Monga lamulo, makwati ali ndi mwayi wosudzulana kale zisanachitike. Komabe, ambiri amatulutsa mphindi ino kuti apewe kumva zopweteka zomwe zimagwirizana ndi chochitika chosasangalatsa ichi. Komabe, pali zizindikilo zingapo zomwe zimamveketsa bwino kuti muyenera kuchitapo kanthu, apo ayi ukwati udzasokonekera posachedwa.
Pa ssor, wokwatirana amayamba kupita kwa munthuyo
Mwachilengedwe, wopanda mikangano m'banjamo sangathe: ndizovuta kukhala pafupi ndi munthu nthawi zambiri komanso osasangalatsa, lolani kuti mukhale mwamuna wanu yemwe mumakonda. Izi ndizabwinobwino. Komabe, kugonana sikukukhudzana ndi vutolo, koma kumakupititsani, ndi chifukwa choganizira zomwe zimachitika pakati panu.
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Zomwe amalangiza
Pazochitika komwe mukukumana ndi mavuto, osapita ku umunthu: muyenera kuthetsa vuto lomwe nonse muli ndi mlandu. Pewani mawu omwe angapweteke mnzanu, onetsetsani kuti mwamveketsa kwanu komanso momwe mumawonera yankho.
Lankhulani pafupipafupi
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Mnzanu umagwira ntchito kwa inu
Sikofunikira kunena china apa: Nthawi zina kuwoneka kokwanira kumvetsetsa zomwe munthu akuganiza za inu. Ndizosasangalatsa kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, yesetsani kupewa zonena za samwazi komanso zonyoza. Kunyoza sikoyenera m'moyo wabanja. Pangani ndemanga kwa bwenzi lanu ngati alolera kuti azikhala ndi mzimu pa adilesi yanu.
Nkhanza ndi milandu
Mukangoyamba kuthetsa vutoli ndi kuukira, khalani ndi vuto. Zomwezo zimagwiranso paphwando lachiwiri. Ndikovuta kwambiri kumanga kukambirana kothandiza munthu wina aliyense yemwe ali ndi mwamuna wokwatirana naye, ndipo samalungamitsidwa nthawi zonse. Kuti mupewe izi, yesani kulowa m'malo mwa mnzake ndipo mungoyerekeza momwe amaonera nkhaniyi. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa zomwe munthu wina akumva, ndiye kuti mutha kulankhula kale za kukhazikitsidwa kwa maubale.
Osamayenda nokha
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Mnzanu Atatsanzi
Mukamanga banja, ndikofunikira kuphunzira momwe mungapezere mnzanu wa mnzanu, kuti musiye anthu ena. Kuphatikiza apo, mnzanu angaganize kuti mumamukomera, koma mukungofuna kuchita nawo mkangano. Yesani kukambirana zinthu zosamveka zonse zomwe zimabuka m'moyo wanu.
Mumakumbukira nthawi zonse
Ngakhale panali zodabwitsa bwanji, anthu amakumbukira bwino zoyipa, osati zomveka. Komabe, kukumbutsa mwamunayo mwanjira iliyonse yosavuta kulakwitsa: muyenera kuthetsa vutoli, osasinthanso lawi latsopanoli. Khalani pano, osaganizira zovuta zakale, kuphatikizapo, popanda cholakwika, ndizosatheka kudziwa kufunika kwa ubale wabwino.
Pezani njira yothandizira mnzake
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