A Anton Khabov adakondana ndi mnzake wa Anterna akadali ku Schepkinsky School ndipo adakwaniritsa malo, monga akuvomereza, ndi chowonadi chonse ndi zabodza. Pamodzi adadutsa moto, madzi ndi mapaipi amkuwa. Nthawi zonse amakhala ndi ubale wachangu. Koma patatha zaka makumi awiri ndikubadwa kwa ana awiri, amafunabe kuti azigwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochulukirapo pamodzi.
- Anton, Lena, nchiani chasintha m'magulu anu pazaka zonsezi?
Anton: Ndikhulupirira kuti tsopano ali bwino kwambiri kuposa nthawi ina, chifukwa timasilira zabwino za wina ndi mnzake, koma zimazolowera zovuta, ndipo ndizofunikanso. M'mbuyomu, Lena adakhumudwa ndi kanthu, ndipo tsopano akumvetsa kuti palibe chifukwa chomangira chinthu chomwecho kwa nthawi ya zana. Zolakwika sizingakonzedwe, ndipo sizingatikwiyitsenso. Timamvana. Mwachitsanzo, Lena modekha amatanthauza kuti ndatopa kwambiri, nditha kufuna kupuma. Chifukwa chake, ndidapita sabata limodzi kupita ku Armenia. Ndipo zimachitika kuti zikhale imodzi. Izi sizitanthauza kuti takhazikika. Timakondana wina ndi mnzake ndikukopa chidwi champhamvu. Timangokhala ndi ufulu waufulu pamaso pa wina ndi mnzake.
Elena: Sindingadziwe kuti mzinda wa Anton ndi chiyani, chifukwa ali ndi ndandanda yamisala yamakanema, ndikuyenda ndi ndege. Pakalipano mukuganiza zambiri za bwenzi kuposa za inu nokha, ndipo simumukwiyitsa. Ndingafunse kuti muli bwanji kuti: "Zonse zili bwino, ndimagona." Ndipo pamene tidayamba kulumikizana, adagwirizana, ndipo kulumikizana kudakhala kosalekeza.
Anton: Ndikukumbukira momwe ndimakhalira m'mudzimo chilimwe, ndipo Lena - ku Kaliningrad, ndipo tidasowana. Kunalibe mafoni, ndipo tinalemberana makalata ena. Ndinkadikirira Wolembayo! Ngati kalatayo inali tsamba la awiri, osati anayi, ndiye kuti ndinali wokhumudwa kwambiri. Nthawi yomweyo anayankha, ndipo tinapambana pafupi ndi kalata pa sabata, amayenda kwa nthawi yayitali. Makalatawa adasungabe.
Elena: Mukakhala palimodzi kwa zaka zambiri, nthawi zina mumayenda - chifukwa chabwino chophonyerana.
- Kodi mungakwanitse kuyankha kumbali?
Anton: Zedi. Nditha kukondwerera kukongola kwa akazi ena, monga Lena - amuna. Titha kukambirana. Ndili ndi wodziwika bwino yemwe amalamulira mkazi wake, koma kwenikweni ndi chinyengo. Kusintha, zokwanira mphindi khumi.
"Charter darr, ndimatha kukwera. Ndipo Lena ayenera kukhala wokha. Izi sizitanthauza kuti takhala tikukondana. Timakondana wina ndi mnzake"
Chithunzi: Polina Bunny
- Lena, kodi sukuchita nsanje ndi anton konse?
Elena: NJIRA sizingakhale, ichi ndi chokhazikika kwathunthu. Ndikofunikira kuti izi sizitembenukira ku Mania ndipo sizinawononge moyo kapena wina.
- Mu mikangano omwe nthawi zambiri amatenga gawo loyamba kuyanjananso?
Anton: Yemweyo panthawiyi ndi wokhazikika m'maganizo, yemwe ali ndi chilonda chocheperako ndipo chakhumudwitsa. Koma wamkulu, ndidzasiya ndewu kwa nthawi yayitali. Ngakhale zimatengera mutuwo. Tikukonza tsopano, timalumbira mphindi iliyonse ndikuseka nthawi yomweyo. Lero sindinathetse pa nthawi yachiwiriyi, sindingathandize, ndikumuuza kuti: "Titchule burgede," ndipo adayamba kuchita zachinyengo. Pali ma bolts atatu oti musabbrere. " Kapena akufuna nyali imodzi, ndipo ine ndine wina. Koma ndikumvetsetsa kuti khitchini ndi gawo lake, koma muofesi yanga nditha kuchita momwe ndimakondera, ndipo ndimakonda Kuwala.
- Ndipo pamaso pa malingaliro ndi kufuula za chisudzulo kapena kuyenda kwakanthawi kopanda?
Anton: Titha kuwopseza wina ndi mnzake kuti wina achoka, koma ngakhale patsikulo silinapite. Zonsezi zanenedwa m'mitima.
- Kuyamba kukhala pansi pa denga limodzi, kodi munamvetsetsa kuti ambiri ndi anthu osiyana kapena ofanana?
Elena: Zikuwoneka kuti tagwirizana ndi "umagwirira" oyera ", zina zonse zokhudzana ndi zomwe zidapezeka pambuyo pake. (Akumwetulira.)
"Anthu akakhala limodzi komanso ali ndi vuto, ndi loyipa ndipo wachiwiri. Amayi amakhala okonzeka kupita kwa katswiri wazamisala ndikuthetsa mavuto, koma palibe amuna"
Chithunzi: Polina Bunny
- ndi chiyani?
Elena: Banja, ana, luso. Titha kulumikizana ndi munthu wina, osakambirana, koma pafupifupi timakondana naye nthawi zonse. Muzokhudza zochitika, zokonda, zomwe zimakonda zimakhala zosiyana, koma tili ndi malingaliro ofanana ndi moyo. Koma sichoncho, tinabwera ku izi.
Anton: Timakonda ochita zosiyana, mafilimu osiyanasiyana, magwiridwe, mabuku. Ngakhale, zoona, pali zochitika zina, pali makumi asanu ndi 50. Koma wamkulu, kukhala ndi zosangalatsa komanso zokonda komanso zokonda sikofunikira. Tsopano ndagonja ndi nkhawa, Lena anachita zinthu zomaliza ndi mnzake. Chinthu chachikulu ndi maudindo am'munsi, malingaliro amoyo, malingaliro oyipa ndi abwino sitingogwirizana, ndipo nthawi zina zimawoneka ngati kuti ndife munthu yemweyo.
- Kodi zizolowezi zapanyumba zidasiyana kwambiri?
Elena: Inde! Mutha kulota chilichonse, koma m'moyo weniweni - kupangidwa ndi zizolowezi za munthu wokondedwa. (Kuseka.) Kulowa chibwenzi mu m'badwo wamng'ono kwambiri, kawirikawiri, timapitilizabe kukhala ndi makonzedwe a makolo, ngakhale titachoka kunyumba, ngati ine. Mukamabwera ku chinthu chanu, nthawi idzadutsa.
- Ndipo Anton adakudabwitsani bwanji?
Elena: Anton ali ndi banja lokondwerera kwambiri, nyumbayo yakhala ikudzala ndi alendo, zokambirana, nyimbo zomwe timakumana nazo . Koma pamapeto pake zinachitika. Ine ndimangokonda alendo, ndipo Anton ndi otsekeka kwambiri pankhaniyi. Kwa iye kuti atole kampaniyo ndi mtundu wapadera. Koma ndikumvetsetsa kuti mukamagwira ntchito kuyambira m'mawa mpaka madzulo, chipani chopanda phokoso kunyumba sichosankha chanu.
- Chifukwa chake palibe chodabwitsa wina ndi mnzake tsopano?
Anton: Palibe zodabwitsa zapadziko lonse lapansi, koma zomwe zimachitika nthawi zina zimakhala zachilendo. Tidakali chosangalatsa kwa wina ndi mnzake. Ndikaona Lena amapanga yoga, nthawi iliyonse imasilira chithunzi chake, mitundu yake. Nthawi zonse amawoneka wokongola. Kuwoneka ngati, muyenera kuthamanga, sikungonama pa rug. Ndipo ndikufuna kukonda kwambiri. Ndikakhala kunyumba kwanthawi yayitali, nthawi zonse ndimabweretsa ma tsitsi kuti nthawi yomweyo ndimatenga nthawi yomweyo kuwonekera patsogolo pake m'njira yabwino kwambiri. Ndiye kuti, tidzaonetsana ndi kunyengererana. (Kuseka.)
- Mwakhala moyo wokwanira popanda ana. Ndikumudziwa anton ngakhale nthabwala, zomwe zikuyembekezera, akamakula ndikusiyani ...
Anton: Ndidakali ndi Lena. Ambiri amakhulupirira, kuphatikizanso ine, kuti ali ndi ana atatu: Vladik, Alina ndi Anton (amaseka), chifukwa ndimafunikiranso maso ndi maso. Ndili wokondwa ngati tili ndi mwayi wopita kwina. Koma ana athu onse ndi ofunikira. Ndinkafuna mwana, mwana wanga wamwamuna woyamba, ndimamudziwa kale momwe ndingamuumbire. Ndine munthu wonyoza kwambiri, Lena ndi wosiyana kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ndimapita ku hotelo yomweyo zaka zisanu, ndipo akuti ndizosatheka kale. Ndipo ndimayamba kupuma, ndikangokhala ndi matikiti ndikusungidwa mu hoteloyi.
"Ndimakonda kutsegula opanga madera kulikonse kuti zinthu zikhale" moyo. "Ndipo ndimatha kuyenda mu zaka zitatu, ngati simunapeze ena"
Chithunzi: Polina Bunny
- Nthawi zonse mumapuma popanda ana. Ndipo sanafunse kwina konse, sanakhumudwe?
Elena: Zaka zitatu zapitazo, tonse tinali limodzi ku Georgia, kenako atapumula ndi Anton. Tinakhala bwino nthawi zonse. Tsopano Alina ali wokonzeka kupita kwina, ndipo Vladi, ali ndi zaka 14, yemwenso alibe. Adzaulandira kwa anthu oli ambalawa, sakananena kuti, Ndidzalandira kwa inu, makolo. (Kuseka.) Koma palibe amene ali ndi mwayi. Tiyenera kukhala kwa nthawi yayitali. Ndilinso ndi mnzanga, amakhalanso ndi ubale wabwino kwambiri ndi mwamuna wake, koma m'maganizo mwake amakhulupirira kuti anawo adabereka amayi ake, chifukwa nthawi zonse amakhalanso kwa iwo onse palimodzi. Tiyenera kumvetsetsa momwe muli bwino.
Anton: Ana amapita ku Turkey ndi agogo ndi Lena nanenso. Tsopano ndakhala mwezi wonse ku Sevastopol, amatulutsa chithunzithunzi "magazi pa deck". Lena adabwera kwa ine ndi mwana wake wamkazi. Ndipo Vladik sanafune, kukhala ndi agogo ake, anali ndi mtsikana panthawiyo. (Kuseka.) Sindinakakamize.
- Ngati mukudziwa za mtsikana, ndiye kuti mumakhulupirirana naye?
Anton: Ndaphunzira za izi kuchokera ku Lena. Vlad akugawana naye mogwirizana naye, chifukwa nthawi zambiri amakhala kunyumba komanso pafupi ndi ana. Koma mwana sapempha Asovieti. Ali pano ali m'badwo umenewo pamene abambo si ulamuliro kwa iye. Ndipo izi ndizabwinobwino. Izi sizitanthauza kuti samandiyika pachilichonse, ili ndi malingaliro ake, ndipo ndine wokondwa nazo.
Elena: Timalankhula ana ambiri, ndimayesetsa kuwafunsa kuti afunse chilichonse. Ndikhulupirira kuti kale mu Kirdergen iyenera kuphatikizidwa nawo chilankhulo wamba. Kenako adzapita nanu kukalankhula momasuka. Mukamadziwa kuti zaka khumi kumayankhula molawirira kuti mulankhule ndi Mwana wa chikondi, za ubale wa abambo ndi amayi, ndiye ndimayankha kuti mwa khumi ndi anayi sadzauza chilichonse.
"Chifukwa chiyani ndikunena kuti muyenera kusamalira thanzi lanu ndikubereka pambuyo pake? Chifukwa mukazindikira kuti muli ndi mavuto anu amkati, simudzawapachikika pa mwanayo. "
Chithunzi: Polina Bunny
- ndi wina ndi mnzake mungakambirane chilichonse?
Anton: Pali zinthu zina zomwe sindimalankhula lena, m'mphepete mwa iye, chifukwa ndikudziwa, sizingakhale zosasangalatsa kwa ife, ngakhale za ife. Ndipo za zokumana nazo zanu zazikulu zomwe zimapita ku neurosisis, ndimauza dokotala, sindimatulutsa. (Kuseka.) Ndipo Lena alipo, ndipo nthawi zina amapita kwa awiriwo. Ndipo kotero tikulankhula za chilichonse, abwenzi apamtima kuposa ife, sititero.
Elena: Anthu akakhala limodzi komanso wina yekhayo amene ali okha kwambiri, ndiye kuti anali woipa komanso wachiwiri. Monga lamulo, azimayi amakhala okonzeka kupita kwa katswiri wazamisala komanso kuthetsa mavuto, ndipo amuna - ayi, koma nditanena kuti: "Anton, ndikofunikira, chifukwa adavomera. Katswiri amathandizira kuthetsa mavuto osasunthika, ndipo munthuyu amayamba kukhala mwanjira ina ndikuwona zinthu zina.
- Tibwerere kwa ana. Mwakutero, mwanjira zakuleredwa, mukupita?
Elena: Zachidziwikire, timayang'ana mbali yomweyo. Chifukwa chiyani ndikunena kuti muyenera kusamalira thanzi lanu ndikubereka pambuyo pake? Chifukwa mukazindikira kuti mavuto anu amkati, simudzawapachikika ndi mwana. Anton ndi wotentha kwambiri. Izi sizitanthauza kuti amayenda pa ana, koma ali kuti? Ngakhale akugwira ntchito yake. Ndikuyang'ananso. Koma chinthu chimodzi pamene mkazi akufuula, ndipo wina - pomwe pafupifupi amuna awiri otalika ndi mapewa otakata ndi bass. Amayi anga okha ndikungofunika, "Chotsani, chitani," ndipo chikhoza kukhala pamitundu yokwezeka, koma kwa ana kumakhala phokoso loyera kale. (Kuseka.) Mwana wanena kuti: "Amayi, chifukwa chiyani ukundifuulira? Tiye tiyeni tizilankhula modekha. " Ndipo ndikuganiza: "Ndipo ndikufuula bwanji?". (Kuseka.)
Anton: Vladika ali ndi zaka zosintha, amafufuza malire a kuthekera kwake ndipo nthawi zambiri amaimira. Kangapo zimalakwitsa zomwezo, zimatsekedwa pamkhalidwe, womwe tiyenera kumuthandiza kukumba. Ndimayesetsa kukhala naye pamawu, koma ndili ndi zonse zoletsa komanso zoletsa. Zachidziwikire, nthawi zina ndimapinda ndodo, ndipo Lena anandichepetsa, akuti ndi Bust. Nthawi zina ngakhale ndikadzakula kwanga, ngakhale kale, pomwe akuwona kuti ndiphulika tsopano. (Kuseka.)
- Kodi ana amakhudzana bwanji ndi zinthu, kutchuka, ndiwe basarut yawo?
Elena: Zimachitika, Vlad imaphimba mafunde, akunena kuti amafunikira zinthu zokha, ndipo nthawi inayake amavala zovala za mwana wa mchimwene. Ndimuuza kuti: "Muli ndi ndalama zina. Mutha kugula Sunsi ngati pali ndalama zokwanira. " Tsopano ndapangira malo olankhula, ndipo mnzake wina adampempha kuti amuthandize, amapeza ndalama. Ndipo mwa njira, sindimakonda makeke, ndimakonda kutsegula opanga madera kulikonse kukhala ndi moyo. Ndipo ine ndimatha kuyenda mu nsapato zina kwa zaka zitatu ngati sindinapeze ena. Ndipo Vlad ndimagula nsapato miyezi iwiri iliyonse, ndipo imapita mwatsopano kusewera mpira. Mafoni alinso mutu wodwala. Amalengeza kuti mkalasi yonse ya iPhone, analinso, koma adamugoneka pomwe anali wololera. Pambuyo pake, ndinati: "Palibe iPhone. Wapeza ndalama, koma chifukwa chiyani amafunikira foni? Timalandira, koma osati pazinthu. Tidzafuna izi nthawi zonse, ndiye - kuti, komanso zopanda malire.
- Lena, kodi sunakhalepo chifukwa chakuti mwamunayo ndi wochita bwino mwaukadaulo?
Elena: Zachidziwikire, ndinazunzidwa ndi ine chifukwa ndidaphunzira zovuta ndikusewera bwino maudindo akuluakulu pasukuluyo. Ndinali ndi chiyembekezo chachikulu. Koma ntchitoyi imatengera zochitika zambiri, ndipo mayiyo alinso ndi chidwi chochita nawo banja, ana. Ndinkada nkhawa, koma ndasintha kale malingaliro anga, kulankhula nanu, kudutsa njira ina. Ndipo tsopano ochita zonse amapita ku Lamulo, ndikukulangizani kuti mubwererenso m'malo mwake, ngakhale zitawoneka kuti mwanayo akadali wochepa. Nthawi zonse adzakhala wocheperako nthawi zonse, monga mwamunayo nthawi zonse amafuna kukuwonani m'banjamo. Koma ngati munthu azikonda, adzazolowera izi ndipo zonse zimvetsetsa. Ndipo ngati sichoncho, mwina simuyenera kukhala limodzi.
- Kodi mudachita nsanje za Anton?
Elena: Ndidazitcha mwanjira ina, koma ngati mukukumba, ndizotheka kutchula dzina ndi kaduka katswiri. Ndidafunsa Anton kuti akathandize kufikira ku zitsanzo, koma sizingakhale mkhalidwe wa ntchito yake. Mwamuna amapanga ntchito yake mosiyana ndi ine. Ngati mukukwanitsa kuchita china palimodzi mu zisudzo kapena m'masitolo, sitikanakana. Ndife omasuka kusewera limodzi. Ndinayamba ndi iye mu "m'bale", koma inali kalekale. Ndipo pa nthawi yoyembekezera, ndinatengedwa popanda zitsanzo m'magawo ambiri, koma sindinalolere nthawi imeneyi, ndimagona m'zipatala. Kenako ndidalumikizidwa kwambiri kunyumba ndi zamaganizidwe pakadali pano. Koma ndikuyang'ana momwe Anton amagwirira ntchito tsopano, ochita zachiwerewere, izi ndi ntchito ya heges. Mwina sindimakonda ntchito imeneyi kumwalira pamalopo. Tsopano ndikusewera zisudzo tsopano, wamalonda adawonekera.
"Timalandira Zinthu, koma osati pazinthu"
Chithunzi: Polina Bunny
- Anton, tangolingalirani zomwe Lenani adakwera kwambiri ndipo adakupezani ...
Anton: Khalani nyenyezi zoposa ine, palibe zovuta izi. (Kuseka.) Uku si fanizo. Ndi megazvera? Koma bwanji? Ndikhala wokondwa chabe.
- Lena, ndi nyumba yomwe muli nayo yokwanira?
Elena: Ndimakonda zinthu zodziwa malo athu kukhala opanda fumbi kulikonse. Koma ndinachira ku kupanda ungwiro ngati izi (kuseka), ndipo nthawi ina tinali ndi wothandizira wapabanja. Koma ana akandiuza kuti: "Izi zitha kuchotsa m'chipinda chathu," ndimayankha kuti adzichotsera. Ana ayenera kukhala ndi ntchito zina kunyumba. Ndipo ndakonzedwa ndi kubwezera, plunthwe, shit, utoto, kubowola zanga. Ndimabisira zojambulazo ndi kuyika njinga.
- Kodi mumachita chifukwa mumakonda kapena chifukwa choti Anton sachita?
Elena: Anton akhala nthawi yayitali m'mudzi m'mudzimo, amadziwa kuchuluka kwake, ndipo ngati kuli koyenera, adzachita chilichonse, koma ndibwino kupempha katswiri. Ndipo ndimakonda kukumba dzenje, kenako ndikuganiza zomwe mungachite. (Kuseka.)