Ndi misomali yachichepere, tinayesetsa kulimbikitsa kuti manyazi - ngakhale zili bwino. Monga, kudzichepetsa kumakongoletsa munthu. Komabe, nthawi zambiri kuchitira manyazi - kumatanthauza kukumana ndi mavuto polankhulana. Munthu wamanyazi ali mu voliyumu komanso kuuma pokhudzana ndi anthu ndikuwombolera zochitika.
Kodi manyazi kwambiri kumabweretsa chiyani?
Popeza sanavutike anthu ndi ovuta kupanga atsopano. Monga lamulo, anthu amanyazi amakhala ndi kudzidalira: amawopa kufotokoza malingaliro awo, kuteteza ufulu wawo ndikunena zomwe akufuna. Awa nthawi zambiri amakhala anthu omwe amakhala m'malo omwewo. Nthawi zambiri, santelayiti amanyazi ndi kusungulumwa, nkhawa ndi kukhumudwa.
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Zoyenera kuchita?
Choyamba, yesani kudziwa komwe mukukhala osatsimikiza ndi mantha? Muyenera kumvetsetsa ndikukambirana nanu. Simusiyana ndi ena. Ndinu munthu woyenera komanso wosangalatsa komanso kukhala ndi ufulu ku malingaliro anu. Osadziunjikira nokha ndi zabwino zanu. Mumadalira malingaliro a munthu wina, koma wina amadalira wanu.
Phunzirani modekha ndikudziyesa nokha kuchokera kumbali, osaganizira za momwe angaganizire za inu. Masomphenya oterewa adzakuphunzitsani pang'onopang'ono kudzifufuza mosiyana.
Yesetsani kuti musamachitire chilichonse mwamphamvu, koma dzisekerere, ndi manyazi anu, ndikulola kuti ena achite. Mosavuta komanso wopanda nkhawa zamkati. Mudzaona kuti mumayamba kudzichitira masewera olimbitsa thupi ndipo mudzachitapo kanthu panjira kuti mukhale ndi chidaliro.
Kumbukirani milandu yonse ndi mikhalidwe yomwe mumadzinyadira. Komwe mwawonetsa kuuma kwanu komanso chidaliro chanu. Yesani "kukhala" moyo "uwu mkati, ndipo posakhalitsa mwayikidwa mu izo.
Pitani ku maphunziro a zojambulajambula kapena zojambulajambula. Kumenekonso maluso apadera, chifukwa chomwe mungaphunzire kupulumutsidwa komanso kukhala ndi chidaliro. Komanso, mumayang'ana mantha m'maso. Zomwe mukuwopa kwambiri, zomwe mumakhala pagulu ndikuyankhula pamaso pake, ndiye njira yamphamvu kwambiri yolimbana ndi mawonekedwe osafunikira.
Dziwani nokha ndikuyesera kuyang'ana nthawi zonse pa "5". Pali mgwirizano wapakati pa mawonekedwe ndi momwe mumazindikira nokha. Ndi bwino momwe mumawonekera, wotsimikiza kwambiri womwe mukumva.
Pamene Einstein anati: "Utsiru waukulu ndi wochita chimodzimodzi ndi chiyembekezo china chilichonse." Ngati simuyesera kuchita zina zomwe zimakupangitsani kuti musakayikire, zingakhale zovuta kupirira khalidweli. Kamodzi pa nthawi yatsopano chifukwa cha inu mumayesa kuchita motsutsana momwe mudachitira kale. Izi ndi izi: molimba mtima, momasuka, kuti muchite kapena kunena zomwe mukufuna.