Loto ili lidandifika mwa mwayi, koma sindingathe kuthandizanso kuti apa ndi chitsanzo. Ili ndi fanizo lowoneka la momwe maloto amasonyezera malingaliro athu kwa iwo eni, zomwe zilipo kale kapena zochitika zakale. Amawonetsanso kusintha kwa zikhulupiriro zathu.
Chitsanzo cha masiku ano ndi cholota ndi mayi wachichepere wa tsiku lobadwa ake. Kwenikweni, ndiye tchuthi china. Ndili ndi ubwana, chifukwa chambiri - Ichi ndi chifukwa chosangalalira, mawu ofunda, abwenzi, mphatso. Achikulire, timapitiliza kuchita chikondwerero ichi: abwenzi ndi abale athu akuti timalankhula mawu ofunda, apatseni kenakake, kupereka zakumwa pagome ena, pali njira yotsika mtengo. Koma ngati mungayang'ane chithunzichi, timakondwerera kuti chaka chilichonse ndife komanso zaka zambiri, moyo wathu ukuchepa, zomwe tikufuna, nkhawa, kukhumudwitsa kwathu mwayi wosowa. Izi sizilinso chisangalalo chokhala, tsiku lobadwa limakhalanso zovuta kwa inu.
Kotero kalata ya maloto athu imayamba:
"Tsiku langa lobadwa, lomwe ndi chiyambi champhamvu kwambiri chakhalabe mwa ine."
Sindingapereke chilichonse kalata, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa momwe zimakhalira kumapeto kwa nkhani ina. Patsikuli, adadikirira kuyitanidwa ndi amayi, koma sanadikire. Agogo ake aamunawo anafunsa, ndi zaka zingapo panyumba yamayi ndi mwana wamkazi. Ndipo chilankhulo chachikulu chinayamba kufotokoza kuti mayi wa ngwazi wathu wamaloto amakhulupirira kuti ndalama ndizofunikira kuchokera kwa iye. Ndikofunikira kunena kuti mayi ndi mayi wamkulu wokhala kwa nthawi yayitali amapeza ndalama zokha. Maloto athu adakwiya ndikunena kuti zonse sizimvera ndipo sizimalola kuti zisauzidwe ndi malingaliro ake kuti azikhala ndi mlandu wolumikizana ndi amayi atakwanitsa kucheza ndi mayi zomwe azipanga zokambirana zatsopano, zoyera limodzi.
Tsopano kugona kwake:
"Zitatha izi panali maloto ambiri, omwe amakumbukiridwa: Ndimayang'ana msungwana yemwe akuyenda pabwalo lamaya, atatenga kanthawi, ndikuwona chipwirikiti, ndi Mtundu wina wa mtembo, chivundikiro cha phukusi lakuda. Ndikumvetsetsa kuti mtsikanayo adalumpha kuchokera kumawaya pansi pa sitimayo. Ndikumva kuti ndili ndi mlandu, ndimawopa, mwadzidzidzi wina akudziwa kuti ndine wolakwa. Nditadzuka, inali lingaliro lotsutsa - ngati kuti ndachita chinthu chofunikira komanso chamtengo wapatali, ndipo gawo lidasiyidwa mwa ine, lomwe lidayambitsa sewero lalikulu. "
Mwinanso mfundo yomveka bwino yomwe adadzipereka yekha. Mzimayi akusamba pa mawaya ndi gawo laubwenzi ndi amayi: Gawo lililonse losasamala ndi dontho kapena kuwomba kwapano. Koma mmalo iye mwini amayima ndikuyang'ana tsoka lotsatira, ngakhale kuizwa kuti lizigwa kuchokera m'mawaya. Nthawi yomweyo, iyi ndi gawo la moyo wake, wodalira zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa ngozi za ngoziyi, zidamalizidwa monga maloto ake adawululira ndikumanga agogo ake ndi agogo ake.
Timamufunira zabwino zonse ndi kupirira pa njirayi.
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Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin