsa kukhala kholo, yesani kufotokozera mwana wanu kuti zolakwa ndi zina mwabwino, siziyenera kuwopa iwo komanso kutsatsa manja awo.
Osawopa "opusa"
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Momwe Mungaphunzirire Kupindulitsa Ndi Zolephera Zakutha
Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti ndi zolakwa zilizonse zomwe mungapindule nazo, koma siziyenera kunyamulidwa ndi kulephera ngati njira zopezera zochitika - zolakwa zomwezo zitha kupezeka pamilandu kawiri.
Kachiwiri, siyani kudzidalira ngati simuli katswiri wama psy pyyfitatist, mudzadzikulitsa. Ndikwabwino kuthana ndi kuthetsa vutoli, m'malo modziyendetsa nokha chifukwa chokhumudwa kwambiri.
Palibe mantha. Ngakhale mutasowa ", iyi si chifukwa chosinthira mantha, dzitengereni nokha m'manja, chifukwa muyenera kusankha chofunikira pamaziko a zokumana nazo, ndipo chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuti mukhale osazindikira.
Pezani zomwe zidayambitsa. Zachidziwikire, ndizovuta kuiwala za zotsatira zoyipa, zomwe zochita zanu zidapangitsa, koma yesani kuyang'ana kwambiri zomwe zidapangitsa kuti izi zichitike. Nthawi zambiri timayiwala kuti ndikofunikira kuthana nazo osati zochuluka chifukwa cha zomwe timachita, monga zimayambitsa, kotero kuti mtsogolo zinthu ngati ziri sizikuchitikirani.