Nthawi zambiri, maloto samakwaniritsidwa, akamagwira ntchito mosiyanasiyana: Thandizani malingaliro athu ogwirizana kuti athane ndi nkhawa masana, miyezi yambiri, kwa zaka zambiri.
Komabe, zilembo zina za owerenga athu zimakakamizidwa kuyang'ana maloto aulosi ena.
Ndipo ngakhale adakumana ndi kuwona kuti alipo.
Mwachitsanzo, bwanji malotowa:
"Musanakumane ndi mwamuna wamtsogolo, ndinalota maloto, ndinazindikira. Ankawona kuti posachedwa adzakumana ndi mwamuna wake.
Ndakhala mu udzu. Ndine wocheperako, ndipo udzu ndi waukulu ngati mitengo. Ndi mtundu wonse wowoneka bwino-saladi. Tiyenera kunena kuti mitundu yonse yomwe ili m'malo ano panali owala, olemera, monga amatona okongola.
Ndikuwona momwe mbalame zazikulu zimakhalira kumwamba. Ndipo amawuluka kwa ine. Zimapezeka kuti ndakhala mchisa. Ichi ndi chisa chofiirira chokhala ndi masamba akulu owala a lalanje ndi nthenga zoyera. Koma chisa sichiri pamtengo, osati pathanthwe. Zimapachikika mlengalenga, pamwala, ufa ufa wowutsa. Ndipo mozungulira mlengalenga pali zilumba zambiri ndi udzu ndi zisa. Mphepete mwa nkhumba imanyamuka ndikukhala pachisa, ndipo ndimakhala wodekha, wamtendere komanso wokondwa! Zonse zokongola kwambiri. Ndimadzuka ndikuganiza kuti ndidzakumana ndi wokondedwa wanga, zomwe zidachitika m'mbuyomu milungu ingapo. "
Chosangalatsa chotere, chotanganidwa komanso chowonekera kwathunthu. Nthawi yomweyo imadziwikiratu chifukwa chake sanayambitse kutanthauzira kuchokera m'maloto.
Komabe, ndikofunikira kunena mawu ochepa omwe amagona nawonso ndi mawu a malingaliro athu, monga ngwazi yathu. Mkazi wowonda kwambiri komanso wowonda amatha kumva, amalota mwatsatanetsatane, zomveka komanso zomveka.
Ndikotheka kusangalala poti maloto athu ali ndi lingaliro lalikulu.
Ndipo inu a inu amene mukuphunzira kumvera malingaliro awo - Malangizo angapo:
1. Kukonda ndi kuthekera mwamphamvu mwamphamvu. Itha kupangidwa ngati maluso ndi luso linalake. Komabe, sizilekerera mkangano. Masana, amagawa nthawi kuti amvere zomwe zimakuchitikirani. Yikani kupuma kwa tsiku ndi tsiku.
2. Osaganizira malingaliro onse achilendo, achilendo, achilendo, osazolowereka amkhutu. Bernard Shaw anati: "Musakhale oganiza bwino, khalani osakhazikika. Mozungulira anthu osasinthika padziko lapansi. "
3. Funsani pafupipafupi: Kodi mukufuna kuchita chiyani zomwe mukulota. Ambiri adzadabwa ndi kusiyana pakati pa zomwe amachita, chifukwa nkofunikira, komanso kuti mzimu umasangalatsa.
Mwina tikuthokoza njira zosavuta izi, maloto anu adzaonekeranso, olemera amangodziwa moyo. Mafala Akutoma Nawo!
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Maria zemykova, wamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso kutsogolera kwa maphunziri a Center Working Center Marina