Maubwenzi Omwe Anali Wocheperako, palibe amene amadabwa. Pakati pa akazi, ngakhale zafanane ndi mnzanu. Pali chikondi ndi kusiyana kwakukulu mu ukwati, momwe ukwati ukwati ungayimbidwe, komwe mkazi ndi wamkulu kuposa munthu, ndipo ngati katswiri wazamsali wa Olga Romaniv akudziwa kuti psywelogiyo yemwe amadziwika kuti amadziwika.
Masiku ano, azimayi ambiri opambana komanso odziwika bwino amatha kudzitamanda banja labwino ndi munthu wachichepere. Akazi a Julianna Moore pafupifupi zaka khumi kuposa mwamuna wake Barta Frendich. Hugh jackmar wamfupi kwambiri kuposa mkazi wake wa zaka khumi ndi zitatu. Woyimba Shakira wakale wa Gerard Criee kwa zaka khumi. Yana Rudkovskaya Zakale Evgeny Plushenko zaka zisanu ndi zitatu. Kusiyana pakati pa zaka pakati pa Noxihava ndi mnzake Alexander Aestova ali zaka khumi ndi ziwiri.
Kodi nchifukwa ninji achinyamata amabwera mu ubale ndi akazi achikulire?
Malinga ndi akatswiri azamisala, akatswiri azachikhalidwe, madokotala, osiyana ogwirizana azaka - zisanu mpaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, ndipo mwamunayo ayenera kukhala wamkulu pa awiriwo.
M'magulu awiriwa pali chikondi, kumvetsetsa komanso kulemekezana pokhudzana ndi wokwatirana naye, chifukwa ndi okalamba ndipo panthawi yaukwati yakwanitsa kukwaniritsa china chake m'moyo, pangani banja lake mtsogolo. M'mabungwe oterowo, mkazi, monga lamulo, sangakwanitse kugwira ntchito, kucheza ndi nyumba ndi ana. Ubale wamtunduwu ungafotokozeredwe ngati kholo. Komabe, kuyambira nthawi yomwe mzimayi atayamba kugwira ntchito ndikupezanso pamunda ndi amuna, maudindo m'banjamo komanso anthu atasintha kwambiri. Akazi adapeza ufulu ndipo adayamba kuwongolera mikhalidwe yawo. Ndipo ukwati wochokera ku kholo lakale unasandulika mnzake. M'mabungwe oterowo, masiku ano mutha kupeza nawonso mgwirizano muukalamba, ndipo mkaziyo adzakhala wamkulu.
Kodi maubale oterowo ndi olimba motani?
Maukwati omwewa akhoza kukhala kwa nthawi yayitali. Amuna achichepere amakopa azimayi achikulire makamaka kusinthana kwamaganizidwe: mayi wokhwima sakuwerengera kuti wina ayenera kuchita - ndi mnzake. Nthawi yomweyo, psychology ya mwamunayo amadziwa bwino, pa nthawi yoyenera yakonzeka kulowa mkhondo wake, kuthandizidwa osati mwamakhalidwe okha, komanso ndithupi. Amatha kutseka maso pa zophophonya zina. Zachidziwikire, ndizosatheka kukana kuti nthawi zina pamakhala kuwerengera maukwati ngati amenewa. Koma nthawi zambiri bambo amasankhira ndalama zokha, kulankhulana komanso ulemu. Mwinanso, anyamata oterewa anali ndi ubale wabwino kwambiri ndi amayi ake kapena agogo ake, chifukwa chake, nthawi yokonza moyo wake, anasankha njira yabwino kwambiri.
Kodi ukwati wosayenerera umakhala wotani?
Ukwati ndi munthu yemwe ali wachichepere, amapereka kukakamizidwa kwina kwa mkazi. Ndipo pali zabwino zambiri. Ukwati wokhala ndi chisankho chaching'ono - cholimbikitsa chachikulu sichiyenera kusiyanitsidwa komanso kusataya mtima. Kupatula apo, nthawi zambiri zimakhala chimodzi mwazoyambitsa chisudzulo mu maukwati a kholo lakale limakhala kuti mayiyo wasiya kutsatira. Amayiwala kuti amuna amakonda maso awo nthawi zambiri. Chifukwa chake, akufuna kuwona pafupi ndi mkazi wotukuka komanso wokongola yemwe amadzisamalira. Mkazi yemwe ndi wamkulu kuposa mwamuna wake alibe nthawi yopumula, ndikudziwa bwino mpikisano "wamsika", ndiye kuti nthawi zonse payenera kukhala zinthu zingapo patsogolo.