Msungwana aliyense ali ndi vuto atayimirira pamsewu, ndikudikirira bwenzi, munthu wolimba mtima adayandikira, zomwe sizimachita mantha. Zachidziwikire, ndizabwino pamene chidwi chimalipira kwa inu munthu wokongola, koma nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti kudziwa zatsopano sikuchititsa kuti chidwi chikhale ndi chikhumbo. Ndipo komabe, nthawi zambiri timanyalanyaza mwayi womwe uja unagwa. Chifukwa chiyani? Tikamaganiza kuti, ndipo motero tinena za zabwino zisanu zokhala kunja kapena pamalo odzaza anthu.
Simutaya nthawi
Monga lamulo, kukhala ndi nthawi yokhala ndi malo ochezera, timasankha omwe angakhale nawo omwe angakhale nawo pa intaneti, koma pamsonkhano womwe umapezeka kuti munthu sakupereka kuti: ikukwanira? Koma popeza mwakwanitsa kulumikizana kale, ndizovuta kusiya mukakumana, chifukwa chake mumaloledwa kucheza ndi theka la ola, zomwe sizinganenedwe za munthu yemwe adatuluka Msewu - mudzakhala ndi nthawi yoyamikira kukopa kwake ndipo mulimonsemo "kusiya" chibwenzi ndi mphindi zitatu sichikhala chopindika.
Ndipo mumadziwana kangati mumsewu?
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Munthu amamumvera chisoni
Malinga ndi zotsatira za mavolo ochitidwa ndi akatswiri azachikhalidwe, amuna omwe ali pachiwopsezo cha mtsikanayo mumsewu amakondedwa kwambiri kuchokera kwa anyamata kapena atsikana. Palibe chinsinsi chofuna kuti munthu aliyense atalephera kwambiri, yemwe munthu aliyense amachita zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Nthawi yomweyo, "minda yolimba" amuna amatsogolera zokambirana ndipo sizikhala zotopetsa kukhala zotopetsa, monga momwe ambiri amasinthira.
Palibe chonamizira
Monga tanenera, nthawi ndiyo chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwambiri, motero kukhala mu makalata kwa milungu ingapo kuti mukhumudwe pamsonkhanowu, - zokumana nazo zotere. Mudzadzimvera nokha, makamaka panadziwa zatsopano, zomwe "zinaba" mphindi zanu zabwino. Network ndi yovuta kwambiri kuyesa kulumikizana mokwanira, ndipo chifukwa chake azamisala amalimbikitsa kukwaniritsa tsiku lachiwiri la chibwenzi kuti inunso, kapena munthu amene anali ndi dzina.
Mumapeza zokumana nazo zofunika
Simungakhulupirire, koma kuyandikira munthu wosadziwika pamsewu, ngakhale amangofunsa nthawi, akhoza 10% okha mwa amuna. Zoyenera kunena za kudziwidwa molingana ndi chidwi cha munthu. Inde, kukhala pachibwenzi chotere nthawi zambiri kumatha kulephera, koma izi ndi zokumana nazo kuti pakhale munthu, monga munthu, ndipo sadziwa amuna okha, komanso akazi. Zachidziwikire, mtsikanayo siophweka kwambiri kuti azikondana ndi mwamunayo, makamaka ngati sakhala yekha, koma mkazi amatha kuwonetsa chidwi chake mwa munthu yemwe ali ndi mawonekedwe, machitidwe, manja. Osawopa kukopana ndi kusewera.
Simulibe anzanu wamba
Kwa munthu wina adzakhala wonenepa, komabe, kusowa kwa abwenzi wamba ndi omwe amadziwa Khalani kwambiri mboni za seweroli, yomwe bambo angasewere.