Osachepera nthawi ina m'moyo, aliyense wa ife adamvetsera nkhaniyo, pomwe mnzake adaswa mtima wa munthu wokondedwa, kapena adadzakhala mboni ku utoto wa banja. Kodi nchifukwa ninji ena amakangana nthawi zonse ndipo amagawana ndi zolemera, ndipo enawo amapeza munthu woyenera mmalo angapo oyeserera? Palibe kafukufuku wasayansi pamutuwu, choncho zikangokangana ndi chimango cha psychology. Lembani m'manda ngati mukugwirizana ndi malingaliro athu kapena kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyana.
Siyani kukhala omasuka
Vuto lalikulu la atsikana lili ndi chidwi chosintha munthu wokondedwa. Amalemba kuti akufuna kukumana nanu madzulo, kodi mwagwirizana kale pa chakudya chamadzulo ndi bwenzi? Musayerekeze kusunthira kumbuyo: chifukwa chake munthuyo achoka, ndikutaya bwenzi lanu. Mu malo oyamba muyenera kukhala ndi zofuna zanu, monga Iye - okha, koma kokha. Ngati nthawi zonse mumasula malingaliro chifukwa cha misonkhano, kumapeto, mudzatsala pa chiwidzi chosweka - simudzamanga ntchito, simudzapeza anzanu apamtima. Yambitsani wokondedwa wanu kuphatikiza mapulani anu ofala. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kukhala limodzi ndikugwira ntchito, m'malo mongowona mosamalitsa, kapena pitani limodzi kuti muchite masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Chezani nthawi yolumikizana ndi phindu
Konda mawonekedwe anu
Iwalani mawu omwe ali m'mafilimu omwe ali ngati "osandiyang'ana, sindinapatsidwe utoto" kapena "nthawi yakhala ndikudya." Kungosankha momwe mukufuna kuyang'ana, si chibwenzi chanu, amayi, ndi aliyense! Ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti simusangalala ndi izi kapena tsitsi la tsitsili, pitani ndikusintha chilichonse chomwe sichikugwirizana. Munthu wachikondi sadzasamala kuti asankhe payekha. Inde, ndipo zowala za maso kuchokera pagalasi zimapangitsa kuti malingaliro anu azikukondani. Mukamadzikonda nokha, mumakukondani kwambiri - chilichonse ndi chophweka!
Yambirani nthawi yanu yaulere.
Munthu aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi nthawi ndi malo. Zikuwonekeratu kuti si aliyense amene angakwanitse kugula nyumba yokhala ndi zipinda zingapo pansi pa maofesi anu, malo ovala zovala ndi zipinda zovala. Koma mutha kupeza zotulutsa kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yokhala nokha ndi malingaliro anu ndi zochitika zanu. Ngati simukhala limodzi, musafulumira kukwera: Nthawi zambiri mumakhala ndi munthu kutali, koma nyumbayo idzakhala chisa chotentha nthawi zonse, komwe mungasungunuke ndi ntchito yanu. Ndipo ngati mukukhala limodzi, osamuletsa kuti akacheze abwenzi, asiye, kapena asiye kuyenda kwina. Kugawana kwakanthawi kumakukhudzani ndi iye.
Sinthani zomwe mumakonda
Pezani zosangalatsa zomwe zikupititsani ndikupereka mphamvu. Itha kukhala masewera komanso kujambula, kuyimba kapena kuwumba kuchokera ku dongo. Yesani zinthu zosiyanasiyana, koma onetsetsani kuti mwakwaniritsa cholinga chanu - kuti mupeze bizinesi iyi. Khulupirirani, ndikofunikira! Kuchita nawo, mudzasokonezedwa chifukwa cha mavuto, kukulitsa ndi kudya zabwino. Pambuyo magawo oterewa kwa mnyamatayo, mudzabweranso mosangalatsa. Ndipo osati ubale wolimba?
Yang'anani m'makona amdima a moyo wake
Osangokhala chete pomwe pali chonena
Sizikudziwika kuti ndani anayambitsa nthano chabe, ngati kuti amuna ali chete ndipo safunika kucheza nawo. Mwamuna aliyense amakhala mwana wamwamuna ndi nkhani zake - wokondwa komanso wachisoni. Simuyenera kutenga gawo la katswiri wazamisala ndikuthetsa mavuto ake, koma mutha kumvetsera. Mukakhala ndi nkhawa za tsiku lomwe mumakonda kapena kukangana ndi mnzanu, mufunseni momwe akumvera? Muyenera kuphunzira kumvera ena chisoni: kuti muwone akakhumudwa, kuyesera kuthandiza kuthana ndi vutoli, ngati akufuna kukutsegulirani. Mu kusinthana kwanuku, mumaphunzira kumvetsetsana ndikupeza makiyi a zitseko zotsekedwa. Popeza mwapanga chidaliro, mumadzipereka nokha ndi mnzanu wodalirika - poyamba, kenako wokonda. Gwirizanani?