Maloto akutiuza bwino kuposa momwe timadzidziwira. Ena anganene za chilichonse chilichonse: kuti tili ndi chidaliro, chokongola, olimbikira, timati timaganiza kuti, timavutika kutisowetsa. Ena, m'malo mwake, amachepetsa zabwino zawo, amati ndi wamba, osatha, amanjenjemera.
Zidziwitso zonse zokhudza ife eni nthawi zambiri zimadalira zomwe timamva ku adilesi yanu kapena zomwe tikufuna kuyang'ana m'maso mwa ena. Koma, mwina, kugona kokha kumatipangitsa kukhala ndi chithunzi chenicheni, monga malotowo sakonda kupenyerera kuzindikiritsa kuzindikira kwathu komanso chikhalidwe chathu monga mkhalidwe wogalamuka.
Lamuloli lili lonse la anthu komanso akazi. Masiku ano timaganizira maloto a m'modzi wa owerenga athu.
Amaphunzira maloto ake makamaka komanso mozama, monga amagwiritsa ntchito malonjezo a chidziwitso. Mwa njira, pafupifupi aliyense angaphunzire. Chowonadi ndi chakuti m'maloto aliyense wa ife angaganize zomwe zimangowona manyazi enieni. Ambiri atangodzuka, koma ngati mupitiliza kusunga zomwe zikuchitika m'maloto, mutha kupanga zinthu zapadera. Mwachitsanzo, sinthani zikhulupiriro ndi zikhulupiriro zambiri zomwe zingatilepheretse kukhala ndi moyo zaka zambiri.
Mutha kuphunzira izi pogwiritsa ntchito buku la Stephen Waberza "Maloto Onetsetsani".
Komabe, tsopano tiyeni tipite kukagona ngwazi yathu:
"Ndinkalota nyumba zowononga, misewu, zonse zinali zokongoletsera komanso zachilendo, kuti ndikamaganiza kuti zimalota. Ndinaganiza kuti ilo ndi loto, ndipeza china chilichonse chopanda tanthauzo. Ndinatuluka pansi ndikunyamuka. Ndegeyo inali yabwino kwambiri, ngakhale poyamba ndege zinali ngati masewera a pakompyuta a Computer: molunjika kapena molunjika, popanda nsonga, mizere yosalala ndi zinthu zina. Pambuyo pake ndinayamba kudya, ndinayamba kukhala wamkulu, ndinali wosangalala chabe. Kenako ndidaganiza zotheka kuuluka, tsopano mutha kugonana ndikuzindikira malingaliro anu. Monga mwa dongosolo, ndinakumana ndi mtsikana wokongola, tinapuma pantchito, koma mwadzidzidzi zinakhala zovuta, ndinakhala wopanda chopusa, ndinayamba kuchita manyazi. Mtsikanayo nawonso sanayake ndi chikhumbo. Ndinaganiza kuti ichi ndi maloto, pomwe ine ndekha nditha kubwera ndimavuto, ndimatha kuwachotsa pa sekondi, koma ngakhale m'maloto ndizovuta kuchitapo kanthu manyazi komanso mantha omwe amagwirizana ndi kugonana. Ndidadzuka. "
Chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri! Zachidziwikire, sizachilendo chifukwa malotowo mwiniyo adapanga maloto ake, kuyambira nthawi yothawa. Amatha kunena, ndikupuma tulo tulo, ndikutembenuza kuti ikhale yosazindikira.
Ndi chifukwa chakuti timaphunzira kusamalira zochita zanu zosazindikira, njira ndi zochita, zimakhala zosavuta kuti ife tisapangitse moyo wathu monga momwe timafunira kuti zisawonongeke zovuta. Ndipo simulator yabwino kwambiri ya izi ndi loto.
Tsopano kubwerera ku gawo limodzi logona, pomwe ngwazi imasokonezedwa kuti ndi loto, ndiye kuti akuyenera kukhala ndi chilichonse pogonana, koma nthawi yomweyo amasokonezeka ndikusokonezeka.
Ambiri a ife, akazi ndi amuna, tawonetsedwa kuyambira zaka zoyambirira, ndipo pambuyo pake adanena kuti kukhala konyansa, kolakwika, kuletsedwa. Aliyense wa ife amadutsa kuphunzira kwawo zogonana.
Ngati mudziyang'ana nokha, mutha kupeza chikhulupiliro chonse cha zikhulupiriro zowononga za inu ndi anzanu omwe mumagona. Wina adzagwedezeka kwambiri, chifukwa sikokwanira kuchita manyazi ndi thupi lanu, wina sakhala paubwenzi ndi wokondedwa ndi wofooka, wina amabisa kuti kugonana sikukukwanira.
Sanadziwe zambiri, pali zikumbutso zambiri zopweteka tikakana kapena opusa. Ndipo zopweteka kwambiri izi, owerenga kwambiri "aiwalika." Koma akupitilizabe kukhala ndi moyo ndititsatili.
Kugona, mutha kupulumuka mwanjira yatsopano, mwachitsanzo, ndinayesetsa kupanga maloto athu, koma zidakumana ndi zomverera zowawa za zowawa ndi mantha.
Kugona kudzachita ntchito yake, iye mosamala angadzithandize, mwachitsanzo, kulankhula za mantha ndi wokondedwa wake. Kunena za kukhudzika, monga lamulo, lekani kuzunza. Pali mwayi woti tsopano pankhani yaubwenzi komanso zovuta zidzakhala zazing'ono, komanso malo ochulukirapo.
Ndipo maloto anu akuthana ndi chiyani tsopano? Tumizani nkhani zanu ku positi: [email protected].
Maria zemykova, wamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso kutsogolera kwa maphunziri a Center Working Center Marina