Zachidziwikire, ubale uliwonse umafunikira "kutentha", komanso kugonana kotentha nthawi zina - chida chabwino kwambiri. Koma bwanji ngati munthu saganizira za zogonana popanda kuyanjana kwambiri? Tinaganiza zolingalira funso labwino kwambiri.
Ndi amuna ati omwe nthawi zambiri amawonetsa mkwiyo pabedi
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Mwamuna amene amayesetsa kuwonetsa kuti ndi njira iliyonse. Monga lamulo, munthu wotereyu amachita mwadala mwadala, alibe njira, amuna amtunduwu amalabadira kwambiri za anthu omwe sanamveredwe. Inde, ndipo za akazi, munthu uyu sangathe kulankhula moyenera.
Amayi ambiri ndi ovuta kuthyola ubalewo.
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Mutu wawukulu
Mwamuna wokhala ndi utsogoleri amakhala pagulu lalikulu. Ndipo mphamvu yochulukirapo ili ndi munthu wotere, chifundo chochepa chanu chikhala pabedi. Tsoka ilo, munthuyu amaona kuti kugonana kokha kuchotsa kusamvana, chisangalalo cha mawuwo pano sichimapita.
Ndipo zonse zalakwika
Munthu amene sanachitike pachilichonse. Zolephera pamsewu kapena m'moyo wotere munthu wotere akukumana ndi kama: amakoka wokondedwa monga momwe angathere, osamvetsera zofuna zake. Monga lamulo, munthu wotere akuyang'ana mkazi yemwe sangayerekeze kukangana.
Momwe mungachitire kutembenuka kwa mkazi
Tsoka ilo, azimayi ambiri amakonda kupirira chidwi choterechi, monga chifukwa chinanso sangathetse ubalewo ndi munthu wankhanza. Akazi abanja ndi ovuta kwambiri: ana ndi zopinga zingapo, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zachilengedwe, osalola kuti mkazi achoke. Nthawi zina, azimayi amakhulupirira kuti mnzanuyo adzasintha, ndipo chifukwa cha izi muyenera kudikirira pang'ono. Komabe, anthu amasintha kawirikawiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri sakhala abwino.
Ndipo komabe, ngati simukufuna kusokoneza ubale, choyamba ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti kukwiya kosalekeza pabedi si kokhazikika, komwe kumatanthauza kuti muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti mwamunayo akumvetsetsa. Koma ndikofunikira kuzichita mosasintha komanso osati mwamphamvu - mumangochoka kwa wina ndi mnzake ndipo sipadzakhala zotsatira. Modekha, koma mosalekeza alekeni kuti mnzanu mumvetsetse kuti mukufuna kukhala ndi chikondi cha munthu ngati munthu wakonzedwanso kuti akwaniritse maubale, adzakumva.